My husband and I split in March and he has a new girlfriend and he is already telling her he loves her. How does someone get over there wife in just a couple of months when you have a 3 yr old together and expecting one on the way? I am devistated, and by the way we sleeped together less than 2 weeks ago and he is already telling her he is falling for her and that he loves her. WTF
2007-06-20 18:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys don't always tell the truth. He says love. However, it may just be lust. Just remember this, easy come easy go. It won't last. I don't know how long it's been since your split but you should let him go. Find someone who appreciates you and makes you happy.
2007-06-20 18:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for him & move on. You feel bad because you messed up and why did you sleep with him? be happy for him and focus on you, your child and your life dont get all into his, hes moved on i do suggest you do the same, dont be that time of nosey vindictive ex. Why do you care if hes telling her he loves her, he and his are no longer your concern dear you two split up. You are hurt and resentful, yes that happens after a split or divorce but dont let it consume you. Plus you split for a reason didnt you? also why would you want a man who has a girlfriend and then sleeps with you, husband exhusband or not, hes wrong and confused and he does it cause you let him, either tell him you want him back which you are only being jealous and hurt you really dont want him back do you? or move on and mind your own sweety, dont settle , you deserve your happiness and so does he, even if its not together or to your standards-
2007-06-20 18:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be offended? You split with the husband unless you couldn't stand someone taking your place. It's that turf war thing. If you were so concerned about the kids, why split? He could still fill his father role unless you stand in the way.
2007-06-20 18:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be just a word, I do not think he means it, or he is trying to get over the pain. My bf left me, and got married 2 months after, how can he be married 2 months after the break up? I found out he did it to forget about me. He still does not love her. I think your man is a guy who can not be alone, had to be with somebody to ease his loneliness.
2007-06-20 18:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know this information? Perhaps #1 he never really loved you, #2 he feels you trapped him with babies, #3 he thinks the grass is greener on the other side
2007-06-20 18:07:17 · answer #5 · answered by Lupita 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WAKE UP HONEY! IT IS CALLED LYING! And he is doing a good job of it. My question is, 'WHY ARE YOU STILL SLEEPING WITH HIM? JEOPARDIZING YOUR HEALTH AND YOUR CHILDS?"
THE ONLY PERSON THIS MAN LOVES IS '''HIMSELF'''.
You need to resolve to divorce him. HE WILL NOT HAVE YOU OR THE CHILDREN'S BEST INTEREST AT HEART. GET ALL THE INFORMATION YOU CAN ABOUT THE OTHER WOMAN AND SUE THEM BOTH FOR ADULTERY. GET A GOOD LAWYER, NOT A CHEAP ONE AND MAKE HIM PAY FOR HIS WISHY-WASHY MIND. GOOD LUCK
2007-06-20 18:26:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't mean love the way you do. for him, love = lust.
my (now ex) husband of 25 years told me he was "in love" with a girl one week after telling me he loved me. go figure.
2007-06-20 18:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple-this man has no clue about what love really is.
2007-06-20 18:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys will say anything to get a piece of a##. He may be telling you that to upset you.
2007-06-20 18:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he is living a lie....he isn't over you...he has carried his feelings for you into his next relationship...it won't last...she will break up with him because of his lack of sincerity.
2007-06-20 18:13:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋