Marriage & Divorce - 20 June 2007

My husband left me and the three kids six months after he started having an affair with another woman ( I discovered this after he left.)
I asked him to leave me the car. He wouldn't. He then bought himself a luxery car. So then he had two cars and I had none.

I eventually bought a car for me and the kids.

Anyway, he has given the car to the girlfriend's mother ( who I also understand is a home wrecker)! He couldn't leave it for us ( the kids are little and need to be driven to school, doctor's appointment, etc.)

I still have a key to the car and as I live in a community property state, I can legally just go and get it. Part of me wants to do that. The other part says that this is God's way of showing me that I am better off without this azzhole.

What would you do?

2007-06-20 03:21:32 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

My soon to be ex wife cheated on me back in October. She got drunk crashed my car and she called home to tell what she had done. during the conversation we started yelling cause she was drunk and then she says thats ok cause i'm *****&% mike and he fuc*% better then you. so I said ya but hows the car? well I stayed with her for a few days but I noticed this guy Mike kept calling her cell phone. Then one day she told me I had to get out and she wasnt going to let me see my son anymore. Now 9 months later she is begging for me back and she is pissed cause I am finally getting the divorce. She cheated on me and tried to keep my son from me why the hell wont her psycho *** get over me

2007-06-20 03:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-20 03:17:54 · 27 answers · asked by eagan_babe2005 1

2007-06-20 03:12:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why have women always been fiercely insulted more than men by public when the subject is adultry?...What makes it more horrible and insulting when women commit it?...We tend to call women who has an extramarital affairs "whore,slut,ect...". But what about men?...Have you heard of any words used for adulterous men for insulting them so rudely?...

2007-06-20 03:07:42 · 76 answers · asked by pandora's box 1

Me and my husband have been happily married for 7 years now. We have two lovely children. There's only one problem. Lately, when ever we are intimate he wants to turn the TV on to look at "eye candy" as he puts it. I don't really understand why he wants to look at other women everytime we are intimate. I am fairly open minded to anything he wants to try and he looks at a lot of porn on the net, and that is OK with me.

It feels to me as if I am not sexy enough for him to get arroused or exited. I look well after myself and keep a close watch on my weight (5.48ft and 124pounds).
Its not a problem if he does this once in a while, I also enjoy it occationally. But lately I'm feeling rejected in a way. Am I being too selfish wanting all of his attention on me (on my body I work so hard on to keep sexy for HIM)?

Please tell me if I am making an issue out of nothing. I Love him but he just does't make me feel good about myself. What can I do? Please help!

2007-06-20 03:04:30 · 14 answers · asked by Annie 1

Hubby an I had a few drinks and started getting kinky. We shared some of our fantasies with each other and he said his fantasy was about me wearing stockings and pleasing another man while he watched. I was shocked to hear this. I didn't want to get mad because I started the idea about sharing your fantasy. he also told me he fantisized about me wearing lingerie in front of his best friend and sharing me with him...Is this healthy? OMG I don't know know what to do now. I wasn't expecting this! His friend his a totally hotty and I hope he doesn't know this as well. What should I do? Im so confused.

2007-06-20 03:01:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

whatever I do, she asks why? She believes it is good to ask every single question. Oh, did you talk to your accountant today? oh, did you talk to your friend today? why didnt u tell me about this? why u are not doing this? why r u doing that...
I really love her but ...
Is there a way to change our relationship to a frindship?

2007-06-20 02:59:35 · 11 answers · asked by hoomanagha 1

I have always been a non-confrentational woman. I tend to back down from an argument and sweep things under a rug. I am getting married in 3 months and have found that it is time for me to start standing up for myself and expressing when I have a problem or when my feelings have been hurt. This is not going over well with my fiance. When I bring up my concerns or hurt feelings he tends to tell me that I am being silly or gives me some type of psychological analysis about why I am having these feelings. I am usualy dismissed and leaves me with the feeling that he doesn't care. I love him very much and feel that most of our marriage will be great, but HOW DO I GET HIM TO TAKE MY FEELINGS SERIOUSLY? I don't want to spend a marriage backing down from how I feel and ignoring part of my happiness.

2007-06-20 02:54:18 · 18 answers · asked by cperreault78 1

My friend and I have been dating for 4 years now and we've talked about marriage before, even have talked about getting married February 2008, but haven't set a date. I've been married before, but he hasn't. Do you think it's time to set a date or make plans?

2007-06-20 02:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by Pronto 1

Me and my husband have been married for 7 yrs and he said I have put him through hell with my mood swings and different personalities. He now says that he is tired of it and he don't know what he wants to do. He has been hinting at a divorce yet still sleeps in the same bed. I am stuck and really don't know what to do. What shall I do?

2007-06-20 02:42:55 · 17 answers · asked by Mi-Mi 1

Corinthians 7.1-36

"it is well for a man not to touch a women"but because of cases of sexual immorality each man should have his own wife and each women her own her won husband."
to the unmarried and the widows i say it is well for them to remain unmarried as i am.but if they are not practicing self-control,they should marry for it is better to married than to be aflame with passions.
now concerning virgins,i give my opinions as one hwo by the lord`s mercy is trusthworthy,ithink in view of the impending crisis it is well for you to remain as you are.are you bound to wife? dp not seek to be free are you free from a wife do not seek wife. but if u marry u do not sin and if a virgin marries she does not sin.yet those who marry will experience distress in this life i would spare you that,let even those who have wives be as though they had none and those who mourns as though they were not mourning and those rejoice as though they were not rejoicing and those who buy as though no ..

2007-06-20 02:06:47 · 6 answers · asked by truth set free 1

I have had 2 long term relationships with 2 different guys that were over 40 and have never been married. Am I waisting my time hoping that I will be the one?

2007-06-20 01:56:19 · 25 answers · asked by FAYE 1

my gf and i are 9 hrs apart . she is driving to me today and then driving tomorrow back home.wood it b easier fo rme to fly up on certain days or the weekend.. so we can spend time with each othher ... and each other swap weekends to see each other..or is the odds too much against us?

2007-06-20 01:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by country4skot 1

I am married, have been for a year. I am bisexual and my husband of course has always known this. I went on vacay recently to visit my "girlfriend" (yes my husband didnt care), he said he was fine with it as long as it wasnt some random girl (ive known her for 6 years). So me and her did our thing, I come back, tell him everything of course and now he doesnt want me to do it again.....ever. What changed his mind? And am I the one in the wrong for doing this?

2007-06-20 01:53:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Kind of a random question that doesn't really relate to my marriage, but someone I know. Do you or other married women you know ever look at another friend's husband and think to yourself...I wish he were my husband or..I wish my husband were more like him.

2007-06-20 01:53:42 · 22 answers · asked by TB28 2

A friend pointed out the fact that my wife has a recent profile on Lavalife. With her picture and everything. I went and looked at the ad and it broke my heart. What should I do?

2007-06-20 01:51:01 · 17 answers · asked by Justin 1

My ex and I had been together for a year, but we've recently been broken up for a little bit over a month.

During our breakup he inidcatd no signs that he still wanted to be with me. I had been intimate with one person once and I told him that truth. Since then he said that We had no chance becuz of that.

Earlier in the week now he decided that I do have a chance. So I AM making the eoffrt. We talk on and off the phone a good bit I guess, more than before. But our convos seem to be dry and lacking much. We talk about our days and then it seems theres nothing more to talk about. What kind of convos. can I start that will keep us talking?

Also, we haven't seen each other in person in over a week, I would Like that very much but he always seems to be busy.

Please help, any ideas or suggestions???

We broke up basically becuz I was 'never by his side" during our relationship. and he was always there for me. But i want to show and PROVE to him that I am and will be!

2007-06-20 01:47:32 · 2 answers · asked by SouthCackalacky 1

we married and seperated 6 months later. I filed for divorce 2 years later. At the time I told the judge my husband is not the father of my then 2 yr old son. He court ordered my husband to take and pay for a paternity test. This was 15 years ago and he finally did it, now that my son is almost 17. Now that the test is done is my divorce still valid?...or do I have to start all over again and come up with all of that money again?..I live in Michigan.

2007-06-20 01:44:01 · 4 answers · asked by kim 3

I have 3 children (boy15, girl13, and boy10). The 15 y/o has been cursing, been difficult to live with lately. We moved in with my fiance in Nov. The fiance has always taken a passive role in disciplining; in fact he does better than I do at times. Lately my 15 y/o son has been calling the fiance names (ie: "you're such an ******", "I don't like you", "You're annoying", and the worst, "F off"). The latest argument (last night) included all of the above mentioned explicatives. Last night fiance stated he didn't want "that kid" back in his house. He said, "As God as my witness I don't want that kid back here in MY house. So you're going to have to do something about it, move out, whatever." He refuses to talk about it as he is too angry, but as a Mom, I have to stand by my children. I'll HAVE to move out if he's genuinely serious. We've gone to counseling already. now what....?
Any suggestions? thank you so much

2007-06-20 01:41:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just filed for divorce 2 weeks ago and the lawyer called me yesterday to let me know I had to pay $165 a week for one child. I about fell outta my seat....$660 a month!!!!! I make a yearly salary of $44,000. I know a guy that only pays $450 for two kids but I don't know how much he makes, I know he works for the state. But the lawyer told me the laws on child support has changed. Did the laws change? Does this sound accurate? Why so much? It's gonna be hard for me to pay my own bills plus drive 200 miles to get him every other weekend!!!! HELP??

2007-06-20 01:37:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend went through a divorce 2yrs ago. Her ex got remarried(to his mistress) and is fighting for sole custody of their ten year old son. Her orginial divorce seems to be doing just enough to prevent malpractice. She need a lawyer who will fight tooth and nail. He was the custodial parent of their two teenage sons. The ex had been in a psych ward during their marriage and her present lawyer did not bring this up in the original divorce hearing because he said that would have no barring on the case. (If her ex wins sole custody, can he move to Canada? Those are his plans.) Please help. It would be great if you presonnaly used the lawyer.

2007-06-20 01:29:45 · 2 answers · asked by d j 1

The other day I said to mine "It's just too hot to wear clothes today," as I stepped out of the shower, "honey, what do you think the neighbors will say if I do?
"They'll probably think I married you for your money," she replied quick as a flash.

2007-06-20 01:24:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anthony F 6

My wife and our daughter (she is 13) they don't seems to live in harmony. They argue over very small issue which i think can be sorted out just by mutual discussion. I have discussed with them several times and neither of them seem to learn. My daughter don't give in (always wants to know WHY?) and my wife get angry very quickly. I sit in between their hot tempers and is now breaking my heart as i did not think this is a family i wanted. To make matters worse is that whenever my wife has fight with our daughter the bedroom is COLD/ZIP. I suffer twice since i don't have the family i wanted and the bedroom is so lousy... What to do?

2007-06-20 00:38:29 · 16 answers · asked by Nuel 1