2007-07-26 05:39:25 · 42 answers · asked by p0pt4rtz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not the one flirting, my wife flirts or at least she tells me she does, she explains that it is harmless and that she loves me and is married to me and is with me only , ??????
2007-07-26 05:45:24 · update #1
other than your wife NO! it's called having an affair
2007-07-26 05:42:36 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There are so many different levels of flirting and so many different ways to flirt. I personally don't think that all flirting is bad. It really depends on who you're flirting with and what you're saying with your flirtatious actions.
It's one of those things that everyone will not see eye to eye on. Some people and relationship are not mature enough to handle any kind of flirting. It's about trust. If you or your partner have trust issue, then don't flirt.
Flirting is not cheating!!!
What may disrespectful to one may not be disrespectful to another.
Your wife is most likely doing harmless flirting which is common. If she's telling you then that's a good thing.
2007-07-26 05:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by honeyb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flirting comes in two forms. Flirting innocently but keeping boundaries. Like laughing at a joke of a handsome man even though it's not funny...then there's the bad kind of flirting which is showing you're interested...
Keep your boundaried and NEVER go past an innocent, but fun conversation. If may hepl your self esteem...but going beyond that is REALLY BAD.
2007-07-26 05:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where you stand in your relationship. If your husband or wife knew that you were a flirt when the two of you got married........then expect it. Everyone looks and flirts. Its ok I think just as long as your spouse isn't offended. Communication is the key.
2007-07-26 05:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by oklasoonersgrl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your definition of flirting. I bet we all flirt a little, and don't even realize it. It is really disrespectful to openly flirt with someone other than your spouse though.
2007-07-26 05:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is Flirting with the devil or demons OK? Ofcorse not! How ever in marriage its not about controlling the other person or fault finding its about controlling your self and being the best person that you can be and in doing that hopefully your good light will influence your partner to be the best he or she can be.
2007-07-26 06:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by number7ministries1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion flirting leads to other things so no it is not okay and if my husband told me he was flirting with girls i would be pissed and wonder why he was telling me this maybe your wife wants you attention or something sometimes we want our husband to show a bit of jealousy like we are worth fighting for, maybe that is immature but i here women say this kinda stuff all the time.
2007-07-26 05:50:25 · answer #7 · answered by stt143 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Flirting is NATURAL and most people do it at times. If it goes beyond the flirting stage it is wrong.
2007-07-26 06:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pretty natural I suppose. But you need to be careful with whom your flirting and not go overboard as others may not take it as flirting and believe that your hitting on them.
2007-07-26 05:44:20 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its fine if you are ok with it. I flirt all the time and my husband loves watching me do that. However if it makes you feel uncomfortable, she needs to stop. Plain and simple.
2007-07-26 06:26:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it all begins with a flirt. Your need for attention will eventually lead you to divorce. If you really love your spouse you would not make your spouse uncomfortable by flirting with some one else.
2007-07-26 05:48:16 · answer #11 · answered by Jan L 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋