Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2007

2007-07-26 07:29:17 · 3 answers · asked by mann54 2

2007-07-26 07:28:21 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years and his fetish has excellerated. the things he wants me to do makes me feel unwanted and low. i feel that they mean so much more to him than i do. please would anyone give me some advise. it would be very much appreciated

2007-07-26 07:23:25 · 7 answers · asked by nadena 1

2007-07-26 07:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by mann54 2

I want to know that If I marry second time then how easily my first wife can prove the bigamy?

2007-07-26 07:09:20 · 8 answers · asked by Ravindra S 1

there is a web site on this :nomarriage.com
it basically states that most white american women are terrible
wives . here's a quote:
"A huge percentage of American women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase ".
here's another: Histrionic disorder: manipulative, attention seekers, dominate the conversation, use grandiose language, seek constant praise, dress provocatively, exaggerate illnesses in order to gain attention, exaggerate friendships and relationships, believe that everyone loves them.

Narcissistic disorder: self-centered, seek attention and praise, take advantage of people, fantasize about success and power, expect favorable treatment, exaggerate achievements, have difficulty maintaining long-lasting relationships, expect others to recognize them as being superior. "

2007-07-26 07:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by peldin 1

My husband and I have a good sexual relationship so we are not lacking in that area however he does cheat. Why?

2007-07-26 07:06:21 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been divorced 8 years. We reconciled a year after the divorce but issues had not been resolved and we ended it again after only a year. Many years have passed and we have both had other relationships. Both single now and are talking about getting back together. We are very open about our feelings and have dealt with most of the issues that caused the divorce. (no cheating or abuse) He has told me since before we got married that he thinks I am his soulmate. I feel the same about him. We were young when we married and have grown up a lot. What do you think? Should we give it one more try? We have a teenage daughter also that needs to be considered.

2007-07-26 07:05:23 · 22 answers · asked by laugheveryday 1

Additionally, men if you have done this are there feelings involved or just sex? Serious answers only, don't be mean.

2007-07-26 06:54:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of a husband who won't bother to try to fix his premature ejaculation problem? I have mentioned this briefly over the years and he has done nothing. I even tried the email route, nothing. If this were a true medical problem with no solution, I would be OK with it, but it is not. This is really effecting our marriage. What to do?

2007-07-26 06:42:16 · 22 answers · asked by DELETE ME 1

Im not sure what the pension is usually used for.

Retirement is for when you retire I do know that much.

My husband used up a generouse loan from the bank and now promises he will remodel our home with his pension money. Im mad but not sure what this is taking away from us.

Is this good or bad?

2007-07-26 06:32:43 · 9 answers · asked by catchiamigo 4

what do you guys think of asking your man to marry you? we have been together for over a year and we are now living together. i know that he is waiting to ask until he can afford a ring for me, but that doesn't really matter to me. i love him so much and i want to ask him. obviously, i have nothing to give him either, but i still want to ask. if you think it is a good idea, do you have any suggestions of how to go about it. he will be out of town on business next week, so i do have awhile to plan for when he gets back..thanks to all in advance!

2007-07-26 06:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by nytengayle13 4

2007-07-26 06:25:44 · 54 answers · asked by girlnextdoor409 5

My girlfriend is about to marry someone that gets violent when they drink. He's not going to quit drinking anytime soon and I've been there when he's "gotten out of line" - is there a way of preventing her from marrying him?? It's going to be a disaster!

2007-07-26 06:15:56 · 23 answers · asked by michelle59872 1

There are people on my husbands side of the family that are very opinionated and at times obstinate to deal with and I love them dearly because they have been very good to us I dont want to be like my husbands cousin who can be a drama queen and make a big deal when things are said about her.

My husband leaned over and gave me a hug and I hugged back and his uncle said you both look like dogs in heat, I overlooked that comment and I prayed for him because his marraige has problems also.

How can I be christ like when people say things that arent nice or try to medicate a situaion with a poor choice of words?

For example we told my husband realtive that we could not have kids and she said it was just as well and that I should get a puppy and that would be our baby. I was horrified that she thought getting a puppy would be like a baby to us and I was very insulted.

What are ways to show the love of Christ and be a witness in these situations?

2007-07-26 06:09:04 · 29 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs no kids yet..When we were dating/newlyweds and thru out the yrs we have never made love everyday or several times a day or for hrs and hrs like i have heard or read about most if not all couples doing..Are we rare or are there other couples like this..We usually make love 2 to 3 times a week...This doesnt bother us cause we are both happy,content and satisfied with the loving making and amount but im just curious about this.

2007-07-26 06:08:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 27 years had two children and keep dreaming of my ex Boy friend. What is up with that. My husband is deceased, and the ex is with someone else. why do I keep dreaming of him

2007-07-26 06:07:31 · 3 answers · asked by Bonnie J 1

He was recently awarded Wednesdays (3pm-7pm) and every other weekend time with my son. This is going to be so hard for my son who does not want to even talk to his father. I didn't have police reports on my husband's abuse--sexual, verbal, mental, emotional and I don't have any evidence on him being alcoholic that makes him incapable of driving. I do not like the idea of my son being with him. I feel guilty already. I feel like I'm putting my son in danger by allowing the court order take in place in his life.

I am going back to court in December for evaluation. I need advise on this issue. I understand that he needs to spend time with his father but, I worry for my son's safety.

HELP!!!

2007-07-26 05:48:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-26 05:43:52 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do you think it is? Do you think that men should get the kids two? Whats your veiw on it?

2007-07-26 05:41:55 · 37 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3

2007-07-26 05:39:25 · 42 answers · asked by p0pt4rtz 2

I am very much in love with my boyfriend and we have been discussing moving in together, marriage, etc. However, he is over 7,000 in debt that has been accumulating from 7 years ago! He understands the consequences but gets frustrated when I talk about it with him. As a girlfriend who wants a future with him, what can I do? It makes me so angry to think that his debt becomes my debt when we are together- I dont want to ruin my credit but a future seems so far away...I want to break up with him just so he realizes how important it is to clear this up but I love him too much. HELP

2007-07-26 05:33:37 · 61 answers · asked by gabrielskatie 1

i alwasy had a chubby tumm since i was littel. I aam nto fat or overweight just have a chubby tummy and it looks oooooooo unsexy. My hubby doesn't seem to mind and i feel loved but what can i do to boost my confidence in the bed?

2007-07-26 05:24:42 · 24 answers · asked by girl 3

Why or why not? I hear that not that many people are married now as opposed to back then, & the birth out of wedlock rate is higher as well as the divorce rate.

What are the PROs & CONs of marriage?

2007-07-26 05:24:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I wrong? Heres the deal.

We had planned to go to Vegas for our anniversary. My husband got mad at me recently because I didn't have as much money saved as I said I would, to go. I told him I would have $1500 saved towards the trip, but now, I will only have $1,000. I have already spent $400 on Vegas show tickets.

He wanted to take $4,000 total, so he was going to put $2500 with my $1500, but when I told him I would only have $1,000, he said thats not going to be enough.

Basically, he said that he doesn't want to go if we don't have a certain amount of money. He's just being stubborn as usual because I know that $3500 is enough for both of us, especially if our show tickets and hotel rooms are already paid for.

If he is still stuck on "not going", I'm going without him. Would I be wrong for that?

2007-07-26 05:16:59 · 14 answers · asked by CJ 4

What should I do?

2007-07-26 05:13:56 · 14 answers · asked by p0pt4rtz 2

Why does everybody say that living together before marriage will increase divorce..Well my husband and i have been together 17 yrs,happily married 16 yrs and moved in together 3 months before we got married and divorced didnt happen here.

2007-07-26 05:00:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband puts in a lot of hours at work. He's never around and therefore I dont get the love and effection I need. I met this guy at work and we started hanging out. We started liking each other and hung out more. It's been over 2 yrs now and we are still together (even tho we dont work together anymore). We fell in love. He wants me to leave my husband...but I dont think I can. I still love my husband...He's a great guy. But I also love the other man in my life. What do I do? I'm in my late 20's and been married to him for 8 yrs. We also have kids.

2007-07-26 04:52:25 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Scene: In bed we had just finished making love.

Him: Babe....

Me: hmm?

Him: Come lie next to me

Me: I am!

Him: no, no on my chest...

Me: I'm too hot...

Him: ....and I'm cold. I cool you off and you warm me up....

I just knowwwww he's the man for me!!!!! ;)

2007-07-26 04:48:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gal friends always told me, find someone who loves you more than you love him.
But, how does it work? I can not stand being with a man I have no strong feeling for.

I have a boyfriend, we are crazy about each other. I think he loves me very much, we are from different countries, now we both are in Paris, he is a French, but I will go back to Canada in two years, and he agreed to go with me because he loves me, he said so.
Recently his company sent him to Egypt for business trip, he said he accepted this mission only because he wanted to be ready to live in a english speaking country, and only because he loves me.
He always said what he did was just because of me. But the thing is, I did many things for him without telling him that was because of him, I just did it without saying a word to him.

Maybe I love him more than he loves me, which is fine for me. But do you think a really nice guy would tell his lover all he did was for her? maybe he is only a sweet talker?

2007-07-26 04:46:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous