2007-06-20 18:00:35 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm just asking your opinion. I don't have this problem.
2007-06-20 18:12:16 · update #1
What a disgusting thought. Get a divorce!!!!! Or else do something to spice up your marraige, maybe she isnt all that happy either!
2007-06-20 18:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by melissaw77 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What are thinking???? Let me tell you something I have cheated a couple of times and ya it felt nice but then after I felt even worse even when I wasn't getting any. There is nothing wrong with looking but acting is a no no. Karma is a ***** and let me tell you it will come back 10 times harder. I promise you that. Maybe go out of your way for your wife, then you might get some. Do what ever you can to get what you need but not outside of the marriage, it will only make you feel like trash. You are better than that. And trust me on that one. I definitely think different about my past and I wish it never happened. But what can you do. Just really think about what you can lose out of that whole situation.
2007-06-20 18:11:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that's called cheating. You should talk to your wife and find out what the problem is. Likely she has some issues that are making her not interested in having sex with you. Sex problems are almost always signs of deeper problems in the relationship. Get some counseling if talking doesn't help. If that doesn't work, get a divorce and then, and only then, are you free to sleep with whoever you want.
2007-06-20 18:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
most therapist's will tell you that if a woman isn't in to having sex anymore she isn't happy emotionally. and if you make her happy emotionally she will want to return the favor. try respicing up your love life. plan an evening with out the kids, cook her dinner, draw a bath with candles a new peice of jewelery, what ever it takes. don't give up on your marriage, don't cheat, living with yourself afterwards will be much harder than you think. just over sex. find out what's bothering her that she doesn't have a drive anymore. listen to her when she talks, ask her, her opinion. it will do more than you think.
2007-06-20 18:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better find out WHY she isn't giving it to you! Talk to her in a calm, loving manner. Is she too tired, due to overwork? Is she ill? Do you have poor hygiene habits? Do you want things she finds too kinky? Has she fallen out of love with you? Do you treat her poorly, and only nice when you want sex? Get these questions answered! Either by yourself or with a marriage counselor. I know many women who avoid sex because their husband is abusive, either physically or mentally, and only wants to be nice when he's in bed. Until you can either fix what is wrong with the marriage which will result in sex with your wife, or get out of the marriage. Keep your pecker in your pants around other women while still married..
2007-06-20 18:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by grumpyoldlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest consulting with Rosy Palm and her five daughters. And also asking yourself whether she has a reason for not giving it to you. Is there, perhaps, something that's turning her off of you?
Work on your marriage, and you're more likely to get something other than a casual roll in the hay and massive alimony payments.
2007-06-20 18:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by triviatm 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex, right? Then no. You can live without it for a while and maybe even try to figure out WHY she isn't into it. Put some effort in to it, man! Making the rest of us look bad.
2007-06-20 18:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by bobble242 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not no, but HELL NO!!! Leave her, then get all the *** you want. It is never ok to cheat. Maybe there is a deeper problem. You ask her what she wants out of the marriage? There is always more to the story. Dig deeper, then maybe she'll want you.
2007-06-20 18:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would be called cheating. Maybe she is tired or you are not good in bed. There are alot of things to consider ask her what you can do to bring the sex back into the marriage. Marriage is more than sex!
2007-06-20 18:18:12 · answer #9 · answered by beckster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Your marriage is a commitment to her.
Be nice, super sweet to her.
How she is treated throughout the day matters.
Not just when you want it.
Women react to overall treatment the best.
But we have a keen mind about if you are just kissing up.
2007-06-20 18:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only with your wife's consent.
2007-06-21 02:00:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋