im inlove with this person who i know doesnt love me back...though he told me he loves me but i can feel that he dont mean it...how can i take all the pain i feel inside...im working and i keep on thinking about the things that he have done to me. i love him so much but he keeps on hurting me...help...i need someone...
2007-06-17 11:24:52 · 18 answers · asked by Ann 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find someone who doesn't hurt you. You only live once my dear, don't waste it.
2007-06-17 11:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mizz SJG 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, I know how you feel. I dated a guy that wasnt worth my time for almost 5 years. He cheated, lied, and said really nasty things to me.... The funny part is that he calls me a few times and said he "cries over spilled milk now".. Basically what Im trying to tell you that men like that usually dont change. The same thing he did to me is the same thing he's doing to the girl he left me for! If you continue to be with him, he'll continue to hurt you. I know it's hard but be strong, go out with friends, and if you're religious pray. Only time heals a broken heart- and believe me when I say that if someone really loves and cares for you, it would be rare to shed a tear becuz of something they did or are doing to you. Don't worry one day your "fairy tale" will come true, it just may not include him! Good luck and feel better- and know that he doesn't deserve you, and you dont deserve to be treated badly. :-)
2007-06-17 11:40:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tinkerbell_72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is way to short to waste time crying over someone who keeps hurting you. You need to stop still and get a grip- find new friends, new things to do- move on and find someone who does want to love you- the world is full of guys all asking the same question!
2007-06-17 11:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by the Phoenix 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you create unnecessary pain for yourself over somebody, who MAYBE only looks at you as a friend, if that? To me it sounds like something deeper is going on. Either get help or end this & take some time for yourself before you burn yourself out.
2007-06-17 11:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by Poet N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get on MySpace and you'll meet a whole lot of different people. You might even find that guy who you had a crush on in high school.
2007-06-17 11:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by gem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breyers Vanilla Ice Cream works for me :>)
2007-06-17 11:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how ya feel, my friend loves this one guy and he does that same thing. I know you love him,but, if you stop flirting he might get bored and start liking you! Hope that helps!
2007-06-17 11:30:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nora Jones 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best thing you can do, is find some way to get rid of him, you will only continue to hurt if the feelings are not returned.
2007-06-17 11:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its either learn to get over it , or let him get the best of you by feeling so hurt .
The choice is yours.
2007-06-17 11:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need is a hobby. Something to keep your mind off of him. Good luck.
2007-06-17 11:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋