2007-07-26 05:43:52 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why are you in such a rush, its not a bad thing to still be a virgin don't you know that,
and if your scared then you way to young, so don't rush it and take your time because when your ready you will know it,
take your time :))))))
2007-07-26 05:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The better question is what shouldn't I do. Scared is a right feeling, this is something you will never get back, It is a very serious matter with a lot of questions, ask yourself if your ready to be a parent first, or maybe contract something that you will have to live a short life for. Also this is something you would really like to offer the right person. Talk to your mom, or a counsellor about this first. Become educated about all the ins and outs before you give up such a precious gift.
2007-07-26 05:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by free_mark53 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are scared your too young. I was tooo young and let me tell you I wish I could go back in time and erase that. I wish now I would of waited until both the guy and I were mature enough to handle a relationship. How long have you been with this guy and how old are you? Make sure he gets tested. God knows who he has lied about being with and how many or what he might have. And by the way. Men lie real well.
2007-07-26 05:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by youcandoit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is scary and you need to find someone that you really love and feel you will be with for a long time. Dont rush into it, you can only lose it once!! Teenage sex is crap because most boys just want to get their end away and probably wont be very loving or romantic. Make it special. Wait. Masturbate in the meantime, that is nearly as fun!!
2007-07-26 05:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Saff 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jesus, you're way too young. If you can't even spell it, you shouldn't be worried about losing it!
But seriously, let's be honest here. How many of us waited til we were married? Some of you, quit disillusioning this poor girl by telling her to get married first. BUNCH OF HYPOCRITES! If I married the first guy I had sex with, I'd be divorced already!
Girl, when you're ready, many years down the road, or a few English lessons later, IT'S IMPORTANT TO TEST DRIVE BEFORE BUYING! You may end up with a lemon, and then what do you do?
2007-07-26 05:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by ron-D 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is very special and very rare these days. It would be the wisest thing to hold on to it until marriage. I know that seems crazy, but if you can't wait that long, at least wait until you're over eighteen! People don't understand what a HUGE commitment sex is. You could get a STD (which is possible since you just want to "lose it" and probably won't even look into getting a decent partner) or get pregnant. Then what would you do? I understand why you're scared...you probably sense deep down how stupid it is to go lose your virginity without a second thought. DON'T DO IT! Try not to be influenced by whatever other people are doing and stick it out. Trust me, you will be grateful in the future. Save it for that special person!
2007-07-26 05:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
Here is the question.....are you ready for the possibility of getting pregnant and sexually transmitted diseases? The best advice that I can give to you is to wait. You also have to be prepared for the guys talking behind your back by saying go for her she is easy. You need to respect yourself and your body. It belongs to you. Would you like to know what guys look for when they begin looking for a wife, first of all, one that dresses appropriately (modestly), you can still dress stylish without be skanky. They want a woman who is a virgin and have not had many sexual partners. Yes they like to sow their oats so to speak, but when it comes to finding a future wife....they want one that they can be proud of and take home to mom and dad....one that will teach their own children about self respect and respecting their own bodies,and they can say NO to the boys. I will promise you this.....you have sex, and that boy will advertise it, and then you will have a negative reputation, unless your goal in life is to be a prostitute or exotic dancer. So hold off, and become a woman before going through with sex.
2007-07-26 06:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey...you can't even spell "virginity" or "scared" correctly. Why would you think you should be doing anything of the sort? How old are you? I think that is a question you need to think long and hard about because this is something you will never be able to get back.
2007-07-26 05:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if you are scared. Do you want your first time to be scary and akward, or do you think it would be better when you are ready and comfortable with the person you are with? You shouldn't want to lose your virginity for the sake of losing your virginity. You should wait until you find someone that loves and respects you and give them the gift of yourself when you are both ready.
2007-07-26 05:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by EmK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say wait until it is time! and give it some time! You will know!!! dont do it just because everyone else is i was well into my 20's before i lost mine and i did with a wonderful guy whom ei loved not just some random guy who wanted to score! Wait till you meet the right guy to lose it with!!! Dont rush it is most amazing when you wait and make love with the right guy instead of just having sex
2007-07-26 05:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by curious4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋