i want to know other opinions about american woman being the worst for marriage, especially "white" career 1's

Question

there is a web site on this :nomarriage.com
it basically states that most white american women are terrible
wives . here's a quote:
"A huge percentage of American women are selfish, flighty, insecure, needy and psychotic, and quite capable of concealing those traits during the dating phase ".
here's another: Histrionic disorder: manipulative, attention seekers, dominate the conversation, use grandiose language, seek constant praise, dress provocatively, exaggerate illnesses in order to gain attention, exaggerate friendships and relationships, believe that everyone loves them.

Narcissistic disorder: self-centered, seek attention and praise, take advantage of people, fantasize about success and power, expect favorable treatment, exaggerate achievements, have difficulty maintaining long-lasting relationships, expect others to recognize them as being superior. "

Answer 1

i would like to point out that is an opinion, not a fact

Answer 2

Just because a woman is goal oriented does not mean that they will make less than superior wives. Women are capable of doing more than one thing...unlike men. They can juggle home, family, work and career all at once. What surprises me is that the idea of the ideal wife is still out there. In today's society we are faced with many challenges, not just coming home and having dinner on the table. Marriage should be an equal partnership, with both parties putting forth an effort to have a healthy lasting relationship.
Women have mood swings...so what? So do men! If not more so. they are the stubborn, egotistical and selfish beings within the relationship. They expect everything to be done according to their wishes without compromise. Life is about compromise and if you want things to work you must make an effort, not expect things to be handed to you on a silver platter!

My fiance knows what he's getting. He knows that he's marrying a strong, goal oriented, driven woman who will stop at nothing to get what she wants. He also knows that when he comes home from his 16 hour shifts I'll have dinner ready for him and I'll be there to make him feel better. you just need to find the right woman, that's the key. Don't rely upon other peoples biased opinions, make judgments for yourself!

Answer 3

You could apply some of that statement to every person on earth, male and female, so I'm not sure what it has to do with white american women.
Everyone is narcissistic to a degree and everyone seeks attention and praise.
Hell, even my dog seeks out attention and praise............As a matter of fact, most of that statement can be directed at my cat as well, now that I think about it..........self-centered, seek attention and praise, take advantage of people, expect favorable treatment, expect others to recognize them as being superior, selfish, flighty, manipulative, attention seekers, believe that everyone loves them.

Answer 4

I can see where someone would not want a flighty insecure, needy, psychotic person who seeks constant praise or exaggerates anything to gain attention as their wife but.....
I can assure you not all American white women are like this, nor are these characteristics attested to one race or citizenship alone!

As far as using grandiose language and dressing provocatively...... well I suppose if my husband was someone that found this as a positive attribute..... then I'd be his cat's meow!

Prejudice is a very very unattractive quality!

Answer 5

Wtf?!? I have never heard this about white woman before.It is true there are a few women that show these signs, but that's the same in every race.Your influenced by your surroundings and the way you were raised.If you were raised in a healthy home and your parents showed you how to have a good relationship than chances are you'll b a great wife and mother.
Yes, women , can be a bit crazy at times.But there is usually a good reason: like a cheating bf for instance. Girls don't just act irrationally for no reason. Quit being a victim of generalization.

Answer 6

My goodness!

The person who wrote this obviously has had some bad experiences. It's sad that he would generalize like that.

There are good and bad people, no matter what country they are from. This was only one person's opinion and view.

I don't think we are any better or any worse than other women. Please do not take this "advice" from that web site to heart. Use your own judgment and experiences to make up your mind.

Answer 7

There are bad mothers of every race, just like white women can be good mothers, so to can they be bad mothers. Your statement will never be true for every, because everyones' situation is different. Some women are better mothers than others, but it has nothing to do with race and more to do with circumstance and upbringing.

Answer 8

Yes, I have delusions of grandeur too, so I know I wouldn't make a good wife.


Is this web site you quoted a site that bashes women who have their own opinion, or what?

Answer 9

And all the same things can be said about men, no matter what color they are. Only then its a compliment. This is an old argument, give it a rest.

Answer 10

Lighten up guy; they are just starting to act like men do. They can vote and die for our country now just like men only used to be able to do. Nobody is superior anymore; the entire world is dumbing down.

Answer 11

I dont think any women should be considered this only because of their race. This is an opinion and not a fact!!!