2007-07-26 03:52:35 · 19 answers · asked by sally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I found dirty magazines on a top shelf in our bathroom I was hurt and upset because for one I dont hide anything from my husband. It also made me real insecure about myself and my body I felt like I wasnt good enough for what ever reason he had those magazines. I was not happy and in a way it affected our marrige alot for a few months I did not feel comfortable with my husband at times, and that is not a good feeling. It wouldnt have hurt so bad if it was a joint type thing but he was hidding them. When i asked a few friends how the would feel they all said the same thing. So maybe make your partner part of it.
2007-07-26 05:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have and don't care. He has never caught me and I do it because sometimes I'm just not in the mood and the porn gets me in the mood. We both watch together as well...It enhances my marriage and neither of us consider it cheating. We make love to one another when we get horny from watching so it really doesn't matter.
2007-07-26 04:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would rather watch or look at it with my husband than to know that he is at home alone doing it. It does add a certain something to the bedroom activities. Be open about watching or looking at it together - you never know - he might find it a turn on that you like it too!
2007-07-26 04:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by djjazzy1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no problem with my husband watching porn because I watch it with him , makes things a hotter in the bedroom
2007-07-26 03:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by wildone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps that women (wives) are too busy with work hours, things to do or busy with kids that men (husband) want there wives afternoon for make love but somehow wives ignore them for busy errands so men decided to watch porn movies than cheating with real women .. like going out to strip bar then get a stripper or nightclubs to find any women to make love ... that is damn cheat but at home to watch porn movies to jerk off that is safe and clean than get HIV or aids from other woman and not to destroy marriage .. that is my opinions ...
2007-07-26 03:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
some women watch porn with their husbands.. it's an individual choice.
if you have to sneak around to watch porn for entertainment, that is sad....
meanwhile, women need to realize men are "visual creatures" and get turned on by porn movies/magazines from time to time.
i can't control what other people, including my husband, chooses to watch. it's not my choice, is it?
take care.
2007-07-26 03:56:13 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well I actually like watching porn with my husband. its a turn on for me. I enjoy it and so does he!
2007-07-26 03:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Simorah Serenity 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was pissed and still pissed because its not like he was doing to while i was there. he always did it behind my back and i had a gut feeling he was doing it so i caught his azz. because he is the kind of person who wants me to not even look at fully dressed man. fu"K that. my reaction was that i was embarrased for him. i mean he lied to me first but didn't work now he had no choice but to be sorry. i felt ugly not enuf for him. i mean to some men its harmless but it effects the women they are married to.
2007-07-26 04:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by baby doll 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
watching porn is not really a sin in my opinion,when i saw him watching it,he asked me if he can rent one for a reason that he needs to know how to please me and what to do when the two of us do our intimacy. To others watching porn movie is a bit awkward but to me a good offense is a good defense,or vice versa....
2007-07-26 04:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I can't answer your question, cause you're wearing a tie, and it makes me think that you're in the office and reading about people's porn stories. Kind of makes me sick thinking about what you're doing.
2007-07-26 04:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋