the woman : insanely jealous , spies, checks up all the time, etc..
the man: self cetnered, complains all the time, drinks, thinks hes th eonly one worth a **** in the marriage.
constant fighting.
is this marriage in trouble?
2007-06-17 14:22:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dooomed to fail,get out NOW!!!!
2007-06-17 14:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by j.r. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the marriage is heading down. They should really talk things out. The woman seems insecure that's why she is constantly checking on him. She don't seems to have enough trust in him. If there is no trust in a marriage then it's going to fail for sure. As for the man, he needs to apperciate others more. He may be frustrated over some issues that caused him to drink. Commumciation is very important in any relationship or marriage. No shouting or yelling at all times as that will lead to quarrel and arguements.
If both of them can't resolve all the issues by themselves then I advise them to get professional help.
2007-06-17 22:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt say in trouble, but "Rocky" Constant fighting is no good! Jealousy is no good in a marriage either, cause you two will start accusing each other of cheating. If one thinks that the other one is cheating, that one just may cheat for the sake of it. you will have to figure out a way to fix your marriage or you'll be miserable till the end!
2007-06-17 21:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like they BOTH need to grow up! She has trust issues and if she does all this stuff like you say then she is definetely insecure in this marriage.
He on the other hand doesn't appreciate a wife someone as selfcentered as he is needs to take a look in the mirror and face the fact that he ain't all that and he ain't worth a damn. They would both be better off without each other. They are both wasting time if ya want my opinion.
2007-06-17 21:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by Vicki A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the mistress in this marriage? She has every reason to be checking up on him-he's giving her reason.
I believe that marriage is in trouble because there is a third party involved. That would cause the constant fighting and other problems you've asked about.
2007-06-17 21:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by mommyof2greatkids 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From your description, yes. The two of you need independent counseling to figure out your own individual problems. Without that you don't sound like good candidates for anyone.
2007-06-17 21:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that depends on whether they are willing to work at saving their marriage. I don't know when marriage became so disposable and inconsequential, but, ask anyone married for any length of time and they will tell you that it is a lot of work and a lot of compromise.
2007-06-17 21:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the couple it might work for them....
Only they ca decide if the marriage is in trouble.
2007-06-17 21:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by BRE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What marriage? If they are like this it seems they are 2 idiot people who have had a "wedding", If they love each other, yes, but obviuosly they dont if they are like this. So no, because it appears they dont care.
2007-06-17 21:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by Brunette Beach Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELLO???? A marriage is a separate entity than YOU & HE - treat it with respect! If neither of you are doing so, then you know the answer to this question!
2007-06-17 21:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by T. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the marriage is in trouble.
They both seem immature and need to seperate and hopefully their is no children involved.
2007-06-17 22:14:32 · answer #11 · answered by will_955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋