Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2007

2007-07-26 04:36:42 · 26 answers · asked by cindybells 2

I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We both say that this relationship is the longest for both of us. He is really my first serious boyfriend and I love him so much. Lately he has been talking about marriage and moving in together. I know I am to young to marry but he is 2 years older and ready to settle down. He respects me wanting to finish college first and he wants time to establish his career and save up so money but he wants to get engaged. It scares me because he is my first at everything just about. I havent experience other relationships but thats a good thing at least im not earning a whore rep. I love him so much and couldn't imagine life without him but would i be crazy to marry the first guy i fell for?

2007-07-26 04:34:13 · 19 answers · asked by K 2

Last night my son (3 yrs) came to our bed and when he does this he wants his Dad and only his Dad to return him to his bed. We struggled for over a year to get him to sleep in his own bed and so I really want him to be returned to his bed. Some nights my husband is so sleepy he doesn't realize and my son stays in our bed all night and wakes up the baby (in our room) in the morning by talking loudly or the other way around. Anyway, last night he came to the bed and was just standing their kind of crying because my husband wouldn't get up to return him and I was tapping him on the shoulder and he just kept sleeping, so finally he jumped up and said to me "I don't give a SH*T, I'm so sick of you!!" right in front of my son and woke up the baby.

The next morning I called him about something to do with our bills and was short with him and he is asking me what's wrong and I said "I really don't want to talk about it now" and he kept asking what he did wrong! He completely forgot!

2007-07-26 04:33:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've had this problem with him for years... he is constantly talking to "female friends" on the phone, it wouldn't bother me if he casually called them to say hi and catch up on things, but there's always a call or a text message.... recently, after I confronted him about his "friend" he said, "fine! I won't call her anymore" but now there's a blocked number calling him everyday, more than once with calls of about 10-15 minutes, sometimes longer than that... these blocked calls started right after I confronted him. Should I be worried... ?? this seems really shady to me... It hurts me that he spends so much time talking to someone when he can be talking to me and confiding in me and not some other girl.... help.

2007-07-26 04:32:08 · 9 answers · asked by colombiana82 1

I am 21 years old and I have been married for almost 3 years. I got married before I've even finished high school. I married my husband only after 7 months of dating him. I know now that it was a mistake to get married. I got married because I wanted a family that I never had, and because I was competing with his ex girlfriend, and because he told me that he was kill himself if i ever left him. My husband can be sweet sometimes, but other times can be mean. Some examples are:

he's physically hurt me before.
He's told me he wanted our baby to die when i was pregnant
he told me that he wasn't going to take care of our baby
he made a single's web page when I was pregnant
he told me that he could do whatever he wants because he makes the money
He's threatened to tie me up and put me in the closet
he's punched several holes in the walls
etc.

Also done nice things:
he takes care of all the bills while i go to school
he compliments me
he helps in the house
what should i do?

2007-07-26 04:30:28 · 31 answers · asked by MrsWifey 3

Married male department manager is sexually involved with his single staff. He gave her higher increase in salary and other benefits. Top management may know but seems not to care, other staff are now affected since they do their thing in the rest room. What can we do as staff, do we report? If so, do we need to have valid evidence and proof before we report?

2007-07-26 04:30:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I made a bad joke about mother-in-law's dog and didn't apologise.So she calls my husband's 41yr old uncle (that lives with and abuses his 69yr old mom)and told him"She's gone! I want him out of there!".He called here telling my husband what she said and that he needs to come by so they (his family) can have a tallk with him.What does this sound like to you?(I say cult behavior...)

2007-07-26 04:26:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife likes to go out and have fun as she calls it, this involves drinking, dancing etc etc. I love it when she dances with me etc etc. But she often likes to flirt with other men. She never does anything and says she loves me and only me she just likes to be the centre of attention. However if I so much as talk to another woman she is a jealous wreck and gets really mad. I have often said to her if it's okay for you why isn't it okay for me, she doesn't have an answer.

2007-07-26 04:19:10 · 21 answers · asked by PokerPlayer 2

I am a 32yr old female who is in the process of getting a divorce. I was really sexually unsatified. i have been dating the same guy for the past 4 yrs even before my separation. i have recently found out that he has alot of issues but the sex is excellent. Should i look over his issues for my own selfish reasons. I have no trust for my sex buddy but the sex is good. Am i wrong for wanting him just for sex

2007-07-26 04:06:25 · 25 answers · asked by smoss 1

I want the lid with the ring to be open.
She wants it closed with the ring down.

How comes im wrong in this absolute 50/50 situation ALWAYS??

No. Im not wetting the floor and no im not 10000 things not related to this.
And if its the look of the commode that is a problem i wonder why the commode estetics say its more 'nice' when its down.Furthermore have i never met anyone that stands around the báthroom "to watch my lovely commode" so can it!

I want it up.

She want it down.

Im wrong.-

WHY?

Im prepared to put it down for her ofcourse,but if she is asked to put it up for me im a fool!

GAAH

2007-07-26 04:04:55 · 22 answers · asked by idiotjim 3

My daughter and her husband have filed for divorce but want to reconcile and his mommy won't let them go on. She even controls the lawyer and fees etc. They have two children and one on the way. Help.

2007-07-26 04:04:23 · 12 answers · asked by grandma18 1

when I asked him(after my friends left)he says its not bad I am taking it wrong way on comedy central they make that kind of jokes normally. is it ok to hurt someone's feelings just for some silly fun?

2007-07-26 04:02:23 · 10 answers · asked by indi32 2

2007-07-26 03:52:35 · 19 answers · asked by sally 1

2007-07-26 03:49:07 · 21 answers · asked by csucdartgirl 7

There will be approx. 15 of her college friends (men and women) and I'm sure spouses for the married ones. She always tells the story of how on graduation day, she and all her friends jumped into the lake near her college for a skinny dip. She said the whole thing lasted about 3 minutes and it was a great laugh. Anyway, she tells me that for a laugh, she wants to relive that and says she has asked her college friends (this is a 20 year reunion) who was up for it and she said most laughed and said sure. We have a private lake on our property. So my problem and question is this. This is not a matter of trust, I know she isn't going to run off with any of the men she will be doing this with, but I will honestly admit I am a little jealous. I don't like the idea of my wife jumping in a lake nude with other people, including several men. Am I wrong in feeling this way or should I just roll my eyes, smile and go with it. And no, I will not join in and skinny dip with them.

2007-07-26 03:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by mark s 1

i broke up wit her due to her takin me for granted but prior to that she was a great girl it has been a month since we broke up i see her on the way to work almost everymorning she constantly stares at me and say little comments to get my attention one day she call me n ask me how come she hasnt seen me and i told her i havent been sleepin at home and she ask me if i have a new gf which i didnt answer so i ask her to meet me for lunch she look very eager to meet me so we did that noon first thing she ask me "do u have a new gf" jokin i said yes and she began to ask me a series of questions and finally i told her it was joke but i do have potentials she then told me i could behonest wit her we are friends cuz im seeing someone then she began to tell me about him which i told her im not interested but she continue i guess she wanted to get it out of her chest then she then told me that i am a great person wit lots to offer then she began to ask me about my situation wit these potentials

2007-07-26 03:37:29 · 6 answers · asked by simple J 4

I received a letter from the mistress stating the affair was over with my husband. It gave specific dates she was in my home while I was traveling out of town. Yes, the dates indeed matched when I checked my calendar. Of course, I plan to confront him and I'm prepared for his excuses.

How should I handle this so my husband doesn't make this out to be something it's not? Clearly this is a HUGE deal!

2007-07-26 03:37:22 · 16 answers · asked by Perplexed 2

My sister has been living with my husband and I for the last month and a half, the circumstances as to why my family put her out makes us all a little sick but my husband is livid, she stole something VERY valuable from another family member, In addition to her bringing her boyfriend over everyday (my husband considers him a shady character), my husband is seriously uncomfortable with her life style.
I am really really sick over this situation, I have paid for her to rcv updtes from an Apartment Search, I've looked for places on my own for her, She says the problem is that she has bad credit and all of the apartments she is interested in perform credit cks, & my husband forbids me to put the place in my name fearing our credit being ruined. Don't know what to do, she's my baby sister, but my husband doesnt care!

A Playful kitty
developing ulcers!

2007-07-26 03:28:41 · 17 answers · asked by businessdva 1

refuses to divorce but runs off and is know where to be found? I know a girl who's husband isn't signing divorce papers and has just run off and left his wife and 5 kids just so he doesn't have to pay child support. He is know where to be found. Isn't there some type of law that against this? This girl lives in Michigan and I really want to help her out. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

2007-07-26 03:18:16 · 6 answers · asked by soonerfan0808 2

Please read my previous questions to understand my situation I am in. For this past week I have changed so much for my family. I know things cannot be solved in a couple of days, but being in a family that you know that someone who used to love you so much sudden ignore you really hurts... I have taken to the next step and seek marriage counselling, in fact tonight is our marriage counselling appointment. For this past days I have spent so much time with my son more than usual. I really love spending time with him. He is everything to me. The only problem I have now is to have my wife with me again. I thought sending her chocolate strawberries would cheer her up at work because this week is very hected for her. It hurts when she didn't even taste any of the treats. I really don't want to leave my wife, but I feel like she doesn't want me around. I feel like she doesn't want to share her life with me anymore. What should I do...? :(

2007-07-26 03:15:58 · 17 answers · asked by Harmless 1

We have been married 15 years. Wow, what a sex life even with three elementary to high school kids. There is absolutely nothing I wouldn't do to fulfill my wife's every sexual desire and need.

Over the past few weeks I've asked her if she wants anything different or desires something she isn't getting. In times past this would be a simple "no".

Lately it has changed to more of a shrug and "Oh, I don't know". For the life of me I can't get it out of her.

Please don't start with the sharing or threesome answers. Never has and never will be considered. We know that.

2007-07-26 03:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by JoelMacDad 6

they become more fascinated by you

2007-07-26 03:01:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont get it and to make it worse she has cheated on me and is a comulsive liar and we were suppose to be working out our issues together one being I feel she is not faithful. There is plenty more but is it appropriate at any time for your wife to talk sex and be making out like she is organising sex and having whats supposively a good friend of the opposite sex talk to her as if he wants to have sex with her and she says things like she would love for that to happen.

2007-07-26 02:55:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is it women in a long term relationship go off sex before the men do? and is this the cause of men having affairs?

2007-07-26 02:53:29 · 15 answers · asked by mike b 1

We were together for 3 years. We were mean to each other. We have been married for 8 months. We had an argument and thats when it all came out. About how we were unhappy. We talked about divorce but then decided to work it out. Change ourselves for the better. A week later my husband and I talked and he said that he feels that things wont get better, its not the same. He says that he loves me, but the love isnt there anymore and he doesnt see me the same. We cried. A week has passed and have agreed to divorce. He will continue living here with me and my daughter. She is not his. She is 9. He will pay the bills until he moves out this November. Giving me enough time to save to be on my own. We still sleep in the same bed. We have agreed to not get intimate. Its just like we are friends now. We are both nicer to each other. It hurts me because I dont want a divorce. Why does it hurt him if thats what he wants? I wish he would have a change of heart. Is that possible?

2007-07-26 02:51:03 · 26 answers · asked by DDee 1

My daughter is expecting her first child. Her ob/gyn has advised her to go out and buy an umbilical cord to insert into her uterus so that her unborn baby will have something to feed off of. He says that its easier on the baby than waiting on a new cord to grow.
My daughter and I aren't exactly sure where to go out and buy a fresh, sanitary cord. My neighbor offered to sell her one of her old ones for a pretty reasonable rate. And I also have my old umbilical cords from all of my pregnancies still stored inside of my freezer.
Are these cords still safe to use? Should we go out to a discount store or fresh fish market to try to find a pretty new one? Help please!

2007-07-26 02:46:22 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have almost all the proof I need. I will tend to the husband issue seperately. I would however like this slut behind bars.

2007-07-26 02:43:01 · 27 answers · asked by skiphop32 1

i've been in a 7 year relationship. we've recently broke up. this past week, he has been calling me 2-3 times a day, leaving me msgs like "im in trouble, pick up".. but, he is seeing another already. i cant and dont want to speak to him because it still hurts... plus, why talk if he has "moved on"? so, a few days ago, i changed my cell phone number. but i feel sorta sad. what can i do to feel better. im not ready to speak to him or any of his friends. why do i feel this way?

2007-07-26 02:19:26 · 13 answers · asked by jenny 1

My wife and I have come to a place where we don't like each other to much. I know we love and care for each others well being,but we don't talk much without argueing. And sex is next to none. I have a great libdo, but i stay so upset with her that I am not attracted to her. Any suggestions?

2007-07-26 02:18:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

and came home with a few "toys" what would you do? I did this yesterday & he was not interested. He lso started an argument with me for no appearent reason. We have bought toys before & watched porn before (twice), but now he is not interested. The thing is the other day he decided to look at nude pics on the net (boobs mainly) so I bought him the porn sort of as a joke. He is also seeming less interested in sex lately & has taken to drinking more than usual. (Usual being a few beers in the evening a few days a week.)

Is this normal? Are there some guys that just dont like that kind of thing? Can a man seriously not take the hint when a woman brings this sort of stuff home? What is that supposed to mean? He says it was nothing.

2007-07-26 02:15:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous