2007-07-26 07:13:28 · 15 answers · asked by mann54 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why its a slow death? If you don't desire living with the woman tell her & get her free consent to get dissolution of this marriage,then both of you are free from each other & happy for rest of your life. No one can force any one to live with the person you don't love or desire. Its always best to call of such marriage & live tension free life. Just make arrangement for her alimony for her maintenance for life or till the time she gets married again & custody of children if you have got.
2007-07-26 17:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you have a negative attitude like that and don't do anything to try to make the marriage work, then I suppose you could see it that way. I think it's pretty melodramatic of you.
If you're in this situation, then you need to try to work on the marriage first. There was a reason you agreed to be with her for the rest of your life, so try to find it again.
Good luck!
2007-07-26 07:19:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you once desired her, enough to marry this lady. Whatever has caused that to diminish, work on it. No one is promised a marriage without bumps in the road or changes. Are you as still desirable as you once was????
2007-07-26 07:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by sunflowergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it isn't. Love is a choice and is expressed by actions. You are making the choice not to desire her - you are the problem.
See a therapist or clergyman if you are a member of a church.
2007-07-26 07:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Stefka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would view that as a slow death...but a very public one also.
2007-07-28 13:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is slow death.
Anyone who stays in ANY situation they don't like, when they are capable of changing it or doing something different, is a fool or a masochist.
Take responsibility for (general) your life and happiness and move forward...
2007-07-26 07:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have already answered your own question if you feel this way. I don't think it is fair to your wife either. I would want my husband to love and desire me. If he were that unhappy then I would want him to say so.
2007-07-26 07:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by Cali Mom 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you are dying from the relationship, you need to get out of the relationship. It will be better for both of you in the long run.
2007-07-26 07:27:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suffocating! But who is forcing? the same feeling can exist for woman too.
2007-07-26 07:52:30 · answer #9 · answered by KAAL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is,it is a train wreck waiting to collide,desire is important in a marriage, you have to be happy
2007-07-30 02:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by tnsupermomwhit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋