had a real bad relationship and bad break up, now i really want to try and meet new people, just friends for now, i let him keep me alone for a long time, and now i don't know how to start over any suggestions
2007-07-26 13:25:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Give yourself complete time to grieve and mourn. Almost like the other is dead. Then once you have a comfortability to look in the mirror and remember why you're so hot. Go out. Get dressed up. Smell good. Look good. But most of all...FEEL GOOD. Make some friends. Go to work and make money. Live life. Go on dates. Basically, pass time. With happy people around you. Good Luck
2007-07-26 13:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by suga...honey honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a group of some sort and get out there and make new friends its hard at first so don't rush it and don't be scared to ring old contacts that you lost touch with because some would of only stayed away because of him if he kept you alone they probably felt uncomfortable because he made them feel that way to keep you alone and their probably waiting for your call.You be out their in no time at all good luck life will be exciting now for you ,you will see.
2007-07-26 20:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by beebee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one day at a time, one foot in front of the other. I know its not easy, sometimes I still don't feel right like I did before I met him...but its slowly coming back. Just be good to yourself, be happy with yourself the rest will follow.
2007-07-26 20:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
day by day, day to day, it will get easier but you gotta take care of yourself, and do things that YOU like to do, try to steer clear of what you both used to like and get rid of reminding things of that person. Learn how to do things for yourself and learn to like yourself again....it will come it all takes time and basically that's all you have now....don't dwell on the past and move forward and know it's all for the best for both parties concerned.
2007-07-26 20:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Stymie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't have a answer, but i though i was alone, we will get threw this one day at a time. always pray because with JESUS ALL things are possible.
2007-07-26 20:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by coco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things always seem tough after a bad relationship/ breakup... but just take things one day at a time...
2007-07-26 20:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by mony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go out there and start dating. it's just like anything else--practice makes perfect.
2007-07-26 20:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep busy. with anything. Job, hobby, exercise.... it will all fall in place with time
2007-07-26 22:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BABY STEPS.
2007-07-26 20:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋