I just don't understand why my boyfriend never has a set schedule when it comes to getting home from work. Every morning at about 6AM he is out the door. Through out the day he calls to tell me that he miisses and loves me. When I ask him what is he doing he always inclines that he is about almost finished with his work. Now, usually he will be here at about 5PM. But now lately he be getting here at around 7-8PM...with the excuse that he just got out of work (he works in construction). Just the other day 2 numbers with the area code from the town where he is supposed to be working in called his cell phone. He claimed that it was the wrong number. I had my suspisions so I had my sister call and casually ask the person if Frankie was around...the female replied no, that he wasnt around. Funny, cause he did mention that he does not kjnow where these calls are coming from. Then when he gets home he turns into a raging bull and acts as if I am the one that is cheating....WHAT GIVES?!
2007-07-26 09:54:29 · 15 answers · asked by cantseepastthis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it´s so embarrasing mentioning this but when I confront him with evidence, not only does he get angry....he also gets violent.
2007-07-26 11:45:41 · update #1
My husband is in construction and he can tend to have long days. BUT, he forwarns me during the day and then confirms later towards five what is going on. I've known him for 11 years and he has always been in construction, so I do know reality. Your boyfriend should be communicating better. But he probably doesn't want to because he is screwing around. A tell tale sign is that he is accusing you of something when he knows darn well he's the one cheating. Cheaters will do this when they want to distract you from the actual truth. Cheaters are liars, and he has been lieing and he has been cheating. Pack your bags and make yourself available for "Mr. Right". Don't worry, he's out there somewhere..
2007-07-26 10:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is definetely hidding something from you. I think you should have your sister call the number again and ask if she is in a romantic relationship with him, onces you get answer you can confront your bf and if he looks away or says that you are jealous and does not look you in the eye when he is denying it... Then your suspicions were right.
Everyone has a different point of view on cheating and forgiving, but you see I just think once a cheater always a cheater so you have to think very carfully if you want to live or marry a man who is deceitful.
Good luck.
2007-07-26 10:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my expirience that anger is a sign of guilt. I had very similar expiriences with my ex-husband.. in the end I was totally right. When he got angry, was it because u mentioned what u had done or did he know because the girl informed him that someone had called her phone for him?
2007-07-26 10:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating. Or at least doing the ground work to get there. He is thinking of it and so you need to move on. Sorry doll but the best thing to do is get out now.
2007-07-26 09:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well girl, I say that you should call the female and ask her if she knows a frankie and if she does tell her what's up because then if she knows what's up and he tries to call her and she slams it in his face then he will be caught in the middle of his own game.
2007-07-26 10:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by LADY J. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think with the extra daylight hours he IS working.
However, I have heard a rule of thumb is that if your partner accuses you of cheating..usually they are the dirty dog.
2007-07-26 10:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know why but a lot of men try to turn things
around and blame the other
he got caught for sure, and i agree with other answers
thst it's time to move on
2007-07-26 10:09:41 · answer #7 · answered by justmeandcaring 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is important in a relationship. There is no reason why he should be quiet about where he is and what he is doing. Ask him why he is so ANGRY with YOU? I would smell a rat,too.
2007-07-26 09:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Janet M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, how much more do you need??????
That dude ..dog is having an affair..
My only wish is that we, women, would have
that much information from the get go..
You need to talk to this dude but...
DON'T involve your sister..
She can help you later on.....
Good luck....
2007-07-26 10:03:43 · answer #9 · answered by just me here 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that he is indeed working however since he is accussing you of cheating he is prolly the one doing the dirty deed.
2007-07-26 10:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋