pls help me im so depressed and paranoid what he is doing there?hope he not cheating on me..
2007-06-20 14:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by cacai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im so paranoid i dont know what to do im totally faithful to him what should i do to trust him more..kindly help me with this im so disturbed!
2007-06-20 14:38:18 · update #1
don't be too paranoid...if he's in love with you, there is no reason for doubting his faithfulness. i've been married for almost 9 years and my husband is working abroad as a seaman, i would be more suspicious than you are coz he travels internationally and met of course women along the way, but i always trust him because i know he loves me and respect me... that's why in return i love him more and respect him more... anyway, to avoid further being paranoid, why don't you tell him and be open with him what you really feel, somehow the feeling will subside...it is always best to communicate with him...
2007-06-20 15:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by mj cute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been thinking on this one for a day now and can't come up with anything to help you out with except, why don't you try and get a job in the same industry with him and work abroad too?. The other way of looking at it is, How can he trust you while he is away also?. I really think you need to either come to terms with his work, or move on and tell him its over and why. Cheers and good luck.
2007-06-20 21:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably Isn't, I mean most real men would rather wait until they get back and make up for lost time. ! If you want to know for sure, surprise him, by showing up overseas unannounced. or call him at his hotel at different times to see who answeres, But Only if your totally consumed by finding out. If not, forget it, the best surprise is no surpeise at all, know what I mean?
2007-06-20 21:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by spliff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a suspicion, then it is probably true. So sorry honey. Been there, done that. I know what you're going through, unfortunately!!! All I can say is, be straight and ask!
2007-06-21 01:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No different than you doing the same to him.
2007-06-20 21:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen i am a guy who will tell you the truth...it is not to hurt you but it is the truth...every guy will cheat if given the chance...and if he is abroad then yes he probally will cheat...was he the bold type when he met you or a flirt ? that is how he will be over there.
2007-06-20 21:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by demon c 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you have never cheated on him, you shouldn't be worrying but if you had, he WILL do back the same...more than you had. it says so in all ancient Buddha's teaching, it's called 'cause and effect'.
2007-06-20 21:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Bront L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move there with him. off course he will cheat on you. different country, exotic women, no friends who know both of you togther shitttttttttttttttttttttttt its like having your cake and eating it for him
2007-06-20 21:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋