Marriage & Divorce - 17 June 2007

If he has a problem with me he goes to other people or places to get an answer. He doesn't come to me EVER!!! Unless I play detective I'll never know he has a problem. What should I do??

2007-06-17 04:17:16 · 10 answers · asked by Lucy Lu Hoo 1

Why is it that if a woman cheats she gets labeled by many people as w h o r e?But if a guy cheats many people will give excuses as to why the guy cheated ie wife did not put out or let herself go ect?Is it more excusable for a guy to cheat than a woman?

2007-06-17 04:11:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

18 years and two kids later, I cought my wife flirting on myspace. asking guys how big is their tool. what should I do?

2007-06-17 04:08:26 · 19 answers · asked by kenny60617 1

thanks for all the answers to my last question. you guys are awesome!! i considered everything , but i feel that i tried to let go of all the anger, tried to compromise, tried to get along, we're happy for awhile but, then miserable again. no he's not abusive,not a cheat. he's good w/ boys, but has a temper at times where if something annoys him he growls or screams out loud. its quite silly and it makes me angry because it sets a bad example for the boys.he's hard working. he's a commercial pilot just starting his career, it takes awhile have to accumulate hours b'fore getting hired anywhere. alot of things about him turns me off however, always cranky,prob. due to quitting smoking, not enough sleep, works at night. doesn't really take care of himself, gained alot of weight, not too good hygeine,says depres'd about how i treat him. we fight too much, alot of anger. noones fault, maybe just don't like each other. i feel alone & miss being w/ someone, emot. sexually but not w/ him.

2007-06-17 04:07:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married for 10+ years. Spouse developed alcoholism, quit regular job, & for the last couple of years, spends most of his day either sleeping, or drinking at the computer in chat rooms (mostly with gay priests) & generally has been unsupportive of me (emotionally, financially, physically, sexually). I've asked in the past for him to seek help for his drinking, & told him of my needs/desires, & mostly he changes for a couple weeks, & then slides back after he feels the heat is off. I'm tired of this. He claims he loves me, but I think he loves having a wife paying 85% of the bills, keeping house, providing health insurance, etc. I told him 1 month ago that's it, & he wants yet another chance, & for the month, he's stopped drinking & picking up after himself. I told him I can't say I love him anymore, & I don't want a marriage of convenience. He wants to keep trying, but I feel I don't want to try anymore - I've been jerked around enough. How many chances is "fair"?

2007-06-17 04:02:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Out of the blue, I get a phonecall from my friend Beck. Beck tells me that a girl named Morgan has told her that she used to have a relationship with my boyfriend, 5 years ago. My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 years. She gave disgusting details that made me sick to my stomach, but things in my mind just weren't adding up: the behavior sounds nothing like my boyfriend. Furthermore, this girl is, not his type; she's a druggie who apparently has a reptutation for being loose. Anyhow, this girl Morgan says she'll talk to me about anything, but she refuses to meet up with me and my boyfriend and talk about this in the open. He, of course, is vehemently denying the entire situtation; he says he doesn't even know her and wants to confront her. But she refuses. So now I'm stuck with "he said, she said" crap, and I don't know what to do. I'm left with two options, neither of which are good: 1) maybe he's just a liar, which how do I know?? and 2) if she's the liar, why did she do it?

2007-06-17 03:55:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 13 and people have always treated me like a baby, but now I am moving to the 8th grade and want to be treated as such. My aunt and cousin are the worse. They say things like "Ask your mommy first, pooh bear." And put pillows or papers to their mouths when their talking about "grown-up things." I already know they're either talking about cussin or sex. It isn't a big deal. I just want them to treat me older. What should I do. I'm at wits end. Help me! Please! Oh yeah, and my cousin does stuff like tickle me to make me laugh, like I'm 6 or something. And it just annoys me. What would you do??

2007-06-17 03:45:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 03:41:26 · 3 answers · asked by cinderella 6

2007-06-17 03:36:06 · 25 answers · asked by sarah@520 1

2007-06-17 03:30:55 · 20 answers · asked by Darrin B 1

I feel so empty without her. She was my soul mate, and I thought she was the one that I would be with forever. She knew all my dark secrets and I knew all of hers. Without her life seems useless. She was my best friend. I dont know what to do anymore.

2007-06-17 03:30:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he keeps asking about how much money I get. and once he said you should get your job first than we get married, and when I asked him if not he laughed and said so no marriage and I didnt know whether he was serious or not. but i feel that he focuses on my having a salary.

2007-06-17 03:29:57 · 14 answers · asked by lifeis good 1

credit also.

2007-06-17 03:27:03 · 34 answers · asked by P R 2

I was married for 7 years to a man who was very immoral. I didnt know it when I married him and was crushed when I found out. I didnt file for a divorce right away becuase I dont believe in divorce unless its absolutely necessary which in my case (he left for someone else and got her pregnant two weeks later) it was. I have three kids and I used to be so ambitious and happy and confident (and thin). Now I cant do anything I put my mind to. I feel weak and afraid all the time. I have prayed and tried. My ex-husband still brings me down through oue kids. I try to get away from him and he's always saying or doing something to pull me down again. My life is upside down right now and the more I struggle the worse it gets. Its been two years. How can I break free and have a life again?

2007-06-17 03:26:25 · 16 answers · asked by Kate 1

if you buy a house in joint names and one partner leaves the family and the country where does the law stand on divoce and on having the house deeds changed into one name

2007-06-17 03:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive known this guy for 6 months.
i asked and he wouldnt give me a direct answer. he said he'd call me that night..and he never did. that was 2 weeks ago.

2007-06-17 03:16:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 03:13:07 · 35 answers · asked by dallandraangel 2

My husband & I have been married for 6 yrs, together for
9, we've been through alot, but I don't want to try to make it work anymore. I 've gone to therapy about us, didn't stay very long with any I didn't want to continue spending the $. If it takes that much work & $, it's not worth it. I'm just sick of it! My fear of being alone is not $, because I'm a pharmacist it's just the not having help with kids,(2 boys 5 & 1) house, the car, & anything else that may occur. We live over 3,000 miles from my fam, which is a good & bad, bad-no help, good-at least they're not around to pass judgement. I think my 2 oldest sisters would think that i'm being too tough, that i should try to make it work for the kids espec., noone knows whats going on, i dont tell tell them anything, probably just make me feel bad. Mom unhappily married w/ dad for 25 yrs, sep., never div'ced, he pass'd away was 87. mom still angry,sad alone, depressed, 70. Old sis's shld know better!!how do i get over fear & leave?

2007-06-17 03:07:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl likes me and she wants to leave her husband
so she can be in my pit crew, She even got my car number tatoo'd on her hip ,,,should I hook up with her even if she leaves her husband, she said he is insecure

2007-06-17 03:05:45 · 2 answers · asked by Richie 4

Is it for fun,for time pass or there is something missing in their relationship with their partners that drives people into an extramaritial affair.Or Is it that everything is going well,its just that they have fallen in love with the other person.

2007-06-17 03:05:07 · 15 answers · asked by Twinkle 1

i have been married for 14 years but my husband is really controlling.Last year he got stationed in Germany and i really did not wanna go , but i did i cause he was always talking about divorce.Over there is really hard to get a job and i have not worked for a year.So because he is all controlling and after a big fight when he gave me a concution...i came back and i am staying with his mom...but he is tripping he wants me backin germany and he told his mom if i dont come back he is gonna divorce me..she feels all guilty and i and i can feel it she dont want me here anymore...i have a chance to work but she lives in the country and now there is only one car and she will not share that one with me..she already told me that i need to go back to my husband... whats wrong with been selfish after 14 years ...dont i deserve tobe happy too??? all they care is about him!!!

2007-06-17 02:51:19 · 5 answers · asked by monpetit_2000 2

Only real answers please! My husband NEVER initiates anything sexual with me lately. Our son is two and a half. We are both 30. If I initiate things, and I am BLATANTLY obvious he usually is responsive and things are good. If I just hint around you can forget it, he won't notice. I recently purchased lots of cute and sexy clothing to wear to sleep because I thought maybe his old tshirts were just getting routine. If I try to dress in a seductive nighty he says, "that looks nice on you honey!" and then he goes on with his evening. I am only 7 pounds more then when we got married, although my post baby body is shaped different. I flirt with him during the day, and even tell him about sexy dreams that I have... he seems to enjoy hearing them and gets aroused, but then he rolls over and goes to sleep. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!! What I am I doing wrong. I feel sexy and pretty usually but lately I want to cry because I feel he finds me unattractive. If I ask him he denies it.

2007-06-17 02:50:28 · 18 answers · asked by emallia 3

I have two children with my ex-husband, my only marriage, and kept his name after the divorce for that reason. He nor I never re-married, and some love remained, but there were some serious problems that needed to be addressed. Recently i was filling out some paperwork and when it asked my status, i was unsure as to what is the correct answer. (I had been advised that when it comes to financial aid applications for the kids for college, however to go with widowed.) Does anyone know what is correct?

2007-06-17 02:41:22 · 24 answers · asked by Christina M 2

2007-06-17 02:31:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need some advice, my spouse keeps coming online to chat, I am ok with online chatting in gen. but he will deny he is doing it, even tho I have proof, as I have discovered yet again today, He says it is just friendly -no cyber sex. but why lie about it, It makes me suspicious, in the past he's had a girls numbers in his pocket, and was online checking out the porno. Now, I don't want him to do it b/c it feels like cheating emotionally, this is something I really just don't like now and don't understand how "'chatting about the weather " (supposedly) with a stranger is more important than respecting your wife. He has had many comments on how he can land a chick like me and I can have a wide pick of men if I chose, but I chose him. Regardless of your personal view about online chatting, my question is, if it's something I don't like, have relayed this to the guy, should he not respect me enough not to do so?? If he is going to do it, why lie and not say so, I'd respect him more

2007-06-17 02:30:02 · 16 answers · asked by Yummy♥Mummy 6

easily satisfied anymore, you hear things like he or she doesn't do this for me, should I leave her, where is patience and commitment gone?...

2007-06-17 02:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by happydial 3

HE MY HUSBAND CAN NOT REMBER MY BIRTHDAY OR THE DAY WE WERE MARRYED

2007-06-17 01:39:56 · 22 answers · asked by october_4_2001 1

Custody battle gone bad. New court appointed shrink says I am selfish for not moving closer. Rich neighborhood and I can't afford it. Have good paying job here. Says I'm justifying my selfish ways by saying I can't because of financial reasons. If I do I could go totally bankrupt and be really in the hole. I can afford to visit every other month of fly kids here if I stay with job and location.

2007-06-17 01:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by mauiniki 2

2007-06-17 00:40:44 · 29 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4

Hey Guys, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend next month on her birthday. But for her birthday we always end up goin on vacation. So I know she was telling me she wished she could get a surprise birthday party but since were not gonna be around here I figure maybe when we go on vacation (were going with her family) I could throw a little surprise party in the hotel room with food for everyone and all the good stuff. The proposal idea is this.. Its her bday next month and she accidentally already saw one of her gifts. So i told her I would get her a little surprise gift nothing big though cuz vacation is going to be expensive.. I thought maybe I could get a Big box with that popcorn stuff in it. and put a romantic letter in it saying a bunch of sweet things and at the end up the letter it wil say turn around and I will be behind her on one knee in front of the whole family.. She very family oriented. What do you guys think? to simple? Just need a few opinions. I wanna do it a good way.

2007-06-17 00:14:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous