Im a stay at home and cannot help to be feeeling insecure... my husb has on his cell phone the no of his co-workers male and females thr females are2 that he works with and 1 that is from a totally diff. area code. I cant help 2 wonder if there something IDK. his company is having a grand opening and they are having this big event at work.. it will be catered and all... my Q is do companies allow them to invite there spouse bcuz he has not told me to stop by and he works 10 min from home. my women insticts tell me that there something IDK please help.
2007-06-20 19:42:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, confront him about it. Ask him about the numbers and then explain why you're asking. Discuss your suspicions and insecurities with him. Whatever you do dont just jump out and be the accuser. Talk it over and fully explain your side of things and have him listen to it all.
2007-06-20 19:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Your Ex Boyfriend 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him about the numbers of the two females and usually if a company is having a big event like a grand opening the spouse is invited. I would just ask him and if your not satisfied with his answer then just wait and know that every cheater gets caught.
2007-06-21 02:58:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There doesnt seem anything odd about having the numbers of co-workers. If he was up to something, he would try to hide it im sure. Ask him about the spouse at the grand opening thing and see what he says. It doesnt make much sense for him to try and hide his marriage though since you do live so close to his work and im sure he knows you could drop by anytime. He is prolly just busy with the opening coming up if he hasnt invited you. Just talk to him. good-luck.
2007-06-21 03:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by undone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with gut instinct please, but on a better note its okay to have oppostite sex friends and of course co-workes of opposite sex are in evitable but tell your husband how its making you feel. The fact that he isnt inviting you to his work event could be its all business or he has something to hide as his secretary or cowrkers indirectly about it like ask them are you going? who are you taking ?etc you know what i mean , get all dressed up and dolled up and go, dont make a scene dear its not attractive or appropriate and it could back fire it could make him angry if he feels you arent trusting him and he could be doing nothing wrong but remind him he planted the seed of doubt in your mind.
2007-06-21 02:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are insecure, maybe you have too much time on your hands. Simple. Its a known fact that the work place is a breeding ground for infedility, so i would suggest thst you talk to your man, tell him how he feels and if he continues, then go get a job and that will help you see things from his persective and he you.
All the best my dear
2007-06-21 02:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by shezionae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, some thing fishy here. But hell, you might just be thinking too much. You should know your husband well enough whether to trust him or not.
2007-06-21 02:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by Maxis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy to me. Time to do some investigation!!
2007-06-21 02:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋