Marriage & Divorce - 20 June 2007

Is it just staying together or something else?

2007-06-20 23:58:12 · 22 answers · asked by qwertatious 4

I had an agument with her about her drinking and she threw a bottle at me. I left but don't know what to do next. I feel really down but I don't want to go back and have to deal with her alcoholism. What should I do next?

2007-06-20 23:41:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-20 23:34:08 · 10 answers · asked by shweta v 1

2007-06-20 22:51:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-20 22:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by BigDawg 1

my husband and i have been married for almost four years. we had our first child while still in high school. although we both graduated and went on to college life still wasn't and will never be like other people our age. do we regret it to a point only as far as wanting that little time alone or to hang out with friends.but we would change life for anything we love our kids. we got married after i graduated from high school. we know we got married for all the wrong reason. basically we got married so we could both raise our child together in the same home. rather then sending him back and forth.we started our marriage rocky for getting married for the wrong reason,so it was no surprise that before our first anniversary we had problems.i being younger then he didn't get to have the freedom he had even after having our son.so when i finally was able to drive and have a little freedom i took it way too far.i ended up cheating on him.i know he is stupid for staying with me. but..........

2007-06-20 21:42:31 · 22 answers · asked by francescavictoria18 1

2007-06-20 21:38:30 · 4 answers · asked by uncrowned king 2

i have been married for about 9 months i feel like the sparks are gone....my husband never wants to have sex anymore hes always to "tired" we also have an 8 month old baby so that might be the reason but its me who takes care of the baby, me who cooks an d cleans for him and still wrk a part time job.... what should i do???

2007-06-20 21:15:28 · 23 answers · asked by tweety gurl 2

My boyfriend told me that he thinks I am the real woman. Since English is not my native language, I wasn't sure what it connotes.

2007-06-20 21:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is all about child custody, usually guys get screwed over with custody battles. Right now I have temperary full custody and she has no contact what so ever. Sorry to say, she's an idiot. It started out with her filing for a pfa (protection from abuse) against me, a day later, she claimed child abuse against me on our 2 and a half year old son. All was thrown out in court. I know things are in my favor right now, but it just seems like custodies go in the mothers favor. Any helpful hints for the custody battle that starts at the beginning of July???

2007-06-20 20:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Go STEELERS-58 2

Last month, I kicked my husband, who is a severe alcoholic, out of our home after living together for 7 years and being married so far for 3 years. We have no children together but have six kids from previous marriages, three lived with us, my children and his children live with his ex-wife. Anyway, since I made him leave he has done nothing but blame me for everything from the things the kids do, to money issues, to his drinking, to you name it. I am getting to the point that I am so depressed that I am losing weight rapidly, I have so far lost 20 something pounds and still losing. To feeling ashamed to being near other people especially men, and even just downright depressed about everyday issues. How can I make this stop or at least make myself feel better. I am attending church full-time and he attends the same church. We both were attending marriage counseling until he decided to stop when the counselor let me speak my mind about the marriage. Please help.

2007-06-20 20:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-20 20:25:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im a stay at home and cannot help to be feeeling insecure... my husb has on his cell phone the no of his co-workers male and females thr females are2 that he works with and 1 that is from a totally diff. area code. I cant help 2 wonder if there something IDK. his company is having a grand opening and they are having this big event at work.. it will be catered and all... my Q is do companies allow them to invite there spouse bcuz he has not told me to stop by and he works 10 min from home. my women insticts tell me that there something IDK please help.

2007-06-20 19:42:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I get along well, except when it comes to spending and finances.

I'm currently 38 weeks pregnant and expecting to go into labor any time now. He finds it perfectly ok to waste money on video games, musical instruments, CD's and selfish things.

Then when I ask for money to put food in the house, I get the "I don't have any money to spend on food." The problem has gotten so bad that a friend had to Western Union me $50.00 for groceries a few weeks ago.

Because I'm not working right now, I feel at a loss of what I can/can't say. Technically, it's not my money - but the food is not only for me, but for him and our child.

How can I make him understand that it is important to have things like food, cleaning supplies and sanitary items in the house? Also,
am I wrong to be absolutely pissed off about this?

It's not like he can't afford it financially.

2007-06-20 19:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by mroof! 6

Her parents not agree to marry because her mangleek and our match is not possible pls tell me how we cen marry with each other
and when i will marry with her?

2007-06-20 18:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by Ajay K 1

At least there are commiserators here....

2007-06-20 18:56:43 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2

Where is the threshold between having something worth struggling for and simply postponing an inevitable split? How does one (or a communicative couple) decide?

Is it a sign when you create a new yahoo account so you can go to the marriage and divorce section?

2007-06-20 18:54:21 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-06-20 18:48:40 · 9 answers · asked by kathyrn 1

Okay, been in a really bad relationship for a long time. Not getting any sex at all and if I do I have to do all the work basically in a relationship with somebody who takes and I give. I used to love sex and enjoy pleasuring my mate in every way I can. But recently I started to absolutely hate the Idea of sex. No it's not a labitto problem I still get turned on all the time, but I don't seek sex from my partner anymore because I've grown to hate sex now.

Here is the biggest surprise for those who don't know me from my other questions... I am a man, with a wife who shows no sexual affection to me at all.

-before anybody answers with anything dumb like Viagra... read again I have no problems getting a stiffy I just dislike sex now-

Please is there anything I can do to actually get her to show affection, or at leased stop hating sex?

Thank you for your Answers

2007-06-20 18:45:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anon 2

2007-06-20 18:37:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

im being deployed min july for six months...i just got back from a deployment less then two months ago. i was having a hard time with the new deployment i received not wanting to leave my family again so soon..however i know its for the best and i dont have that much more in the marines. i want to do something great for my family, then something very special for my wife. she is a wonderful women and my rock in life..going on a trip to another state is out of the question due to training i have to attend. we are stationed in cali. what would you want if you were in my wife shoes. i have a few ideas but its nice to hear what others have to say.

i was thinking of taking her to her to napa valley, their we would enjoy all the great activities they have to offer. then the second to last day of our stay i was going to have our kids along with our closest family members join us to re-new our vows. we will be married 13 years on the 21st of july.

2007-06-20 18:37:16 · 8 answers · asked by adrik c 3

I've been marride for 4 years now and can't seem to get my wife to pay any attention to our relationship, she think every single hr she's at home it time for her to bond with her kid which was the child's guilty way of putting it to her mother --"you don't spend anytime with me everytime her mom is around me." I have trie dto make this work and let her know that we need to interact and not have her 12 yr old sleep with her instead of me. I don't know what to do next i love my wife and really don't want to leave but is there any hope?

2007-06-20 18:35:15 · 16 answers · asked by djb2099 3

Thats right...i wan't to test drive cars and try on shoes too. That way I know what I like and I don't have anymore temptations to cheat.

2007-06-20 18:33:12 · 9 answers · asked by ? 3

she is younger than he is, she and i went to la primaria together and graduated together but somehow she married him

2007-06-20 18:28:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

go shopping with their wife?

2007-06-20 18:20:51 · 15 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6

i am 23 yrs.my husband gets me so mad and the arguments are always started by some nonsense.i dont want him to touch me and i often fantasize about moving out and even getting married again. i dont even feel the need to have kids with him. Am i going through a phase or did i marry the wrong person?Please your advice is needed.

2007-06-20 18:16:26 · 22 answers · asked by sweetheart 1

My husband and I split in March and he has a new girlfriend and he is already telling her he loves her. How does someone get over there wife in just a couple of months when you have a 3 yr old together and expecting one on the way? I am devistated, and by the way we sleeped together less than 2 weeks ago and he is already telling her he is falling for her and that he loves her. WTF

2007-06-20 18:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-20 18:00:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started talking with her on different email id when i felt she wasn't serious; but she kept telling me i'm the only one she has been talking to becus she love me. we both had some misunderstanding recently and she sent a message to my other email id telling that she needs and love to talk to me.
I eventually connected with her in another id, i asked why she wants to talk to me, she say she want to know my kind of person, then i asked if you have someone or a boyfriend she been talking to, she said never she don't have but some people just pop up and she too busy to talk to them.
So what do i do about this lady now, do i continue with her or just move on ?

2007-06-20 17:59:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

for the life of me i cant get off! it sucks. i cant have a orgaism unless i do it myself while where having sex. i would like to have one naturally! any suggestions! it would be great if me and my husband could have one together. is there something wrong with me. is there any other women going through this?? please anything will help!!

2007-06-20 17:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by ilikeitalot82 1