Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2007

We are both young and we have a child together. If I leave, I will probably be left with nothing- But Is it right for me to just be miserable forever?

2007-07-26 10:58:23 · 27 answers · asked by DJowithlove 1

My husband made a profile for himself 4 months ago saying that he's married and he's bored with his sex life and looking to have some fun with other chicks. I found it last night. He lied his *** off and told me it wasn't him. After an hour of accusing him he finally came clean and admitted to posting it but said he didn't have sex with anyone else and swears he's never cheated on me. I'm sooo frustrated and hurt. What do I do. I can't trust him anymore but I love him to death. What are your opinions as to what I should do?? Thanx

2007-07-26 10:44:44 · 32 answers · asked by Alicia G 5

I think and feel that my husband has cheated on me or he is still cheating on me right now. I confronted him a lot of times but he denis it, but I know my husband. I feel it. I am almost 99% sure that he did it.
Now I don't want to know the truth because it would break me apart and I don't think if I would forgive him. I am pregnant bytheway.
So my question is, how should I win him back? I know that S.E.X. is the thing buy what else?

2007-07-26 10:42:59 · 15 answers · asked by Marg 1

2007-07-26 10:25:36 · 24 answers · asked by Pooh is Fresh Boi 2

I love America as I think it is THE best country in the world in many ways
.. But that does not mean I should like bad things here ... For example marriage institution is the worst here. It is not just the one sided anti-man laws but also the mean females here ... what do other think ??

2007-07-26 10:23:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please explain your strongest emotion upon seeing them for the first time in several hours, as well as how long you have been together. I am curious..... Thanks!!!

2007-07-26 10:22:10 · 31 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4

My husband who is in the millitary, I don't want him to get custody of kids, if he divorces,he says that when he is home for a visit he will make me do things I don't want to do, the only reason I have stayed with him is fear the kids would be in his care, he says if I don't do what he says he will get the kids, I love them, but he talks crazy!!!

2007-07-26 10:10:41 · 13 answers · asked by l 2

I am so lonely. It seems I have no friends and my family all seem to hate me. I want to get off of this cycle and need to get back to a stable reliable life. What can I do?

2007-07-26 10:03:39 · 17 answers · asked by lifelove_45 1

2007-07-26 10:03:09 · 28 answers · asked by tudamama 1

I will admit the only two times I've been in church in 5 years were for funerals. I just cannot see spending my Sundays in a church. Sorry, this is not meant to offend the "believers" but I have a few issues with religion. "Any religion!" And I'm not sure I could spend my time with someone that "has" to be at church every Sunday-Wednesday...etc.. I know this is a touchy subject to some here, but would you date or marry someone that just does not attend church?

2007-07-26 10:02:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 10:00:24 · 48 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5

I just don't understand why my boyfriend never has a set schedule when it comes to getting home from work. Every morning at about 6AM he is out the door. Through out the day he calls to tell me that he miisses and loves me. When I ask him what is he doing he always inclines that he is about almost finished with his work. Now, usually he will be here at about 5PM. But now lately he be getting here at around 7-8PM...with the excuse that he just got out of work (he works in construction). Just the other day 2 numbers with the area code from the town where he is supposed to be working in called his cell phone. He claimed that it was the wrong number. I had my suspisions so I had my sister call and casually ask the person if Frankie was around...the female replied no, that he wasnt around. Funny, cause he did mention that he does not kjnow where these calls are coming from. Then when he gets home he turns into a raging bull and acts as if I am the one that is cheating....WHAT GIVES?!

2007-07-26 09:54:29 · 15 answers · asked by cantseepastthis 1

I'm 20. a guy. I'm still shy around women and a lot of people I know are already getting married. I feel weird/abnormal.

2007-07-26 09:54:11 · 6 answers · asked by sspence966 1

I am married but have a crush on someone. Is that wrong???

2007-07-26 09:48:28 · 49 answers · asked by raul u 1

So I over heard him talking to his mom and dad about asking to marry me he was showing them the ring but I didn't see the ring of course we already just had our first baby who is 1 1\2 years old.The baby's name is Katie Elizabeth and I know I'm ready to marry him so what do you think I should do?

2007-07-26 09:46:54 · 15 answers · asked by Grace 1

I feel offended by them, should I say something?
Everytime I bring something up like this, he feels I'm overreacting. Am I?
Been married for 5yrs and have 2 children together.

2007-07-26 09:41:39 · 27 answers · asked by ShyGirl 1

when you are with your bf/gf/husband/wife/sig other..

do YOU fight to the death NOT to win the argument..beut for some ungodly reason YOU MUST be right?

is it possible that BOTH may be right? OR wrong?

2007-07-26 09:40:52 · 12 answers · asked by juanes addicion 6

I recently married a wonderful man with a 17 month old son (then 15 months). The baby was sick a lot around 6-12 months old and he is behind developmentally. Everyone talks about what a good job I have done and how the baby is completly different (in a good way) since I have had him. But sometimes I worry if I am really being a mom to him. How do I know if I have got that "mother bond"? And how do I know if I love him enough? My husband and I have talked about it and he says that I am doing a great job and I am just worrying too much. Has anyone else ever been through this? If so what did you do?

2007-07-26 09:26:44 · 19 answers · asked by Selena H 1

i have a 14month old daughter, and im married, but i was abused throughout my childhood by my dad, and moved with my brother and raped me now that im married and have a daughter i cant trust my husband to be alone with her, its his baby to, but im so scared that its going to happen to her, and i cant tell him what all happend to me, but if i tell him im so scared he's going to be made at me and divorce me please someone help me im so scared right now

2007-07-26 09:23:51 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

this sucks!
but as i really dont have any one in life to talk about it im pouring it here.
since 5 years i think im in luv with my husbands younger brother! We click well and the chemistry is mind blowing..was!
my bro in law got married last September.
He and i..have not kissed or scre*d but yes intimate momnts of stroking hair or cheek?
after he got married things were little changed but even now at times in public he pinches ne or might try to tickle my armpit.
i know ppl this is grose TMI..but i dunno whats up?
yes emotinaly im consumed by the other guy. but if my spouse is ill im all sad and morose.!
i used to be very much in love with my spouse but constant negligence pushed me away . And i ACCIDENTLY grew closer in talking etc to bro in law!
im v extroverted talking kinds and my spouse is very quiet..thats ok. but he doesnt try to even do things that are imp. like be more smiling round my dad if he is doing something for us etc.
im just unsure how to LIVE!!!!

2007-07-26 09:20:12 · 14 answers · asked by barley 2

My grandma is in her 80s. Last year she lost her husband and a son. She lives about two hours away. Mom talks to her everyday but she seems to be stuck thinking, "This is it for me. What am I supposed to do at this age?." Could anyone help me come up with ideas of what she could do?

2007-07-26 09:04:53 · 23 answers · asked by nemesyn 3

2007-07-26 09:00:02 · 3 answers · asked by Meron 1

I have been with this guy off and on for at least 11yrs now we have made alot of mistakes in the past but we always come back to each other and I know he loves me and I love him, He is very money oriented and wants to be established in life and well doesn't want me as a girlfriend or really commit but we still always see each other and I know he has no time really for any one else I don't know maybe i am stupid but I love him and no one else is for me I really feel he feels the same but well I don't like being pushy and he doesn't like it when I am pushy so what should I do?!

2007-07-26 08:52:17 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my boyfriend or fiance, as he likes to call it, for 2 years now. We've been through crazy ups and downs and I think I still love him, but I know I'm not in love with him anymore. I guess what the problem really is is that I've never been alone before & I'm comfortable with him. I've recently caught him talking to another girl. He claimed that this girl was the wife of a long time friend, and when I talked to this girl to find out what the deal was, she told me that my man was crazy because she just started talking to him and he started stalking her!! Wife of a friend huh? Yeah right! Another Lie! All of this got back to his company, he lost his job, house and company vehicle and claims that he is so sorry and loves me and really wants to marry me. He said he has no idea why he did it, he just did. I am so heart broken! Should I move on or give him another chance? Oh yeah, and by the way, this isn't the first time he's lied and I've caught him red handed!

2007-07-26 08:50:54 · 17 answers · asked by Stephanie 1

2007-07-26 08:40:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

So please tell me what problems i will face in the future so that i can prepare myself.

I know about some problems like-->
>No one will be there to help me if i fall ill.
>Alone
>Do everything(like washing,cooking,cleaning myself)

Can you suggests me some more please.

2007-07-26 08:36:12 · 13 answers · asked by good.boy999 1

I’m in a dilemma. My brother-in-laws and their wives are coming next month to our area and they are expecting me to go out with them one night for dinner. Problem is, they are hot-tempered alcoholics and have ruined every dinner out for the past 5 years for me. Asking them to curb back on their drinking so I can enjoy myself isn’t going to work and I just don’t want to spend hard earned money on a night where the police are almost getting involved with our party. To keep the peace, I told my husband that I am going to tell them a white lie on the morning of the outing, that a friend from work lost their mother and I have to attend the wake. My husband says that’s sounds too suspicious and I don’t because these kinds of events happen all the time. Any suggestions?

2007-07-26 08:33:43 · 13 answers · asked by DAR76 7

2007-07-26 08:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by sweet heart girl 1

For those in a successful marriage, how did you and your spouse meet? If you were friends first, did you ever think it would be more than friends? Also, how long after you were together did you realize that your bf/gf was THE ONE you were going to spend the rest of your life with. Please share :)

2007-07-26 08:13:19 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 2

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years and we have a 5 week old boy. We have been talking about getting married but i was so indecisive about it. I want to marry him and he wants to marry me but i get alot of benifits on my own. I get food stams and medicaid. Should we get married or just wait a while until we are able to completely stable. We love each other alot and he is a great dad.

2007-07-26 07:33:37 · 15 answers · asked by Shelby 2