My soon to be ex wife cheated on me back in October. She got drunk crashed my car and she called home to tell what she had done. during the conversation we started yelling cause she was drunk and then she says thats ok cause i'm *****&% mike and he fuc*% better then you. so I said ya but hows the car? well I stayed with her for a few days but I noticed this guy Mike kept calling her cell phone. Then one day she told me I had to get out and she wasnt going to let me see my son anymore. Now 9 months later she is begging for me back and she is pissed cause I am finally getting the divorce. She cheated on me and tried to keep my son from me why the hell wont her psycho *** get over me
2007-06-20 03:20:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She made a mistake and it cost her and now instead of dealing with the consequences, she wants to blame the whole thing on you as if you were responsible. By making you the bad guy, she's trying to appease her own feelings of guilt for the irresponsible choices she made.
Don't let her manipulate your feelings. Divorce her and do your best to main control. Don't let her control you.
2007-06-20 03:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm what do YOU want?
First of all... normalize the relationship with the wife so you can ensure you have a good relationship with your son.
I have zero respect when children are used as weapons. Shame on her.
Given her alcohol use is full custody of interest to you?
Are you ensuring that YOU are not using your son as a weapon in your R with the soon to be ex? Do NOT...
She is clearly a mess... of course she is if she is drinking. So ... you were the one she married and you will ALWAYS have this son between you so she can never be out of your life.
Long story short... go find a counsellor who will help you and your son have some kind of relationship with this woman ... expecially if you are expected to co parent. Al Anon will help you both. As will co parenting when separated. If she doesn't at least agree to that... you need to decide what you want to do.
Just understand that as parents... you are NEVER out of each others lives. You take the high road and learn to be civil first... for the sake of your child.
2007-06-20 03:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She realized she made a mistake and now is trying to correct it. I would go ahead with the divorce still and try to get custody of your son. SHe is a wreck it sounds like. Do what is best for your son. She is the one who made the mistake not you or your son.
2007-06-20 03:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by llexiann30 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she's psycho! Believe it or not just ignoring these kinds of folks or their antics, works wonders. If they don't get a rise out of you then you aren't worth their efforts and usually move on to someone else who's "more fun" in their minds.
2007-06-20 03:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 00:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by piazza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what u think is best for u.
2007-06-20 03:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋