After he moved out to be with another MAN? It's not my dilemma. I was reading a book about it and the woman still loves him??? I don't think there is anything to think about. NO YOU CANNOT COME BACK HOME!!! The husband is begging to come back because he says sex with a man is not what he thought it would be...WTF???
2007-08-27 08:57:08 · 47 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
PLEASE READ the entire question and stop assuming i'm talking about myself. I'm reading a book written by Victoria Christopher Murray called Ex Files. This is Not MY LIFE i'm talking about here guys...it's in the book!
2007-08-27 09:06:56 · update #1
it's going to be a H*LL NO - let him be confused all by himself
2007-08-27 09:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by lynnette 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay first off to all the women assuming that ALL gay men have diseases stop being stupid. Would I let my husband come back after he was with a man? Thats hard because Ive never been in that position I do know that sometimes women as well as men feel the need to "explore" whats out there. However if I still loved my husband I still dont think I'd let him come back regardless of if it was for another woman or a man.
2007-08-27 09:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by texas_angel_wattitude 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm with you! I would not let him come home. I can understand still having love for her husband and it would be hard i think to accept the fact that he left you for a man but whether it was a man or woman the fact is he cheated on you and left you. How can you trust this man again and let him back home after he left you? What if he does it again? Would you let him back again? Point is if he loved his wife he wouldn't have left her especially not like that.
2007-08-27 09:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Phat T 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all if a man leave his wife to be with another man than
he saids that its not what he thought it would be.
she should not take him back he should have tried this before he ever thought about getting married. If she still loves him she needs her head checked out.
2007-08-27 09:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yuck. i would tell him that you married someone under false pretenses and whether he moved out to be with a man or woman is irrelevant at this point. this relationship isn't his true calling and he needs to go out into the world and find himself. you guys can still be friends if viable but i would not take him back. he's not the person you thought you married.
2007-08-27 09:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should never put yourself in a position where you are a option and not the priority. He didnt say because he knew it was wrong, and he loved you. Dont be the fool for love.
2007-08-27 09:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by dcallandmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you allow him to come back home after he has moved out to be with another woman? I don't think it has anything to do with who he was with. I think if he left to be with ANYONE he shouldn't be allowed back. I don't think gender is the issue here.
2007-08-27 09:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Me baby Me 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Having sex with someone else is cheating man or woman, no he would not come back!
2007-08-27 09:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LMFAO AHAHAHAHAHAH oh man. your husband ditches you for a man because he wants some? unless your okay w/ him being so curious hahahahaha. he already left, letting him back in will show your a pushover. he tries something new doesnt like it, picks up the old one again. yup. not gonna happen.
2007-08-27 09:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by asdfjfks 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
All i can say is... That's a lot of BEE EES. Only a dumb girl would allow a man who have sexual realtions with a guy to return and sleep with her again!
2007-08-27 09:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by doc coolmac no PHD 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure... he could come watch me get my groove on with the new man in my bed... only to remember what he left
2007-08-27 09:02:39 · answer #11 · answered by georgia k 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋