2007-06-20 14:00:14 · 19 answers · asked by blamefulwings a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
and why the hell would you love someone who treated you like dirt??? there is a major contradiction in your question.
2007-06-20 14:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not, people treat you like dirt because they feel that your self esteem is low, start liking yourself, think positive, look good, and know you look good, and move on, a person can only treat you like dirt if you allow it. Think highly of yourself, the person won't treat you that way. Apparently this person has issues, that is why they treat others like dirt, its to make them look good. What does he have to offer that would make you continue to love them when you are being treated like dirt. Not that much love in the world.
2007-06-20 21:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by pookster4262 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did that, for 25 years...I finally got up the nerve to leave him when the kids spotted him slipping poison into my food he was preparing for me "to show me how much he loved me" He didn't treat me bad enough for people to say it was abuse...I got out and realized I didn't love him, I was just too afraid to admit I wanted out. You do not deserve to be treated like dirt!!! Be careful of a second marriage..looks like I made the same, but different mistake....*sigh*..
2007-06-20 21:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by lightningaura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no. i want to be treated as an equal. If i am ever treated like dirt...that person will be without me...in a hot minute. you should do the same too. don't let him use love as an excuse. love is not supposed to hurt. and if you are hurting inside, physically, emotionally, mentall...then you need to get out. period.
2007-06-20 21:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One person can't love enough for both!
No matter how much you cook, clean, and pamper him/her, if they don't love you back and "treat you like dirt", move on.
If you love them, set them free! In this case, you would be setting yourself free!
Good luck! There is someone out there that will not treat you like dirt!
2007-06-20 23:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, we borned alone, we can live alone too. Before you have him, you can live. Why you can't live without him? You need to love yourself more. If you don't love yourself more, who will love you? If he love you, he won't treat you like dirt like that. You deserve better. Don't hurt yourself for being with someone who treat you like dirt.
2007-06-20 21:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Penny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to love yourself, and if you are allowing someone to treat you like dirt you are tearing yourself down.
2007-06-20 21:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not in this life time anyway. There are too many people out there willing to treat you the way that you deserve. Good luck.
2007-06-20 21:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. no matter what, you should never stay with someone who treats you horribly. you are your own person and don't need someone controlling how you feel. you deserve so much better and there is someone out there who will treat you right, i promise.
2007-06-20 21:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mandie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone treats you like dirt, i'd have very strong suspicions that they don't really love you.
2007-06-20 21:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by its about time 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋