Unbeknownst to my boyfriend, I just discovered that he has a fancy for teen & mother/daughter porn. I have no issues with him looking at porn. However, I must admit that I am a little disturbed and weirded out by his tastes in pleasure. I don't know if this is something I should be concerned about or not. Is it ok as long as it's just fantasy and not reality? Any mature advice would be appreciated.
2007-08-27 04:01:51 · 23 answers · asked by ravenmickey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get the F-uc-K away from him FAST before you both get locked up! Pornography involving the under age is quite illegal. Besides being illegal, mother / daughter sexual pornography is simply SICK S-HIT!
Should you be concerned? ARE YOU NUTS? RUN AWAY, RUN AWAY!
By the way, thanks for the points!!
2007-08-27 04:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Porn can be destructive in so many ways. You should have a problem with your boyfriend looking at it. He is lusting over other women, young girls (teens) and incest (mother/daughter) and that should send up all kinds of red flags about where his mind is and what turns him on. Porn by itself between a man and woman is enough to be worried about, but when it starts to work into the extremes like you mentioned, that is a point for concern. He hides it because he knows it is out there. Even if it is only something he likes to watch on TV or the Internet now, soon that will not be enough and he will either want more hard core or real life...
2007-08-27 11:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep his weird behind away from any daughters, nieces, single moms or other teen family or friends you know! Fantasy is just a reality away from some weirdo acting it out. Nothing wrong with porn, but being that its unbeknownst to him that you are aware of this specific scenery, he may need a sitting down to let him know you know so its all out in the open.
2007-08-27 11:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as it's legal porn then it's ok. Ever watch the who Nip/Tuck? They did a bout 3 episodes where the character Dr. Troy was sleeping with a Mother Daughter combo. Trust me I am sure that your boyfriend doesn't fantasize about you and and your mom ganging up on him. Porn like that is what I like to call Reality Porn, as in reality TV(you know scripted, but shown on TV as if it just happened that way), the type of porn you boyfriend is watching has a huge humor factor to it. I honestly enjoy watching porn for the comical entertainment value as well for the TandA. I wouldn't think anything of it. And honestly try watching the porn with your boyfriend if he will let you. You mind see it for a funny movie with naked people instead of just sex on camera.
2007-08-27 11:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by sa_183327 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he doesn't know that you know..........well...how do you know?? Are you spying on him somehow? Did you find one or two websites or hundreds? I know that sometimes when we surf porn these sites pop up when we're looking in another category. Ask him if he's into it or if he stumbled upon it. You say you have no issues and yet you are spying on him..you might want to re-think your stance. I bet if you ask him about this, he will explain it as only he can. Be his wife, not his mother, let him open up about his fantasy life. It might be as simple as him stumbling on these sites by mistake. Good luck :)
2007-08-27 11:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are minors in the porn then your man is a pedafile. I can say that my man likes to watch porn, but nothing weird like that. I think it's sick and like I said if these girls are young teenagers then he is probably a child molester in the making!
2007-08-27 11:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
be concerned.
how do you feel thinking he maybe fantasizing about you and your mother doing it? also how old are these teens he is looking at? too how old is he? how do you feel out at the mall with him and he sees a 'hot teen', and during your love making he is thinking of her?
and you should have issues with him looking at porn, its disrespectful to you and women in general. adult porn notoriously is linked to child porn and the money making is in the billions. too studies show that men who are into porn are very immature and at some point the looking will not be enough. when you find out that he is cheating you cannot blame anyone but yourself for 'accepting' his behavior and him for being immature and incapable of controlling his behavior.
2007-08-27 11:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by ?! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not be concerned as long as the material is legal. That is as long as its not some underground bad stuff. Men are often kinky and have kinky fantasies. Talk to him about it and try to be a partner in his naughtiness, rather than an outside observer.
2007-08-27 22:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you might want to talk to him about it. For many men, porn can be addicting. It may be a problem in the future. I suggest having a mature and calm conversation with him about it. If you aren't so sure about that, give it time to let things unfold.
2007-08-27 11:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is creepy and definitely something to be concerned about if you are planning to marry this guy. We all have fetishes, but this one resides in the gray area. You might want to talk to him about how you feel about it and together seek professional help. good luck.
2007-08-27 11:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is one thing but mother /daughter and little girl stuff is a little odd. Teenagers...sounds pedafile like...i would bring it up to him and talk to him about it, if he has a sister, ask him how he would feel if someone felt that way about his mother and sister
2007-08-27 11:08:03 · answer #11 · answered by risac 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋