........with her new boyfriend, I still have feelings for her but obviously she do esn't for me, shes got a new bf(a friend of mine) and it hurts to see them together, I'm not wishing them bad it just feels bad inside, what should i do??
2007-07-26 13:07:58 · 42 answers · asked by c'mon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you should get a girlfreind yourself, so she can just see you with another girl
2007-07-26 13:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by suga...honey honey 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try NOT to run into them if at all possible; it will only leave you feeling more hurt. When you do, just smile and say "hi" and keep on going. Once you find someone new for yourself, things will be better. Sometimes it takes someone new to forget an old love. When you start to feel depressed about your situation, stop and count your blessings instead. Put it into perspective. When my son is acting up and I am upset, I tell myself that things could always be worse. He could be very sick or handicapped. Thinking about what is good and right in your life will help. Good luck to you.
2007-07-26 13:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must allow it to feel bad inside, because it's going to whether you want it to or not. And yes, it really will go away after a while.
In the meantime, when you see her with her boyfriend, give them a pleasant nod and a hello; if necessary, ask how they're doing--do all the standard polite things you do for your grandparents' friends! Be a decent human being. Then go home, cry, and find yourself a better girl!
2007-07-26 13:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very common situation and it is very normal to feel how you do. My heart goes out to you....and I think everyone here has been in your shoes...or close to it.
The only thing you can do is take it day by day. It will hurt and the only thing that will help is time. There is no quick fix to a broken heart....not drinking, drugs or sex with random people. They all just make things much much worse.
Just get out there and live your life....when you see the two of them, walk the other way....anything that you can do to get them out of sight, out of mind would be best. It's hard to give more advice past this because there is no quick fix. Just take care of yourself and know that "this too shall pass"....
2007-07-26 13:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as long as she doesn't try to act all brand new just say Hi! But if she does then just still say Hello! Play the guilt game, talk to her new boyfriend about how lucky he is to have her and how pretty she is sometimes that works but if it's meant to be she'll come back to you just wait for her. Another thing is just watch her every move because women always show at least one sign of how we are feeling when we think nobody is looking.
2007-07-26 13:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will always be hard. Try not to see her if possible and try to go somewhere and meet someone yourself. It wouldn't hurt as bad if you would have seen her by herself, but with another guy will tear you up if your still have feelings for her. She must have broke up with you. Everything happens for a reason and you may never know what that reason is, but there is better for you around the corner. Love hurts Good luck
2007-07-26 13:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by T G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't try to hide or act like it doesn't bother you. If she knows you at all, she already knows what you must be feeling. Don't women always say they hate to be lied to or that they hate a phony?? It's ok to hurt. It's better to let other women know that you hurt but aren't damaged by it. Strong and sensitive? Life is a game and they play it better than us. Forget the poker face. You're exactly what some woman is looking for. A man to fix!
2007-07-26 13:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by noshaymatall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her there is alot of good girl u can start from the zero and find a girl who love u the most so dont care about ur ex gf f she still have have some feeling for u she wnt have a new bf so man move on and be the best luck with u
see ya
2007-07-26 13:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Rashad the dark side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's dating a friend of yours?? ..
Aw. Just try to not think about what's gone on.. it's going to be difficult.. seeing them together, and take time for yourself away from both of them for a while. You need time to heal. Do something that you enjoy doing ( hobbies.. etc) Eventually you will meet new people and you're feelings for her will start to fade, and it won't be so difficult for you to see them together.
2007-07-26 13:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tabitha. M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, be honest with you. You are the one who needs some space now, so try to avoid her for now, until you get on your feet and when you think it does not hurt anymore. probably they understand since they are your "friends" do not try to hide your emotions that does not help, just stay away from them and probably little by little you can accept the idea of her being with your "friend'.
2007-07-26 13:14:37 · answer #10 · answered by tatys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be cordial, say hello...and appear as if life couldn't be better for you! The feelings for her may still be there, but it obviously wasn't meant to be for the two of you. Consider that perhaps there is someone else to come in your future that will make this period of time seem inconsequential. Of course it makes you feel badly, but don't let her see that.
2007-07-26 13:11:21 · answer #11 · answered by lsah1852 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋