my gf and i are 9 hrs apart . she is driving to me today and then driving tomorrow back home.wood it b easier fo rme to fly up on certain days or the weekend.. so we can spend time with each othher ... and each other swap weekends to see each other..or is the odds too much against us?
2007-06-20 01:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by country4skot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
O it can work and will do wonders for your married life if you two are getting married. We are doing it been with each other for 3yrs. We always have people look at us with the look as to say why cant we be as happy as they are. It tends to really drive home the dont know what you have until its gone,because you get to live it while being in love is a very good booster to your relationship. soooo yes it can,you will go thru seperation anxiety for awhile but it gets bettter.
2007-06-20 02:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by keithleyjustin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer relatively, its uncommon that possible artwork. Its annoying to maintain a courting once you're no longer in contact in thier on a daily basis existence. maximum long Distance relationships are no longer something yet an get away from the persons contemporary certainty, quickly one or the two human beings will want the somebody this is close to and that's many times whilst an prolonged distance courting stops.
2016-12-13 08:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by okamura 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question you must ask yourself is this; how much do I really care about this person? Because I've seen this happen before. The bf and gf are doing really well on the commute back and forth to see each other, and then a job promotion comes up, more workload comes up, and even job relocation comes up. My brother is in Conneticut and he just got a job in NYC so that puts him and his girlfriend apart. They've got their situation worked out. You two need to talk about EVERYTHING that might come between the two of you and then continue to figure out what is the most convenient for the both of you as far as commuting back and forth to see one another. I hope your situation works out. Take care
2007-06-20 02:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by Blessed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are not a bad thing...it just all depends on how dedicated you are to this relationship. As long as you put your heart and soul into any relationship, and give it your all, you have a better chance of making it work. Good luck. Oh and I know what you're going through, try being married to someone that is in the army. You're alone for 15 months at a time...it sucks, but somehow we make it work!
2007-06-20 01:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a long distance relationship and it didn't work out, but I know lots of people that have been in them and they worked out fine. My old roommate used to see her bf 2 a month once she would go up there and then he would come to her. If you are doing it every weekend it might be a little too much.
2007-06-20 02:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the two people involved in the relationship.
It can go either way:
' Out of sight out of mind ' or ' absence makes the heart grow fonder '
But I must admit a relationship by itself is hard work, let alone a long distance relationship! If you are both committed to the relationship and willing to work hard, you guys might just be one of the lucky few to make it work!
2007-06-20 02:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance is what you make of it. In my personal experience it didn't work and I did it for 2 years. I think that if both people are committed to it then it can work....if not then you're wasting your time. Make sure you are both on the same page before you start any regular commuting.
2007-06-20 02:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely can work. My husband and I were apart for a year (we were dating at the time). He was in Korea and I was in Iraq. We emailed everyday, eventually he was able to call me, we talked online as much as we could. It hurt like hell, I am not going to say it didnt, but it helped us realize one thing; and that was that we couldnt be without each other and how much we love each other. I went back to the states, he came to visit, we married, and now we are in iraq....together. It can work and it will work if it is meant to be. You just have to never stop trying, you have to make it work. Its worth it!
2007-06-20 02:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are not a bad thing- they just require more work because you are so far apart.
you need to make the effort in going to see her yourself as well so that she is not the only one trying to make it work between you
good luck!
2007-06-20 02:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you two been dating? 9 hours is nothing. if you really want this to work and you love her. everythiong will work out in the end
2007-06-20 01:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Randa L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋