Marriage & Divorce - 20 June 2007

Ok so here's the thing my husband has all these girls that will call him just to say hi. When I ask who it is he's completely honest and if I don't know the person, he'll tell me that she's like a sister. He drives me up a wall with all these girls.What should I think? Should I try to say something to him again?

2007-06-20 17:44:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

This would solve a whole lot of this "ownership" problems that result from the wemen trying to enslave men forever in marriage.

2007-06-20 17:40:02 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3

My hubby leaves his car door unlocked about once a week. This is a problem because his garage door opener is in there and someone could just come in the garage and steal stuff ( or worse, get into the house easily.) This has been going on for months. Is it ok for me to make it look like stuff was stolen the next time he does this, so that maybe he will be more careful?

2007-06-20 17:36:52 · 22 answers · asked by undone 4

I just recently found out that my husband has been talking to many women on the internet and had plans to meet. We have been married 4 years and have 2 children. I have never been unfaithful and I do not deserve this~ I am 25 and working towards my nursing degree and I have a bright future ahead of me, I'm just not sure where to go from here I do not want the marriage to end, but I can not do this anymore.

2007-06-20 17:23:03 · 22 answers · asked by Misty M 4

Im 36 and hes 39..We have a 12 year old daughter and 10 year old son.
Married almost 12 years
I started noticing all these calls on his cell phone. It called on Feb 27th and my husband got off quick saying wrong number.
On april 7th, I check his messages and its her saying you must have not went on break yet , Give me a call.
I called her and she said Oh we are just friends, I asked a few questions, she said ask him.
He told me she was a wife of 1 of his coworkers amd calling him asking where he is.
I found out it wasnt the guys wife.I call her and she said get over it, I havent been with your hubby..
I noticed he lied about taking a guy home at 4 in the morning, He said he went to work one day and it was a holiday, He wasnt there, I checked, He lied and swears he was there..
These calls stopped when I talked to her April 7th, But I know I heard another phone ring when I was on the phone with him one night.He works 4pm to 1 or 2 am and this woman called always at 3 & 4am,

2007-06-20 16:52:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mj4Life 1

I have a wonderful family but its as if i didnt belong with them anymore, its like they dont want me there. I am just feeling as if i dont fit in anymore. dont get me wrong i love them profoundly but its like i have a void in my heart!

2007-06-20 16:49:06 · 8 answers · asked by Nune 2

If your married or in a serious relationship and having an affair what is the common or appropriate thing to do, tell the person while the affair is happening or after the affair is done?

Additionally, are some lies in a marraige necessary?

2007-06-20 16:19:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband cheated on me with two different women and I thought I would never get over it.So I cheated on him, he doesnt know.I feel guilty, should I tell him..Lately our marriage has been getting alot better....and I dont want to screw things up....

2007-06-20 16:09:17 · 20 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2

2007-06-20 16:04:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I actually don't mind it most of the time, but sometimes I just like to be alone without any company. How can I tell her to relax with the visits? THX

2007-06-20 16:01:43 · 11 answers · asked by blazq420 1

No job, stay at home Mom. No assets. Screwed?? Please try to be sincere and not just take shots. Thanks.

2007-06-20 15:55:25 · 27 answers · asked by Smilingcheek 4

we were having an arguement about her spending. she earns thrice as little as i do, but she keeps swiping and pilling up bills. i sat her down to talk to her about this. the talk turned a bit loud i must admit. cos i was getting fraustrated cos she finds no fault in spending all the money i work hard to earn on silly things. i reminded her that i earn more than her and that would get a separate bank acount if she did not minimise her spending, then she just slapped me! not only once but twice on both cheeks. i was in shock and did not do anything. she apologised immediately but should i forgive her just like that?

2007-06-20 15:53:39 · 31 answers · asked by jerome j 1

my husband and i have been married for a year. 3 months ago my little girl was born. but we just don't get along, and there is no trust left in our relationship. by i want my baby to grow up in a home with two loveing parents (even if the love is fake). and please don't answer if you aren't a parent, coz you can't imagin what its like to wanna give your kid the best life possible.

2007-06-20 15:47:02 · 25 answers · asked by Maya's_Mama 3

ask your lawyer what information have you got from your x and he tells you none yet but has charged you 4,000 dollars so far should he be fired?

2007-06-20 15:44:14 · 7 answers · asked by Rod B 1

My husband and I have been married for 8 years. We are both christian and we have three little children together. We seperated and I met someone new. And fell very quickly. This other guy says that he is in love with me. (We knew eachother through work for over a year now) Now husband wants me back and is trying really hard. He said that I am his whole world and he is depressed without me. I feel stuck. I love my husband. But we have had alot of problems in the past, with his video game addiction, abuse, and lack of attention. (I was far from perfect too!) the other guy has a couple of bad habits too but we have lot more in common and we get along great and he is more motivated than hubby. Now I am so confused....because I am afraid to give up my family because I know it is best for children to have both parents. And I am also afraid to give up the new guy because what if I am giving up soemthing good and hubby turns back to his old ways. If you were in my situation what would you do?

2007-06-20 15:41:28 · 16 answers · asked by Confused 2

can someone please give me some advice on a way to make my woman real happy........anything will do...please help!!!! trying to be come more romantic............

2007-06-20 15:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, how?

2007-06-20 15:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by luvsick143 2

eye his ex up and down?

2007-06-20 15:25:19 · 24 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6

Hey Guys, Ive been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now. Her birthday is next month. I also plan on proposing to her next month as well. Shes been wanting a surprise birthday party so im gonna be throwing her one with her friends and family there. My idea was I planned on bringing her to the party and having everyone there... Then eating and hanging out with everything. and then let her open her gifts. and then when its time for cake I was going to put will you marry me on the cake?. and then I would drop to one knee.. not sure if this is cheesy or not but if you guys have better ideas can you let me know please.

2007-06-20 15:16:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I had a handy man in my home laying some floors. In his conversation he commented how his first wife was the reason WHY he never became anything more! I guess he wanted his AA and well she had a kid (his) which created all kinds of problems. I have a Problem when the First Wife usually gets the Slap, when there are problems..What about all the Good they do? She stayed home and raised his children, and he met up with another woman whom he is now with, how wrong is that? Who LOST more? His AA degree or her Marriage?
Oh and he's getting married to his lover.....who Won?

2007-06-20 15:08:37 · 20 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 4

a priest. I had heard that if I married this man out of the church it would not be recognized by the Catholic Church. I figured that if it did not work, and at the time I was young and stupid, I could divorce him and later if I decided to marry again, I would marry in the Catholic Church because I was under the impression that the other marriage was not a marriage anyway. It eventually did not work out, but I had waited to long to get it annulled. I was therefore stuck with him for sometime, in missery,my bag that's what I get for trying to be slick and have it both ways. My question is how do I get forgiveness for this? Make a formal confession. Is it as simple as that? Have I caused him to go to hell, by divorcing him? I was faithful to him while I was with him, and he did have an affair while I was with him. Would he be able to remarry or have another woman? I have no intentions of ever getting married again, but could I? Or would we be living in mortal sin if we did?

2007-06-20 14:58:25 · 8 answers · asked by Brenda M 4

I'm not really good friends with them but they have an adorable little girl and I've only met her a few times. My husband will come home and say that his friend is going to houston for funeral details, or his friends going to Austin to visit with old freinds and some family his freind makes these things up just about every weekend just so he can cheat on his wife. I don't want to get in the middle cuz I don't want to see thier family fall apart but I feel like she has a right to know and I feel like she just deserves better. Please advice.

2007-06-20 14:35:52 · 33 answers · asked by Ashley. 3

2007-06-20 14:24:57 · 10 answers · asked by Helgi 1

pls help me im so depressed and paranoid what he is doing there?hope he not cheating on me..

2007-06-20 14:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by cacai 1

Does the cheating always include another person?I feel cheated when my husband puts work or school before me.He gets angry when I try to get him to spend time with me.We have talked the issue to death..He graduates in like 4 months..I guess what I'm saying is that I am no where near a priority to him, and I feel neglected.He wont hug me or kiss me anymore,but he will let me hug and kiss him most of the time.I want to be a good wife and a godly woman, but it hurts. I feel like if I was gone he wouldn't notice. To vent some of my frustration, I talked to a close friend about leaving him. The friend, trying to help, told him, and made things even worse. I wasn't going to actually leave, I just thought it would hurt less than this.I really don't know what to do now... and now his feelings are hurt and he no longer wants to have sex or even touch me.What should I do? I love my husband, MORE THAN LIFE, and I want things to get better,but I feel that he gave up on us a long time ago.

2007-06-20 14:06:03 · 11 answers · asked by Jen 2

2007-06-20 14:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by blamefulwings a 1

I'm going to save all the wishes and put it in a book and give to them just like I did when I got birthday wishes for my daughter's 17th birthday. (She got many well wishes for her birtrhday, than you all!)

2007-06-20 13:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by JBWPLGCSE 5

I have a beautiful nineteen year old son. He is the light of my life. There is no cause on Earth that is worth the sacrifice of his life. I would live in bondage forever as long as he lives. I cannot understand women who send their sons out to fight. Is this a sin on my part? I am Irish. Is this a double sin, so? Mind you all, I know that it is not my choice. If he wanted that, he would do it. Mothers don't have a say. but, when he was little, and thought I was a Godess, I told him that war was wrong and he must never kill. There is NOTHING, no cause on this great planet, that is worthy of my son's life. Am I wrong?

2007-06-20 13:46:11 · 31 answers · asked by Rachel Maria 6

2007-06-20 13:40:22 · 23 answers · asked by blamefulwings a 1

2007-06-20 13:36:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous