i am 20 years old men and i am in love with someone
2007-06-17 10:55:51 · 10 answers · asked by sangay tenzin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in the eyes of God it is, most people these days don't seem to care
2007-06-17 11:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 20, it's not necessary to jump into marriage. Date this person for another 4/5 years. If you still love her than, get married.
2007-06-17 18:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get married for the sake of getting married.Make sure the person is a good companion and friend and that you have the same goals and morals and beliefs,otherwise it'll be fighting all the time regardless of whether you marry or shack.Most the time when people shack it's with the curiosity of whether something better will come along later but your willing to settle for this for now.
2007-06-17 18:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her then why would you even ask this question? If you do, you would most likely want to marry her unless there's some real reason why you can't. Marriage is a commitment, and it takes more than love to sustain it sometimes. It also takes emotional maturity, a sense of responsibility, understanding, and discipline to maintain it. Do you think you are ready for all of that at this age?
2007-06-17 18:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Chivalrous Chubbu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you do not have to get married, you can live with someone and that is a lot less of a head ache than going thru a divorce.
2007-06-17 18:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it don't thing it has ever been necessary..People just do it because society says so. No one needs a legal paper to prove your love or commitment though in our world that legal paper brings benefits..People marry for benefits. i do not see the sense in getting married.
Listen to "Vicky" the one above me..
2007-06-17 18:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Life is FUn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no, its not necessary to get married. Why do you think that it would be or why would anyone think that its necessary? If you wanna get married, then do it, if you dont, then dont. Simple as that.
2007-06-17 18:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is suppose to be a wonderful experience however, speaking from personal experience it is better to not get married because someone warned me that when you get married things change immediately. I did not listen and now I regret I married my husband because he is a dead beat. Good Luck to you if you decide to get married..
2007-06-17 18:03:59 · answer #8 · answered by Vicky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God Gawd, NO.
You are too young. Enjoy being 20 and in love. It's great.
But you'll be 30 and in love, and 40 and in love, etc.
Do not get married so young.
2007-06-17 18:02:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never necessary...it's like AA--it's no there for those than need it, it's there for those that want it...your call
2007-06-17 17:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by beetlejuice49423 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋