Marriage & Divorce - 26 July 2007

He asks me everyday if we can get pregnant and when I say no and give him my reasons he tells me they are no good. He also said if I don't let him get me pregnant he will secretly come in me.... is that bad? What do I say?
then he said I need to come up with an exact month and let him know because he needs to know. thanks!

2007-07-26 13:56:46 · 16 answers · asked by lovehawaii_23 1

my husband is coming home in october for 2 weeks, from iraq, i was wondering if viagra really works, or what we could use to have a really good time, that last and last and last!!!

2007-07-26 13:54:14 · 10 answers · asked by roxie k 1

my wife filed for divorce, even though she cheated on me, but the best deal on custody she is offering me is to pick one of the children to live with me, she only did this because our kids arn't close at all, and barely speak to each other. but i feel like i can't pick which one i want to live with me, does anyone have any suggestions?

2007-07-26 13:29:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a gf and she broke my heart and I ask a question on what should I do and I notice all girls said I should say hi to her when I see her next time, if it was for me I would spit on her face, but can you explain to me why a Hi would do me better?? pls be honest

2007-07-26 13:28:36 · 11 answers · asked by c'mon 1

had a real bad relationship and bad break up, now i really want to try and meet new people, just friends for now, i let him keep me alone for a long time, and now i don't know how to start over any suggestions

2007-07-26 13:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not married. So please enlighten me.

2007-07-26 13:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Page 4

........with her new boyfriend, I still have feelings for her but obviously she do esn't for me, shes got a new bf(a friend of mine) and it hurts to see them together, I'm not wishing them bad it just feels bad inside, what should i do??

2007-07-26 13:07:58 · 42 answers · asked by c'mon 1

i have a friend who is married to a cop. Her Uncle passed away on Monday and Tuesday he left telling her he wanted a divorce. What a nut. But, I want to help her so much and have never dealt with this before with any of my friends. I don't want to over do my support and sound like a complete nut either. But what can I do to make her feel better without sounding too sappy and too overdone?

2007-07-26 12:59:57 · 7 answers · asked by Stefbear 5

2007-07-26 12:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by leo t 1

Married 20 years and have a teenager who is becoming very upset at my husbands attitude towards me. He has become very abusive when drunk and calls me 'a waste of space' and a 'lazy *****'. I worked for 30 years- contributed to the mortgage and bills etc- only gave up when we moved some 6 years ago - he said to give up work. I maintain I nice house but to no avail. Whatever I do appears to be nothing compared to what he does. He he told me to leave, but could someone advise me what what would happen if I should just walk out. Obviously I would not leave without my daughter. He would be left with a 3-bed house which I purchased half of and most of the contents. How would I stand regarding ownership and where do I move to with no funds. He has me over a barrel.
I would welcome any advice from anyone who has been in the same position! I am not prepared to give up all I have worked for and earned over 20 years! I have stayed this long only because of my daughter.

2007-07-26 12:29:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

my new wifes husband owes back child support and is disablesd and has joint cutody of the child he is acting awkward since finding out we got married and said he wants to have the child throughout the school year with us having the child on weekends what is our best way to work this out?

2007-07-26 12:27:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is having babies outside wedlock so attracted. I know that birth control is not 100% but it seemed to work keeping them from having 3.

2007-07-26 12:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by I Wanna Know 3

how can i make it seem like i am not jealous of some things that my husband does. i am the kind that come strait out and say to him since u are so busy starting do u want me to get her #. i want to change that. he is a jealous person too.i don't want him to feel good about me being jealous and making me the one insecure. some tips on how u women deal with men who stare and watch porn behind ur back and god knows what else they do to u that u don't know. how did u or should u teach themm a lesson??

2007-07-26 12:08:22 · 5 answers · asked by baby doll 1

What do you all think about a wife not taking her husband's last name. Isn't this a modern society/country, why do women still have to bear that practice, even if she does not take her husband's name most people would still ignore her real last name.

2007-07-26 12:07:24 · 26 answers · asked by tatys 3

Can I file for a divorce while I am living in Germany and my spouse is living in the states? Will i have to come back to the states to go to court? or is there a waiver for military personnel to not be required to return?

2007-07-26 12:03:03 · 3 answers · asked by greenleaf805 1

We have been divorced for 2 years now. I have since remarried and my kids love my husband. My x only calls when it is convenient for him, and has not paid a dime in child support. My biggest worry is that his house is not a very good place for kids. It is a 3 bedroom house that is his parents, and there are a total of 8 people living there. To top it off his sister is a convicted crack head whose husband is currently in jail on drug charges. I know my x smokes pot and have heard from friends that he is now into crack. I was also told by my son that he sleeps on the couch, and his sister sleeps with grandma and grandpa when they are there. I was told that I had to have a room for each of them. Doesn't that go both ways? Oh and he hasn't had a job since the middle of 2006. He's had a girlfriend for 3 years (we've only been divorced for 2), and now he is mooching off her. What do I do????

2007-07-26 12:02:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been involved in swinging since we first began seeing each other almost 3 years ago. We have been married for a year and a half. At first I was excited by this, now I have lost interest. It is much more important to my husband than to me, he gets bored very easily, and its hard for me to keep his interest. I am 39 and my sex drive has slowed tremendously, plus I am not as attractive as I once was. My husband is the only person I want to have sex with, but he wants more than me. I am willing to be involved in the lifestyle to make him happy, but he wants me to really be into it like he is. How do I make my husband happy and be true to myself at the same time?

2007-07-26 11:58:11 · 15 answers · asked by Sophie 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, i'm 17 he's 19 going on 20.
But would it be too much too soon?

2007-07-26 11:49:22 · 21 answers · asked by Chey_18 3

2007-07-26 11:48:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found that my wife has been talking to what she calls a good friend, in a dirty fashion.

Basically he said i would love to come to your place and make u come everywhere, if we can get one on the side that would be great things like that and there was a little bit of lol and stuff to make it seem jokingly.

She said a bit of lol as well and she would love for that to happen and then said but i will be waiting a long time as if it would never happen.

First off she is making out like it is only a mate and only innocent, do you see anything wrong with this situation

Second, I know how I feel about the situation but do you think I tell his wife.

2007-07-26 11:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

After I filed for divorce, my EX cried with tears saying he didn't want to be divorced. That was in May 2005. Once again, he stated to me in June 2006 that he didn't want to be divorced. In Sept 2006, his mom stated that he has a girlfriend for the last 9 months. During those months we were still seeing each other. In July 2007, I was told he no longer lives with his girlfriend but that doesn't mean he still has that girlfriend. I had to divorce him due to Spousal Abuse and his drug addiction. Should I believe his mom or his words?

2007-07-26 11:43:38 · 6 answers · asked by smiles 6

2007-07-26 11:38:33 · 2 answers · asked by Dove 2

2007-07-26 11:35:27 · 12 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

My husband and I have been married for two years. He told me from the beginning that sex is very important to him. After about six months of being married he got upset about always feeling like he was initiating. That has never been my thing. Am I wrong to feel like that? Now here we are after two years of marriage and we are lucky if we have sex more than once a month. We are remodeling and adding on to our house and I'm not sure if that has caused added stress to our situation. I told him about six months ago that all it would take to turn me on and get me to initiate is for him to put his hands on my face and kiss me and he has not done that once. For a guy who expressed how important sex is, he sure doesn't try to show that he wants it. What to do? Will it change? Do I stay in a marriage that is sexless? I want him to want me, I want him to flirt with me, I want him to be ok with him initiating..... Help!

2007-07-26 11:34:51 · 13 answers · asked by Stacy J 1

Her kids are young, ages 4 to 14, 3 girls and a little boy. She's too scared to get the police involved. Last night they knocked down her front door.

2007-07-26 11:34:39 · 7 answers · asked by kindclinton2000 1

Why it is that the younger generation like to have sex but then don't want to get married, even when they have children outside of marriage?
Doesnt it seems like nobody gets married anymore? Why is this?

2007-07-26 11:19:37 · 14 answers · asked by encourager4God 5

This lady has been married for 4 years to a guy that I sometimes think may be a sex addict. They don't seem to display much affection for each other and I think the marriage is a convenient one ...probably for money . She makes a pretty good living.

He says things around her about other women's bodies being attractive, points out butts on television he thinks are hot, things like that. Single women around them wonder why she says these things about accepting his philandering... now we are wondering if she is trying to send us some sort of message, like if he thinks we are hot and has mentioned it to her or something.

What do you think about this guy, this woman, and this marriage?

2007-07-26 11:16:41 · 19 answers · asked by Ms. HeartBeat 2

Let just say you and your spouse grows old together and both of you love each other. Who would you want to die first? Yourself or your spouse. And why?

2007-07-26 11:11:20 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a 5 year old daughter with him..he has lied to me in the past and disrespected me. I left him twice but moved back because he went to counseling with me and promised he'd change but I moved in a month ago and things are the same. I want to leave because we both know it will never work out but I'm afraid to put my daughter through it again.

2007-07-26 11:02:15 · 24 answers · asked by kelly 2

Im a 21 yr old female and the thought of getting married is getting less and less appealing to me cause when i come on here and read about all these men its sad..Its seems they all want 3-somes with their wife/girlfriend,seems like so many are cheating,or alcoholics,or into drugs or addicted to porn..Are there any good decent guys left in this world who dont want or do these things that i mentioned?

2007-07-26 10:59:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous