Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2007

When I want to have sex it seems like my husband doesnt most of the time. Then when it is his idea its like it only last for maybe 5 min. Im tiered of gettin all worked up for well nothin. Last night I let him know in little ways that it was bothering me and he cuddled with me witch is not a normal thing. So what do I do I want sex! Like good SEX! Is it me? What can I do to change this? Please nice answers only. I have read some pretty mean ones in the past.

2007-07-26 02:15:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for four years. My husband and I have been through a lot of bs together, but most of it was brought on by him. Things are starting to look a little better, but with everything that we've gone through, I just can't deal with him anymore. I'm not in love with him anymore. I've tried a few times to tell him that I couldn't do this anymore, and he won't let me leave. He says "I can't believe you think things aren't any better when I can see our future looking brighter." I'm just numb. I feel trapped. I don't feel like his wife, I feel like his mother. I don't want to do this anymore, but I can't make myself say goodbye.

2007-07-26 02:11:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

We both enjoy each others company but are both in real relationships. i don't want to come in between him and his wife but we have feelings for each other, and we talk everyday. help I don't know what to do. I don't blame myself for this because he just told me he was married and I did not know it at first.

2007-07-26 02:11:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was only married for 1 month and know i made the worst mistake of my life..... he will not detest it

2007-07-26 02:06:58 · 7 answers · asked by jano4657 1

I've been married for about 5 years and been together for about 8. Since the baby came the sex has pretty much disappeared. We're down to once a month or less. That's for about the past 4 years.
I do fool around from time to time. If the fridge is empty you gotta eat out, ya know.
My Q is,is that something that happens to other couples too?? I mean, my wife is still the sexiest women on earth to me. But we just don't do it enough. Can I expect things to turn around?

2007-07-26 02:05:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 02:00:58 · 24 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

My wife (who is French and an above average woman) and I agreed to a weight clause for her when we married. She was under the 125 mandated weight for the first 3 years, but I have noticed that lately she is starting to creep in at 124 1/2 and even 124 3/4.

Well, yesterday morning she finally did the wrong thing. She weighed in for me at 125 1/2. She managed to take a hot shower and walk for an hour, so she did get back under 125 officially. But is this going to be a problem now? How do I handle it?

In the official pre-nuptial agreement, I have a legal right to divorce and keep all of my earning if she went above 125 for a full day. Should I be letter of law on this, or is it okay to give her a break? I just want to set a good example for our daughter.


God Bless you people!

2007-07-26 02:00:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

LOL I was told that I am.

2007-07-26 01:48:07 · 8 answers · asked by Support Breast Cancer Research 4

stopped the extramarital relationship..... did you feel empty when you stopped? Did you want to leave the marriage? Did you leave? did you stay for the kids?

2007-07-26 01:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by who me? 3

Islam clearly allowes its practice...I do not think it's a good idea.what are your thoughts on it?

2007-07-26 01:24:45 · 25 answers · asked by aMUSEd 6

im just curious, it always got me thinking. what do girls look for in a guy when choosing a candidate for marriage. what are the traits

2007-07-26 01:12:56 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 01:00:22 · 23 answers · asked by Dittu 1

I've been married for 6 months, and from the beginning, people around me kept telling me to take care of my appearance, because my husband is good-looking and I look like a BUM! Messy hair, no make-up, baggy clothes...so about a month ago, I decided it was time to change, and slowly but surely, I started putting on make-up, do my hair, wear sexy clothes...a total knock-out! Great you would think, except that now my husband thinks I'm cheating on him and is very jealous!!! He thinks I'm doing this for someone else and says I'm "mysterious"...I tell him that no, that is just me, new and improved, but still will act jealous and distrustful!! I thought he'd be proud of me...I don't get it. Anyone can explain?

2007-07-26 00:45:50 · 12 answers · asked by sansayo 1