Marriage & Divorce - 17 June 2007

This was so morally wrong and deceitful that I can't even talk about it. What should I do? I can't forgive myself and I live in constant fear that the one I love will find out.
I might add...it's nothing illegal or anything. I just hate myself for making such a bad mistake. I used to judge people for doing this sort of thing...

2007-06-17 14:31:10 · 12 answers · asked by Just call me "J" 2

the woman : insanely jealous , spies, checks up all the time, etc..
the man: self cetnered, complains all the time, drinks, thinks hes th eonly one worth a **** in the marriage.

constant fighting.
is this marriage in trouble?

2007-06-17 14:22:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 14:20:27 · 11 answers · asked by shaymorand33 1

and your gf or wife found out. Who has stayed faithful after cheating once and been caught? and who hasn't? Please elaborate. I just found out my fiance of more than 3 years cheated on me. He insists it was one time a while back when he was confused about us. Should I give him the time of day, or is it true that "once a cheater, always a cheater?"

2007-06-17 14:17:40 · 9 answers · asked by Star 1

My fiancee is going back to her hometown and she is going to go out and have a drink with a guy she used to like and was friends with in college, on a Saturday night she says. Should I be worried?

2007-06-17 14:13:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 14:08:59 · 21 answers · asked by Emmie26 4

I was born Catholic but my family converted to Christians when I was 8. I never confirmed as a Christian, only baptized as a Catholic. When I was 19, I got married by the JOP to an atheist. Then got divorced at 21. Now that I'm 25, I met the right guy and want to marry him. He's Catholic (baptized, had 1st communion, and confirmed) and wants to get married in the Church. Am I still qualified to get married in the Church since I am still considered Catholic? Do I still have to get an annulment? Another fact, my ex husband passed away a few months ago.

2007-06-17 14:08:53 · 10 answers · asked by RDC 2

My wife and I was just watching TV when a guy killed his wife because she cheated on him. I told my wife I would do the same "maybe I said that cause of heat of passion and anger I don't know"... Was this wrong to say? She is pissed I have a fealing I shouldnt have said that but its not ok to cheat.

2007-06-17 13:59:30 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 13:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 13:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4

2007-06-17 13:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

now let me explain myself farther when i met this man whom i married amonth ago i had been in his life when he had the accident which has left him totally disable an yes i did take care of him for way over a yr even to wiping his --- for him he could not do any thing as both arms an hands were broken an leg also hurt what i need to know if after my having find that his bottle is more important than i do i have any grounds to recover any of his money that will be awarded to him if indeed we break up i have only been married one month to him but actually been together over a year an a half
an to any of you whom thinks i am out to get him think again i married him for love only love but also think i should be entitled to some of the law suit money he will receive now answer again

2007-06-17 13:33:43 · 6 answers · asked by D S 1

I get really turned on when my husband is rough with me. I love it when he gives me orders (open your mouth, get on your knee, ect.) When he pulls my hair the harder the better. Holds me down, or even calls me a s*** while we are having sex. I lose my mind...To be honest this is almost the only way I enjoy it at all. He has told me that he feels uncomfortable doing it, and he only does it because he knows I like it. Well, that kinda took the fun out of it for me, but my question is why would anyone like being treated badly. And Why would I have fantasies about other guys doing things to me. I feel like a freak. What is wrong with me?

2007-06-17 13:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by smurfette 2

2007-06-17 13:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

control their partners money or the main household expenses?

I've heard of women having their husbands direct deposit their paychecks into their joint account and then the women letting the spouse only use a certain amount each week.

Opinions? Is this OK? What do you think?

I'm not meaning treating these men like children either. I'm talking this is a fair relationship, but maybe the man is bad with money, paying bills on time or is too busy to manage the assets. The women contributes equally too

2007-06-17 13:15:21 · 17 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5

In your opinion, is infidelity in any form the same, or is there any difference in the degree of severity. Is online infidelity, meaning through chat and email less offensive, or is it emotional or the physical act of infidelity/

2007-06-17 13:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

In your opinion, is infidelity in any form the same, or is there any difference in the degree of severity. Is online infidelity, meaning through chat and email less offensive, or is it emotional or the physical act of infidelity/

2007-06-17 13:09:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 13:09:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

THAT IS THE MAJOR CAUSE OF ARGUMENTS AND DIVORCE in RELATIONSHIPS WHICH ONE WOULD IT BE and explain why?

2007-06-17 13:08:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you remorseful? What made you think it was a good idea at the time?

2007-06-17 13:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-17 12:47:00 · 4 answers · asked by notyochic 6

I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 5. We have 3 small children and he has cheated on me three times that I know of. I love this man to death but when is enough, enough. I have stayed with him through so much, but I just keep getting hurt in the end.

2007-06-17 12:33:55 · 52 answers · asked by Cookie 1

wut is the ingredient that i have to add it to my blood to make my blood like ink >??<
anybody knw wut the name for this thing ????

thanks for your help

2007-06-17 12:31:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

when you want out but can't at the present time for financial reasons (both parties mutually feel this way)

2007-06-17 12:24:32 · 8 answers · asked by don't hate snowflake 3

I feel really bad when I listen or half listen to my ex-husband's voicemail messages. He bascially says that we should get back together for our daughter's sake. She is a bright, intelligent girl and we have not taken care of her as we should have.

She does not have a good GPA and is going into the 11th grade. I feel like I have let her down in that I have not helped her where I should have.

My ex-husband has sole physical and legal custody and lives in another state alone with her.

I think that maybe I messed up her life because now she does not have good grades and can not get into a good college.
My ex-husband blames me and I feel partly responsible.

I don't know what to do though. He is not willing to give custody to me. He still feels that she will be better off with both parents.

If I go live in the state where he is, he will pressure me to come back....

2007-06-17 12:15:21 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

2007-06-17 12:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by Hey Girl 2

So why do you think there's a lot of people (specifically in the southern states) who are getting married before they are 25?

What do you think their reasons are?

2007-06-17 12:07:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted to have friend with benefit with this girl - she 18 I’m 26, I was wrong to pressure her for 11 months when she didn‘t agree and kept saying no can‘t have sex with a friend, … but anyway she finally agree to sex with me…but after we had sex. I found myself thinking about her all the time. I don’t even care about sex anymore with her. I find that i keep calling her every minute of the day...i am no longer thinking about sex with her but only think of kissing her and spending time with her- I want to know how her day is and I just want her to be happy, i just feel very strange, if i don't hear her for one minute i don't feel good for the day...even while at work i find myself calling her every minute of the day wanting to spend all day on the phone with her - and whenever I hear her voice I just get so weak- my whole tone changes and I talk to her gentle(a tone which I‘d never let my boys hear).... why I’m i not able to control myself from calling her so much...why do i have to keep thinking about her all the time? I had sex with her and thought that i could just remain friends with her, but what is happening to me...?I’m confused.. even few days back she was upset with me for some reason and I even found myself talking to her dad telling him that i miss her and is worried about her and asking if she is alright…

What has come over me?

2007-06-17 12:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was OK for the first couple of weeks, but now I just feel so down. And I think about him all the time even though I dont want him back, to many lies. I know I am betterr of without him so why does it hurt so damn much?

2007-06-17 11:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married with 3 kids. two whom have been living with him. I recently brought them back to live with me. He is very abussive and has medical conditions. We have not taken any legal steps before this but. I have not left the state but i want to know if he can take any action against me. I intend to get a restraining order on him and file for a divorce.

2007-06-17 11:47:48 · 10 answers · asked by ms_acumen 1