I have found that my wife has been talking to what she calls a good friend, in a dirty fashion.
Basically he said i would love to come to your place and make u come everywhere, if we can get one on the side that would be great things like that and there was a little bit of lol and stuff to make it seem jokingly.
She said a bit of lol as well and she would love for that to happen and then said but i will be waiting a long time as if it would never happen.
First off she is making out like it is only a mate and only innocent, do you see anything wrong with this situation
Second, I know how I feel about the situation but do you think I tell his wife.
2007-07-26 11:47:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have confronted her - she says only fun
Him - he says I am not doing her
Both seem to make out like I am the problem.
Its just his wife next
2007-07-26 12:22:47 · update #1
I think it's cheating. She's spending time with another man in a sexual way which should be reserved only for you. I'd tell his wife because your wife lied when she said it was only fun.
2007-07-30 05:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like it's your place to tell her, go ahead. If I were you, I'd worry more about your own relationship and your wife's behavior than someone else's at this point. If I ever did that to my husband, he would be beyond angry. I would never even think to do that in the first place...talk to your wife first...that's the immediate problem.
2007-07-26 18:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by Love my Family <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so weird. I wouldn't do that however, some people really enjoy flirting and it doesn't really mean nothing. Ask your wife how she would feel if you were to do the same thing to another girl and if she's okay with it maybe it's innocent. If she's not okay with it, then you know that something's definitely up with her and her friend.
2007-07-26 19:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by sunflower 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for getting things messy.
I would definitely talk to the friends wife and let her know you caught them talking dirty. However, I would bring your wife along to explain her actions so everyone realizes the other man started it all.
2007-07-26 18:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why tell ?...revenge ?.... for what !.... sorry but I can see nothing to get my n*ts in a twist ...its flirting and nothing else(without evidence), you have stated that she (your wife) said it will never happen ... so whats up don't you trust her ?, if you don't ....I think there is more to your problems than an email or two , and again the only person you should be talking to is your wife ... no one elses, because thats where the problem (s) is ...
2007-07-26 19:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think the other wife deserves to know. I don't necessarily think you have to leave your wife but I would be extremely clear that things are headed that way if this doesn't stop
2007-07-26 21:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
frist of all i am or was his wife and i know that my husband and i where having problems, no one read it propaly if every one read what was writtern right then you see that in my answer my friend in the email,
which was ( BUT I WILL BE WAITTING ALONG TIME FOR THAT TO HAPPEN) as if it will never happen get it
2007-07-27 01:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by gizmo_macca_au 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking dirty on the net is a deal breaker simple as that!! & it is CHEATING & because he was involving your wife his wife should be told!!!
Your wife is as bad as him& she is a CHEATER , she must like it or she would have said STOP talking like that please
2007-07-26 19:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her, him, and tell the wife.
2007-07-26 19:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...you're about to get cheated on, if not already. Ditch her.
2007-07-26 18:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋