he always says this is just one of his e-mail buddies, but one day I came to visit him at work and on his computer was a e-mail he sent this woman saying honey do this for me love G, when I asked he said he doesn't even now this woman except by e-mail, but when I went thru his roller dex on his desk her name and home and work number he had it all, she now e-mails at home little spiritual things saying god loves you and stuff like that, my husband is starting to drink every day, and one time I saw his car parked in front of a aprtment building were one of the woman lives
2007-08-27 03:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is cheating on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-27 03:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by melody 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not certain what you are asking, but yes, it sure sounds like he is cheating. If you saw his car parked in front of her apartment building, and he is telling you she is just some e-mail buddy, then you already know he is lying. I just say that the next time you see his car parked next to her apartment building, give him a call on his cell phone and ask him where he is real innocent like. He no doubt will lie and say he is working late or at the gym or something like that. Then when he hangs up, you can use his spare key and just let yourself into his car and sit there until he comes out. Bottom line, it sure looks like he is cheating on you and now you need to decide what you are going to do about it.
2007-08-27 04:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks to me it's time to really demand answers to a bunch of questions that you have of your husband. Ask...just ask.
You, as his wife, has the right to know why there is an emotional friendship with someone who is "just a person he talks to via e-mail."
Why would he even have a woman like that if he is happily married? There shouldn't be anything like that at all.
Demand Answers...if you feel your not getting them or he is being evasive...tell him bluntly that you don't believe him.
If he has any respect for his wife there shouldn't be anything to hide.
Personally finding my spouses vehicle at a woman's residence would really make me think that something is going on.
Someone isn't being honest in this relationship. And without honesty or trust...there isn't really any relationship at all.
2007-08-27 04:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating yup. He will lie continiuosly about it, as most cheaters do. If you want to know the real truth contact a PI or cheaters (the tv show) to catch his sorry *** in the act. Say a prayer, pack his bags, and try to find some piece of mind. Good luck!
2007-08-27 04:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by charm_link 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously having an affair. You need to confront him and tell him that you know, and nothing he says is going to convince you otherwise. Demand the truth. If he continues to deny it, then you have no choice but to file for divorce, imo. If he does admit it, then you have some options. Number one, you need to get to the bottom of why he was cheating.
2007-08-27 04:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by meagain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of proof that he is cheating with at least one woman and probably two or more.
Call his bluff. Tell him that if he does not tell you the truth you will divorce him for cheating. Once he spills the beans, divorce him.
Take care,
Troy
2007-08-27 04:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need to catch them in bed to see what is going on here? Wake up!!! This is not innocent. You need to get some help for yourself. You are not looking at this clearly. I am not judging you, just telling you that he is not honest with you. I would not accept this behavior from my fiancee.
Take care of yourself and get some help!
2007-08-27 04:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out who this woman is and your husband needs to tell you. You are in all your right to be concerned about this. If this doesn't stop, you need to make big decisions about your marriage.
2007-08-27 04:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then I guess the only question is when you confront him are you giving him a chance to try and rebuild your relationship. That is one thing I dont think I could forgive my husband for but it is your choice to make.
2007-08-27 04:02:03 · answer #9 · answered by sarah W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it all sounded pretty innocent and forgivable until you said you saw his car outside her apartment.......i think you know what happened in that situation. There is no excuses for that
2007-08-27 04:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know. Your intuition is barking loud enough that you're already checking on him to see if he's lying or no. Pay attention, Honey. I think you aready know the answer.
2007-08-27 04:02:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋