2007-06-20 13:40:22 · 23 answers · asked by blamefulwings a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes. This is a rhetorical question, right?
2007-06-20 14:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think is love isn't love at all it's the lust you feel for that other person. Why do you think when you enter into an affair it is good for awhile but then it changes into guilt then
shame.All of a sudden you start to get your feelings back for your spouse and what you thought was love for the other turns
to hatred.Instead of blaming yourself you put the blame on the
other person to make you feel better about what you have done to your spouse.You better look deep within yourself and
do the right thing here.You no it's wrong and you are only thinking of your happiness not your family.If you want to lose everything for a cheap thrill ( sorry you call it love ) then go for
it and watch what happens to you,you are making the biggest
mistake of your life.
2007-06-20 21:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are married there is no one else...you made the decision to marry someone...you cant just change a husband and get another...it was a life long committment....how would you feel if he was looking at someone else...PAINFUL>....<...get over whoever it is...think of your husband...are you willing to throw away what you have? you won't like yourself very much...and down deep the new guy will never trust you...once a dumper always a dumper
2007-06-20 20:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by teri 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Married person can fell in love with other man or woman. Ofcourse it can happen, your are a human being. If someone i only love my hubi/wife its a lie. If you want to forget him/her also not possible, he/she will keep on come to your mind. But Bear in mind, if you act on this, you have to lose a lot. Think carefully before you react on it.
2007-06-20 21:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Buju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be bored and have a crush on someone else. If you were married to them, eventually you'd find you were bored one day and the cycle would start all over again.
2007-06-20 20:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married does not shut down all feelings for other beings. Bad things happen. Yes, it is possible. Yes, it happens all the time in emotional and physical affairs.
2007-06-20 21:02:50 · answer #6 · answered by starrrrgazer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, a marriage ceremony doesn't magically shut off all your emotions towards others. However, being married and loving someone else can complicate your life.
2007-06-20 20:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes its possible and trust me it can get you in alot of trouble.It happened to me.Me and my wife were having problems for awhile and another women came along that gave and promised me everything i was looking for and needed,and no it wasnt just sex.Anyway i fell in love with her and thinking my marrige was over anyway i left my wife.Well a few months later out of the blue the girlfriend who promised me the world all the sudden kicks me out on the street and gives me no reason.So im left homeless pennyless and lonely.DONT make the same mistake i did you WILL regret it the rest of your life trust someone who knows.
2007-06-20 21:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by catfishhunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I think it's possible to be in love with more than one person....the hard part is to not act on that.
2007-06-20 20:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Wildflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i think it is possible... it's just up to that person whether he/she will act upon it. he/she will have to think of the consequences if they acted upon that feeling. you can love someone from afar, just make sure that you are not comparing that person to your spouse....which can cause a rift in your marriage. but if you feel that you just love that person just because....
2007-06-20 20:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by unhappily married 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously. A paper saying you're married doesn't have any hold on your emotions or feelings.
2007-06-20 20:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋