2007-06-20 20:25:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u really dont love ur partner - then, it's not wrong.
but, u know, whats wrong? u r keeping ur partner in darkness...thats wrong. u dont love her may be due to any reason, but, may be she loves u still -- so i feel, she has right to know at least u dont love her and u r in love with some one else.
if u dont love her, leave her - forget about society and others coz public memory is really short...they will forget soon....
so, dont sacrifice ur life and destroy ur partners life doing after maritial affair, either leave her and let her also find her love or try to discuss probems u r having....may be there is a solution of it.
2007-06-21 04:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is definitely wrong. Affairs and cheating hurt people more than you can know. End one thing before you start another if you feel you have to be with someone else. Or, take a look at patching things up with your current partner.
2007-06-20 22:07:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. If you don't have love for your partner, then you need to break the relationship. If we could just adjust our morals according to how we "feel", then we wouldn't have any morals. After all, what feels good for you feels very hurtful for others. Therefore, even by the loosest standards (harming others) your behavior is extremely wrong.
Let's not even get started on bringing a venereal disease home to your poor spouse!
Do not be selfish. Do things in a proper order. If you are unable to abide by your relationship, then do the other person a favor and break it. Otherwise keep your weiner in your pants and be a decent person.
2007-06-20 20:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking it is not wrong, and don't love your wife, then why would you get married in the first place? Surely you would have had even a small inclining of your true feelings for her before the wedding.
With marriage, I bpersonally believe that to decide on being with someone forever is to accept everything in the role - that is what "for good or for worse means.
2007-06-20 20:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right? Of course it's wrong!!! If you truly loved your partner you wouldn't feel the need to have an affair.
2007-06-20 20:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by jade_143 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is still wrong. If you do not love your partner then there is no use in staying together. You are just wasting each others time and will only end up hurting each other...
2007-06-20 20:37:51 · answer #6 · answered by LeaB 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's still wrong. If you don't love your partner, you need to either work on redeveloping that love, or getting out of the relationship completely before getting involved with someone new.
2007-06-20 20:29:11 · answer #7 · answered by Simmy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Leave, so what you're saying is you would ruin your partners life and those of the people you start a relationship with.
Isn't it about time you grew up?
2007-06-20 20:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't have the same feelings that you used to. It would be better to focus on your marriage and get closure on that relationship before thinking about getting involved with someone else.
2007-06-20 20:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by awesomewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know its wrong, are you actually looking for someone to agree with you or justify cheating? if you are that unhappy you need to separate before you hurt and betray your partner like that............
2007-06-20 20:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋