Marriage & Divorce - 17 June 2007

I've been with my husband for 7 yrs and married for 3 yrs. I recently met another man that I clicked with immediately. I love both of them and don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt either one of them. I'm afraid my husband will be lost and not move on cuz we've been together since we were 14. The other man said he would wait as long as I needed him to and If i stayed with my husband he'd still be a great friend but I'm afraid that will hurt him too and be really hard. I could really use some great advise.

2007-06-17 11:44:03 · 18 answers · asked by w061204 2

I am married to a boy I have been seeing for about 8 years. About 5 years ago, we broke up for a few months and I dated another guy who I feel in love with. I swore from the second I met him, I would marry him. Well, we were young and things didn' t work out. I ended up back with my (now husband) during college and we ended up married.

However, I still think about the other guy. I still talk to him from time to time and I don't know what to do? Is it just that I have such fond memories that I don't want to let go, or is it that I am not in love with my husband? How do you know the difference?

2007-06-17 11:43:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has recently (since last month) started talking to his ex-fiance. It bugs me because when we got together he never told me about her and planed on still marrying her tell I found out about her and left him. He then left her and called me(at the time he was at boot camp). He told her he wanted out and she tried everything to stay with him from the pregnate root and everything. He still choose to be with me. I have knowen him since I was in high school. He met his ex online on something called Vampierave. He only saw her once but they talked all the time online before I came in the picture. Well last month he wrote her saying "She is the only person who can understand him". How can he do this after 6 months of marriage. We have fights like everyone but this tops it off. I don't know what I should think. This women obvisouly means something to him right???

2007-06-17 11:42:00 · 9 answers · asked by Tinka 2

My parents wanted me to divorce my ex-husband because he was controlling, abusive and money-minded. They observed these issues and this came from information that I gave them.

I see other parents encouraging their children to stay together for the sake of their children.

Which is the right way to go?

2007-06-17 11:41:44 · 4 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

i bought her a car. she got in a car accident it was totally. i co signed. she moved out and left me the bill. she didn't cover the insurance, i now have not heard from her in months. but she says i wronged her. go figure,

2007-06-17 11:37:34 · 11 answers · asked by mary p 1

What is life like for the spouses of men in the Army?

2007-06-17 11:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by hisbabygirl1056 1

I am a married man. Happily and faithfully married for 8 years. The only problem is, I sometimes have fantasies about other men. My wife has no idea about this and it would totally freak her out. I have no intention of following up on these so is it wrong of me to keep it from her or should I tell her?

2007-06-17 11:32:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

...so mad that you will be saying things just to make him/her mad at you too, is it considered as "putting words to your mouth"? And if so, it is considered legit? Or be considered as true or real statements? Can it be used against you? What if you were just saying those things just to really hurt, insult and make him/her more mad than you. You know, just to get even, so as both of you will be hurt. He/she hurt you badly that you hurt him/her back, stuff like that! Marvelous ideas and honest opinions are highly appreciated. I'm confused. Help!

2007-06-17 11:28:40 · 9 answers · asked by finding_answers 2

im inlove with this person who i know doesnt love me back...though he told me he loves me but i can feel that he dont mean it...how can i take all the pain i feel inside...im working and i keep on thinking about the things that he have done to me. i love him so much but he keeps on hurting me...help...i need someone...

2007-06-17 11:24:52 · 18 answers · asked by Ann 2

She leaves me for a coworker after a long marriage. Only saying that she is not happy and wants a new life. When we talk she is nice but when her new lover comes into the room she acts upset with me and then when she hangs up she acts like she is trying to kill me with kindness like " OK have a great day!" It almost seems like she has a split personality. I just act myself to everybody and if they don't like it to bad. Why does she do this!!!!

2007-06-17 11:23:33 · 11 answers · asked by ramon s 1

2007-06-17 11:19:13 · 10 answers · asked by Antoine J 5

My ex has accused me of all kinds of abuse toward my daughter, and I live out of state. (Most of her arguments are not admissable in court. We were together until my daughter was 6 months old. In those six months, she never allowed me to be alone with my child...I think I spent maybe 2 hrs alone with her in 6 months.
She has also made it clear that she does not want me to have unsupervised visitation under any circumstances.
My daughter started having siezures in November of last year. The doctor cannot find a clear cause of the siezures, except to say that they were breath-holding episodes.She has had siezures within a week or so of any important court date, scheduled visitation or dr. appt. The last one occurred the night before the preliminary court hearing. My ex says I am incapable of taking care of my daughter because of the siezures. Should I be concerned that she is either causing or taking advantage of the siezures to interfere with visits? Please Help!

2007-06-17 11:14:53 · 19 answers · asked by Techguy2661 2

My child's father is about to get papers served to him, and I was wondering how long it takes to get the dna test results back after you get your cells collected and all. I live in washington the state...anyone gone through this? washington state or not? thanks...

2007-06-17 11:14:12 · 4 answers · asked by lisa1980sky 2

I`m afraid that I`ll never could be longer.

2007-06-17 11:07:21 · 12 answers · asked by Kris C8 1

2007-06-17 11:05:48 · 11 answers · asked by Shibby 2

2007-06-17 11:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by erin f 2

Here's the story, got married 5 years back, ever since I got married I really don't like to make friends, never want to have an open conversation with anybody or talk to somebody about me or them. I lost touch with everybody, including my frineds, well wishers. Now I'm absolutely lonely, all by myself; ofcourse with a husband who hardly meets my needs.
I feel insecured, and to summarize I'm not happy. When some body asks me how are; it freaks me off and I tend not to answer as I think people know that I'm not happy.

What do I do to get out of this situation; I'm not happy with the man I married to. is the problem me, or the man or something else? Please help.

2007-06-17 11:04:36 · 6 answers · asked by Just4YA 2

i am 20 years old men and i am in love with someone

2007-06-17 10:55:51 · 10 answers · asked by sangay tenzin 1

Such a one-of-a-kind question... lol.

2007-06-17 10:54:33 · 16 answers · asked by dirtyturkies 3

Beofre I married my ex husband I told him if he cheated on me I was filing for divorce. He cheated and I divorced him after 6 months of marriage. I moved to another state after my divorce and he's been calling me for the 9 months I've been gone. Went to visit him in May and he asked me to remarry him. I'm scared that he just wants me to remarry him becuase he needs me to sponsor his children in the US and he doesn't love me. I'm also scared of giving up everything, I bought a house in my new state and have a great job, and after being with him he's going to cheat again and i will have nothing?

2007-06-17 10:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by mgmgk 2

I have known my husband since I was 16, (now 36). We have been together 7 years and married 2. When we first got together, we were both going out partying and having a good time on the weekends, that I did not have my son. On the days that my son was home, I did not drink but he did. It got to where he was drinking everyday and would drink until he would pass out. He admits to being an alcoholic and knows he has a problem. We have been working on our marriage for the last two years, started going to church. It has been a rough road, with lies, him hiding bottles around the house and everywhere else he thought I wouldn't look, and lies about pills (hydrocodone-lortabs). In general, I feel our marriage has been one big lie.... but I love him. I have tried in every way to be as supportive as I know to be. He lost his job, went back to school and has earned his degree all during this hell we have been going through. He is now unemployed and I am working as many hours as my job will let me.

2007-06-17 10:38:27 · 25 answers · asked by juliedawng13 2

I was married once before and the guy turned out to be a real jerk. He promised all these things, but once it all came down to it he changed. It only lasted about 6 months and we got divorced a month shy of a year. I've been dating my present boyfriend for 2 years. He's talked about marriage numerous times, but Im still really scared. We got our own apartment in November of last year and he just got me a new car. Should I go ahead and get married again, or should i wait a few more years?

2007-06-17 10:34:27 · 12 answers · asked by S B 2

2007-06-17 10:22:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do? Our son makes fun of him, he is only 7 years old. I told him to stop, the ex. is really happy, but I am concerned about people making fun that his step father is a midget.

2007-06-17 10:06:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If your husband is rarely at home...sleeps in a separate bed...is either working, out with mates, or staying overnight at his country property by himself? He does not try to make excuses anymore and simply says to you.."you know the score, you know I dont love you". He knows that if he leaves, you will kill yourself, so stays because he couldnt live with the guilt. What makes a wife threaten these things when she knows her husband does not love her, does not want to spend any time with her and is always out somewhere. I really need to understand why a wife would expect her husband to stay where he obviously doesnt want to be.....what would be going through her mind? Could there be something mentally wrong with her?

2007-06-17 09:58:21 · 15 answers · asked by rightio 6

Why is that some ladies doesn't seems to like men that are ready to remain faithful and honest to them ?.

2007-06-17 09:56:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 09:34:49 · 15 answers · asked by lakisha p 2

1) Does falling in love =having s*ex..

2) What the difference between loving someone and falling in love with someone?????...

3) what does it mean to like some one....and not love them?????

JOKES aside I'm serious NOW...DO fools fall in love?

4) If love is so strong..why does it end

5) Why does love hurt so bad??

6) When it hurts so bad why does it feel so good?

7) if one has a night stand with some stranger, how come it still feels so good when people claim s*ex is only good with someone you love?

8) why can't we have one world orgy? maybe celebrate "World orgy day" where we just do it with whomever we please as come as they consent to it or call it "butt naked day"'''anyway if there were no STDs i guess. that would be great business for condom companies

2007-06-17 09:29:39 · 10 answers · asked by Life is FUn 3

2007-06-17 09:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for three years and have a wonderful son. However, my mother in law is a very large speed bump in our marriage and often causes strain. I refuse to be around her or allow my son around her but never tell my husband he can not see his mother. When we first got married she advised him not to tell me everything and that it was alright to have affairs out of our marriage. That's what she was taught (hence why she's twice divorced for cheating). I know he'd never do this but I was outraged. I've often asked her to not have my son around her daughter who is back living with her, but has been in prison and is back in to drugs and she refused to do so, so he no longer goes over and we pretty much have nothing to do with her. Trying to talk to her has had no effect. I feel bad that my husband is stuck in the middle but feel I am only looking out for my sons and my best interests. What can I do to stop the strain on our marriage?

2007-06-17 09:15:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous