2007-06-17 12:14:23 · 9 answers · asked by Hey Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take it from a man married 24 years.
1. take care of his sexual needs.try something new.even if you don't like it.p.s. anything goes as long as its between just you two.
2.build him up; your the king, your my man TELL THIS INFRONT OF OTHER PEOPLE.
3.do a hobby together ;fishing,hiking,bingo,what ever etc...
2007-06-17 12:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by ronbo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look girl. I don't want to be vulgar with a young lady. But you asked for the truth. And the truth is there is nothing in the world a man likes better than oral sex. Too many women only do it on "special" occasions. You give him a bl-w j-b every day and there is no way in hel- he's going anywhere. I'm a guy,girl. I know.
2007-06-17 12:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get a lot of answers about sex and all that. But basically communication is key.
Also, YOU need to be happy. If you aren't happy then chances are you'll make him miserable and he'll feel like he can't make you happy and then it's a viscous circle.
Also trust, respect and honesty. And let's face it, eat right and exercise to stay fit and attractive...Not just for him but for yourself, plus if you don't keep him, then you'll be ready to find a better man!
2007-06-17 12:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" anyone feel anything. If you want to know what kinds of things he'd find kewl or pleasurable for you to do, then ask him. Anyone who doesn't know your "man" can't tell you what to do that he would like.
They may say rub his feet, but he may have a phobia about having them touched. They may say give him sex all the time, but he may be content with the current frequency. They may say buy him tickets to a sports game, but he might not like sports.
You know what he likes better than anyone here.
2007-06-17 12:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I'm not a guy but I'm laughing my butt of because you know guys have 1 cure for everything!!!!!
Now I will give you my wisdom..Make him feel sooooo important.Make him feel like he hung the moon..I chat with my hubby by phone thru out the day..Just to say Hi....And I hate for us to be apart....Not as much as he thinks but I let him think it..He goes outta his way to do stuff for me....
Don't wine and complain...Don't look like crap when he comes over.....Spoil him..It will come back to you 100 x's
2007-06-17 12:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by southernpal4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mother used to say a good wife should be a "lady in public and a sl>t in the bedroom" my parents were childhood sweethearts and were married for 70 years before my fathers passing 2 years ago. never let you sex life get boring, lots of ways to keep it exciting, movies,toys etc. etc. be his best friend,talk, be honest,listen,care,LOVE!!! don't be a burdon be a partner! it takes two!
2007-06-17 12:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by b.douglaswyatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stress out so much about keeping him. Just relax and have fun. If it's meant to be it will be.
2007-06-17 12:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him.
You can't keep someone, it is their choice to stay or leave.
2007-06-17 12:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he wouldnt leave if he didnt luv u kiss
2007-06-17 12:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋