Im a 21 yr old female and the thought of getting married is getting less and less appealing to me cause when i come on here and read about all these men its sad..Its seems they all want 3-somes with their wife/girlfriend,seems like so many are cheating,or alcoholics,or into drugs or addicted to porn..Are there any good decent guys left in this world who dont want or do these things that i mentioned?
2007-07-26 10:59:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes there are, you probably are not going to meet them on the internet, certainly not on this forum. Try a dating site, you will see much better language. They guys on here that talk trash are just trying to prove they are a man or have some other hidden *gay* issues. Don't worry about it. Online, people are ten feet tall and bulletproof, on the phone the can be pretty mouthy, in your face, they probably would duck and hide. That is life.
2007-07-26 11:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are good guys still out there. I'm a 21 year old guy. I have had one girlfriend, going out for 2 years still, im a virgin (make fun of me all u want but im proud of it), not great looking but i would say average, im not into drugs or alcholic bevs.. Just know they are out there. Yes there are a lot of jerks out there but there are good guys too. Just don't give up hope. Keep looking and praying, someday God will point you to the right guy. I know it can seem hard, but your only 21, thats young still. Just enjoy life and know that everything is goign to work out. No since in lettign the worry consume your life. Hope this helps some! Just stand strong and know you are here for a reason, let God show you that reason.
2007-07-26 18:09:06 · answer #2 · answered by william Z 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Here we go again, another "its all the guys fault" thread. I think i'll start a "are there any decent good gals left in this world" thread.
Young lady, it takes 2 to enter a relationship and it takes two to break it. You are reading threads about what, lets say a thousand people, well in your small world how many guys live in it? In mine its millions and at least that many gals too. Don't judge all men by what you read on a computer screen, and we men will do the same in return. Yes there are good men and millions of them, just as there are good women and millions of them also, but that doesn't mean there aren't as many bad men as there are bad women. You say u are 21, and u say u have made your astonishing discovery concerning men and marriage based on this site...have you ever dated? Are all the men you dated what you described here? No and you know it.
I'm sorry and I don't mean to sound arrogant or snotty, but what you are saying in your thread is not constructive criticism, its wholehearty foolishness and not helpful to anyone.
If you want a good guy try a dating site, not a family and relationships chat site for questions and answers.
2007-07-27 00:15:22 · answer #3 · answered by junkyarddogfan 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For one, this isn't the place to find a date - if you think about it, a LOT of people are here because of relationship problems.
But, yes, there are decent guys left in the world. Even great guys! You're 21. You're not gonna die an old maid tomorrow;) My advice? Think about where you are looking for men. Bars? Clubs? Eh...probably not gonna find trust and commitment there. Local activities? Little League games? Churches? Probably better quality found in those places. Good luck;)
2007-07-26 18:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about marriage yet. You're so young. Instead, focus on yourself, and on your education, and ultimately on your career. When you have something good to offer, you'll find someone with something just as good. Give as good as you get. You can't expect to find a decent man if you don't offer the same in return.
2007-07-26 18:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is. But the main problem is, is that people who are in stable happy relationships don't go shouting about it. They just enjoy it. Whereas people who are in unhappy relationships need to talk about it, or even moan about it.
Thats why you never hear of happy relationships. Because people dont talk about stuff when their happy. Only when their going through a tough time do people open up.
2007-07-26 18:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mully D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! But they are boring to most women. It always happens, choose the wrong one or ones and then complain about it/them.
Girls always ignore the good ones and somehow always pay attention to the loud, fake, feet sweepers.
If you are serious about a real man then pay attention and if and when you find one, then know how to keep him. Exactly the same applies to men, guys complain about the women but hardly pay any attention to "nice girls".
2007-07-26 18:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to go for the guys that chases you, don't chase the guy you like. Make sure the man loves you more than you love him. That's how I met my man and married him, and I CONTROL HIM, he does what I say or I move out, and then when I feel like it I move back in.
2007-07-26 18:07:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
find you a overweight fellow, i bet he be a good choice. women alwaays look for the wrong thing in men, try the heart for a chance, not the looks or what he is carring betwwen his leggs or back pocket
2007-07-26 18:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by jwj60 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes there are good guys left in the world
go to church
go to the library
go to school (take a class)
2007-07-27 08:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by laura g 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋