Beofre I married my ex husband I told him if he cheated on me I was filing for divorce. He cheated and I divorced him after 6 months of marriage. I moved to another state after my divorce and he's been calling me for the 9 months I've been gone. Went to visit him in May and he asked me to remarry him. I'm scared that he just wants me to remarry him becuase he needs me to sponsor his children in the US and he doesn't love me. I'm also scared of giving up everything, I bought a house in my new state and have a great job, and after being with him he's going to cheat again and i will have nothing?
2007-06-17 10:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by mgmgk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do NOT marry him.Tell him once he becomes a citizen and his kids make it over you will talk to him about it.If he cheated once and so soon after being married, chances are he will again.Use your head, even though it hurts like the dickens.
2007-06-17 10:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are still in love as you say, even after all the problems you faced and the divorce, then i think you were meant to be together and i say get back together, it's not that it's everyday that you come across a love like that !! Only this time, don't let anything come in the way of your love and marriage and don't let anything affect the love that you have for each other... Good Luck
2016-05-18 00:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEEEELLL NO! I've known people who have remarried exes and divorced them again, usually for the same reasons as the first divorce. It sounds like you've gone a long way in your life after the divorce and I think it would be foolish to remarry him and risk all you've accomplished.
2007-06-17 11:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Marty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Christian? If you are pray about it and ask God what He wants you to do. If you ex cheated on you before unless he has made some big changes in his life he will probably cheat on you again. If he has become a Christan and has changed his ways then maybe you should get back together. TAKE YOU TIME. THERE IS NO RUSH IF HE IS CHANGED GIVE HIM LOTS OF TIME TO MAKE IT CLEAR.
2007-06-17 10:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by Curtis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviosly you're a smart woman. Now think real hard do you really think you can trust him again? Probably not. I trusted a lying cheating wife more than once and got burned. Divorce will be final in 8 days
2007-06-17 11:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by jerry b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was cheating after such a short marriage then I don't think he married you for the right reasons, and I think you know why he married you to sponsor his kids, if he is here legally he can sponsor his own kids, he would not need you to do so.
I think you should move on and find someone who deserves you.
2007-06-17 11:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mama~peapod 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't marry him!
he will just cheat again and get half of everything again!
i think u have way more than him right?
cuz then he wil cheat and u will find out and then divorce then u lose everything.
say no, stay away from him, and find some1 else
2007-06-17 10:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your ex A favor. Jump off A bridge.
2015-08-30 05:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's planning on using you. Don't go there! You've moved on and you're obviously doing fine as you are.
2007-06-17 10:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't even consider it*. When its over its over*. Keep it that way or regret going back for a repeat performance*...
2007-06-17 11:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋