My BF was a very hot headed person, but has calm down TON. I wasn’t in the picture when he was headed. But now he feels that ppl are trying to test him. (Pride issue). He calls me to vent about things but I don't know what to say. I try to tell him to be the bigger man, but since his brother is a well know artist and he is also an artist. He feels that he must defend everything. IE: We where at the club the other nite and some guy just came up and threw money at him. That’s very disrespectful in his eyes. I was able to clam him down but is there anything I really can say are do. He has valid reasons to be upset but not to fight. I want him to know that I will be there for him no matter what, but I don't want him to get in trouble over some crazy stuff. Any tips on what and how to say things to him when he is upset. And so that his pride is being affected.
2007-08-27 05:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is only a matter of time before he explodes from all the pent-up frustration he is feeling; he will most likely explode at you, since you are around him most of the time.
He needs to see a counselor to find out why he is so temperamental.
You need to start making contingency plans for when things deteriorate.
2007-08-27 05:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are going to try and change a person?
Wake up you can't change anyone.
Are you going to take on as life time work of fixing this guy or give him time and room to mature on his own.
Life is too short to have crap like this in your life.
2007-08-31 12:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by dadw5boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a hothead by choice.....not much you can say to someone who wants to blow up every time they feel they have been wronged....Why do you feel it is your responsibility to keep him calm? He is a grown man and should have more self control.
2007-08-27 12:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋