She leaves me for a coworker after a long marriage. Only saying that she is not happy and wants a new life. When we talk she is nice but when her new lover comes into the room she acts upset with me and then when she hangs up she acts like she is trying to kill me with kindness like " OK have a great day!" It almost seems like she has a split personality. I just act myself to everybody and if they don't like it to bad. Why does she do this!!!!
2007-06-17 11:23:33 · 11 answers · asked by ramon s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She sounds like a manipulative phony; an actress.. If she left you for a co-worker after many years of a marriage, you're better off without her. She has no loyalty.
2007-06-17 13:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will get worse before it gets better brother.trust me!!
better to keep it all business,with no extra nicey nicey talk.make it clear your not friends,and you have nothing to say outside of the children.
once she sees you REALLY dont care anymore,she will change her mood.when she knows your not mopying around still loving her.she will turn on you.mine did.
i think she got offended..go figure.
i suggest..ALL BUSINESS..SHORT AND POLITE.NOTHING ELSE AT ALL.remember your children might be listening in.
man..good luck,your gonna need it.
dont let her manipulate the conversations either.if she becomes combative,tell her your hanging up and calling back at another time when she has grown up.
2007-06-17 19:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's psycho. Unless you like drama, good riddance. She doesn't have a split personality, she's just a game player.
Don't let her get to you. Remember the opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference.
2007-06-17 11:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she trying to make the new lover feel like you two aren't getting along to avoid conflict with him later. Pretty immature if you ask me. Don't change your ways be real and who you are.
2007-06-17 11:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's trying to keep you on the hook in case this fling doesn't work out. If your door is open she can come running back to you. She's not burning her bridges.
Do you have a match or lighter to burn that bridge?
2007-06-17 11:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by LAL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she only does that to you while the new man is on the scene, but when he isnt she acts all nice as pie. maybe its an act in front of him???
2007-06-17 12:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probally b/c she knows that she's made a mistake and she regrets loosing you but this new guy hasn't done anything wrong to her so she doesn't want to hurt him either. She's in between a rock and a hardplace.
2007-06-17 11:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Little Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? She's your ex for a reason. Unless you have children, try to avoid interaction with her.
2007-06-17 11:31:34 · answer #8 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had yourself a real head case there buddy!!! You should count your lucky stars she's his problem now.
2007-06-17 11:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by MotherMayI? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Another nut case!
2007-06-17 11:39:54 · answer #10 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋