There will be approx. 15 of her college friends (men and women) and I'm sure spouses for the married ones. She always tells the story of how on graduation day, she and all her friends jumped into the lake near her college for a skinny dip. She said the whole thing lasted about 3 minutes and it was a great laugh. Anyway, she tells me that for a laugh, she wants to relive that and says she has asked her college friends (this is a 20 year reunion) who was up for it and she said most laughed and said sure. We have a private lake on our property. So my problem and question is this. This is not a matter of trust, I know she isn't going to run off with any of the men she will be doing this with, but I will honestly admit I am a little jealous. I don't like the idea of my wife jumping in a lake nude with other people, including several men. Am I wrong in feeling this way or should I just roll my eyes, smile and go with it. And no, I will not join in and skinny dip with them.
2007-07-26 03:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are trying to recapture a time in their lives when there were fewer problems, and responsibilities. You are worried about her being nude with other people. She is not trying to re-live an orgy. They are going to swim nude for a few minutes!
What are you jealous about? There are going to be nude women in your lake, along with some nude men. Do you remember your youth? I would bet that at one point in your life, you would have given anything to see a lake full of nude girls!
It seems to me that you were not quite as wild in your youth as she was. Are you afraid that if she "let's her hair down" she will go back to being a bit more wild now?
You need to relax and understand that being so uptight. Life is short. If you do not want to join them in the lake, the least you can do is enjoy the view!
2007-07-26 04:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by fire4511 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why not jump in there with them
live life a little
i know i will be a bit jealous but u know what she s ur wife
u will look boring in everyones eyes so go ahead and do it
have fun i think she will thank and give u some good sex man
2007-07-26 03:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by simple J 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a great idea. Believe me you do not know what you are missing if you do not participate. "Life is too Short"
2007-07-26 13:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by fl_nudie_boy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just roll your eyes. She will figure out that you can not go back and recapture the past.
2007-07-26 03:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by bootsontheroad 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what....these people have grown up and matured. Don't be surprised if they don't do it. Your wife is just reliving her past.
2007-07-26 04:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
humor her, she maybe going through a life change right now. this is probably her way of trying to stay young.
2007-07-26 03:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by sarcastic 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋