A friend pointed out the fact that my wife has a recent profile on Lavalife. With her picture and everything. I went and looked at the ad and it broke my heart. What should I do?
2007-06-20 01:51:01 · 17 answers · asked by Justin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Aw, that's sad. I'm sorry. :(
I think what the person before me said is a good idea.
If you don't want to confront her personally, just tape it to the front door so she'll see it when she leaves for work...
she'll probably call you and then you can talk over the phone.
Personally, I would print it out and slam it down on the table when she was sitting there and tell her exactly how she made me feel.
Let her know that it broke your heart!
Have no sympathy if she tries to act like she's sorry... a good wife would NEVER do that to her husband!
Good luck with everything
2007-06-20 02:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by kb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on first hand experience on this you need to set down talk to her find out what her intentions are and what made her do it is there something missing in your relationship a fantasy or is she wanting out i just got through a ruff year with my husband of 10 years and i had discovered a lot of things about him that i NEVER thought he would be into we finally set down and talked about things you have to know her side of what she is going through yes it hurts and it will for a long time and the trust will take time to be there again have a talk with her and its going to be a long conversation but remember to do it with and open mind and heart and remember why you love her and love about her it could be just a fantasy make it come true if your willing to if not then communicate and tell her how you feel about it all make sure you print it out for proof when she denies it you'll have it hope all works out and good luck
2007-06-20 08:59:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you should do is confront your wife about it! You need to find out why she has put her self on lava life. I personally think that those type of things are a recipe for disaster in a marriage. If you don't talk to her about it then you can't really decide on your next step. Make sure you stick to what you think is right.
2007-06-20 09:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by Sara M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself a profile and leave it right up on your PC. If she says anything tell her you've had it for awhile and see how she reacts. Later admit you haven't but wanted to show her how it feels and that it's wrong. Ask her why she was doing it, show her the date of your account creation to prove it's new.
2007-06-20 08:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lavalife account for yourself and try contacting her. See what she does. I love akward moments.
2007-06-20 09:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by zeppelin412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, is she on there just to make friends, does your profile specifically say that "I'm just here to make new friends" or is does indicate that she's really looking for love? In that case, maybe you should re evaluate your marriage and seek some counseling.
2007-06-20 08:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by oplumey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband's on personals, which is a singles website. Maybe we can meet and discuss what we should do about this? Maybe their waiting until the right one comes along, then they'll probably leave us. I find this very disrespectful!!!
2007-06-20 09:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by 24Special 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to print it out and sit down and talk to her. Let her know what this is doing to you, and try to find out why she did it.
You two have some problems that need to be worked out or your marriage will fall apart.
2007-06-20 08:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print it out, and sit down with her for a long evening.
2007-06-20 08:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and find out WTF she is doing. Sounds like marriage counseling is in order.
Or you can create your own profile and set up a date with her. Like the story in The Pina Colada Song.
2007-06-20 09:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Aquaria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋