My friend and I have been dating for 4 years now and we've talked about marriage before, even have talked about getting married February 2008, but haven't set a date. I've been married before, but he hasn't. Do you think it's time to set a date or make plans?
2007-06-20 02:46:02 · 13 answers · asked by Pronto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you b.f is not ready, do not push him too much or you will just push him away!! If you love him and he loves you what is the prob? If it is meant to be it will happen!!
2007-06-20 02:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by housewives5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe if he wanted to marry you he would have buy know he is probably a kind of person that count up some cost their is something about you that makes him afraid to go ahead a do it Men watch women before they get married they want to know what they are getting in to unlike most women we just soooo in love . It could have been the smallest thing you set his mind another way. A husband is looking for someone that will be a virtous women supporting, strong, christ like even though they might not be don't like to hear of your old hoe days it turns them off they want to visual that they are marring the perfect women even though no one is perfect we all know that. Start talking less and observing more. Be whole and happy and confident in you men are very attract to this type of women be blessed
2007-06-20 02:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by tellthetruth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does marriage even have to be the "next" logical step?
People can love each other and be together in a committed relationship without that piece of paper that states that the man has just enslaved himself to a woman's whim of divorce later on.
Marriage doesn't benefit men the same way it does women given the divorce culture in this country. If he is hesitant, he has legitimate reasons to be hesitant to marry.
2007-06-20 02:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to get married? The pressure of marriage does not need to define your relationship. My husband and I dated for five years before we got married and we were in no hurry to do so. My advice, decide why you feel the need to get married (do you want children, do you want to be legally bound, etc.) and weigh that decision against how you feel know. If the need to get married outweighs how you feel know, that get married. But, if you are happy with the status quo, then so be it. The only thing that matters is how happy you are in your relationship now. Marriage does not necessarily guarantee happiness! Good luck in whatever you decide!
2007-06-20 02:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Sara C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My spouse and that i've got been married for almost 3 years. i admire her even better than the 1st day I married her. for my section, the spark purely dies in case you enable it. We nonetheless have super chemistry and that i admire her greater now considering that she's given me a son and we've a daughter who's due next month. cope with one yet another perfect and issues would be good. be certain you're looking after the different's needs. Love does final, yet there's a touch compromising. you will desire to fulfill interior the middle.
2016-09-28 04:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by cronican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a long time -- but he would have asked if he really wanted to get married, after two or three years. You two might love one another, but just not be a match for marriage.
2007-06-20 02:49:28 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get marriend when you all are ready. my fiance and i last yr were tlaking about setting a date but we never did last yr, but finally took the next step this yr and we are getting marriend in 4 days. but the way you asked your ? it sounded like that you dont want to be in the relationship if marriage isnt going to happen.....thats a whole different story. but if you 2 want to get marriend you just need to sit down with each other and really start planning.
2007-06-20 02:50:48 · answer #7 · answered by baby_love_marybeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is not going anywhere it is time to call it in as DOA. What is the point in being in a relationship that is not growing? You are not getting younger and neither is he. What will you do when the pretty is gone? Lets be honest, it is our look that attracts the mate and then our brain that is supposed to keep them. After time, the look will go and then what?
2007-06-20 02:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by ninia1968 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't really sound all that enthused about getting married. Do you really love this man? If so, set a date and make plans.
2007-06-20 02:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tracy Robinson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is totally up to the two of you. Don't let others dictate your lives. Good luck
2007-06-20 02:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by puanani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋