Ok so here's the thing my husband has all these girls that will call him just to say hi. When I ask who it is he's completely honest and if I don't know the person, he'll tell me that she's like a sister. He drives me up a wall with all these girls.What should I think? Should I try to say something to him again?
2007-06-20 17:44:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask to meet them if their so sisterly to him he wont mind introducing the two of you. Then make your judgement by meeting the women....If he cooperates
2007-06-20 17:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Loving Life! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wonder how he'd feel if you had men calling you that he has never met before?
Your husband sounds like he is not being very sensitive to your feelings, and in truth, why do these people need to call HIM? Is he a therapist or something?
I would definitely talk to him again and tell him in no uncertain terms should women be calling your house, or him calling them. He's a married man. The time he spends on the phone talking to his "sisters" could be time spent with his wife.
2007-06-20 17:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by DARYL C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should straight out tell your husband that you dont like it when all these girls call him. If they are really as he puts it 'like his sister' then ask him if you could meet them. That way you could get a better look and understanding of the way he acts with them. If you think theres something more then just a friendship going on, which personally to me it does, then mention that to him too. I hope this helped!! Goodluckk!!
xoJennyox
2007-06-20 17:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a matter of time before two people of the opposite sex who share and enjoy conversation together start what is called an emotional affair. The next step of a sexual affair is just a matter of time plus proximity .
If one values their marriage then these friendships need to be avoided. Two questions I would ask myself is my spouse lacking in character or else is our relationship lacking in meeting each others needs?
2007-06-20 18:11:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gary V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have trust in him, then question why you are with him. If he tells you that its just a friend, then believe him, unless you have proof that he is cheating then you can say something. I say this from experience, I have lots of male friends and they call me, my husband trusts me enough and he has every reason too. Some people can have friends of the opposite sex and it be JUST friends. I would not worry about it.
2007-06-20 17:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I would say something about it but the thing is you said again. He should of respected you the first time you said something about it. How would he feel if you had all these guys calling you and your excuse was the same as his. If you say something again to him and he doesn't stop then you should be on your guard with this.
2007-06-20 17:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by babieshay27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell him you trust him and love him but what if you had a whole bunch of male friends how would you feel, dont pick a fight dont nag and complain just tell him how it makes you feel. I have a male best friend my hubby has a female best friend, both friends in our lives since we were kids, before we met, but other opposite sex friends we dont do that to avoid problems so other than them are friends consist of family and other couples
2007-06-20 17:49:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Duff. Well to me it is better for you to check on this girls and try to talk to them when he is busy doing something and on that particular time if the phone rings then it is better to check who they are. It is fine when her personnal assistant or his secetary calls him, for a offical work but not a non offical work, Because if you did not check on this particular girls it could maybe be his one night stand girls of liking to just having sex with him, and only for his cash purposes, when he is just saying they are just sister to you then you should have doubt about it, and maybe he is trying to cheat on you, neither than you keep falling in love with him. Try this and hope it might help you....................
ALL THE BEST..........................
2007-06-20 17:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? i think "like a sister" is code words for "back off because i don't want you getting suspicious".
i like the idea of getting to know and meet these "sisters". guess i'm just a skeptic as all the men i've dated and who cheated all seemed to have a lot of female "like a sister" friends too.
2007-06-20 17:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what it means is a guy can think of a girl as a sister and a man as a brother. it is a sisterhood thing maybe this person thinks that he is african american .. if that is the case then don't be afriad to tell the person that he or she is not african american and that he needs to stop talking like he is...
2007-06-20 17:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is he doing with girls numbers in the first place?? with all due respect are you dumb? a highschool student will know whats going on and he plays the honest game that just makes it easier for him not to hide the girls just another way to play the game.
2007-06-20 18:23:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋