Re-sparking Chance with recent Old Love???!?

Question

My ex and I had been together for a year, but we've recently been broken up for a little bit over a month.

During our breakup he inidcatd no signs that he still wanted to be with me. I had been intimate with one person once and I told him that truth. Since then he said that We had no chance becuz of that.

Earlier in the week now he decided that I do have a chance. So I AM making the eoffrt. We talk on and off the phone a good bit I guess, more than before. But our convos seem to be dry and lacking much. We talk about our days and then it seems theres nothing more to talk about. What kind of convos. can I start that will keep us talking?

Also, we haven't seen each other in person in over a week, I would Like that very much but he always seems to be busy.

Please help, any ideas or suggestions???

We broke up basically becuz I was 'never by his side" during our relationship. and he was always there for me. But i want to show and PROVE to him that I am and will be!

Answer 1

I hate to brake it to you, but it sounds like he's stringing you along. How can he judge you because of who you saw when you guys were not together and he didn't seem to want to change that? Were you just supposed to move to a nunnery on the off chance he may want you back and untarnished?? I have a feeling that he doesn't want you, he just doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Maybe you were partly responsible for the breakup, (no one is ever completely at fault), but if he loves you and you've promised to change, then he has no right to ignore you, or try to turn the tables on you. It's all about forgiveness and I don't think you have his, nor do I think you need it. You can do better.

Answer 2

Then do it!!!