18 years and two kids later, I cought my wife flirting on myspace. asking guys how big is their tool. what should I do?
2007-06-17 04:08:26 · 19 answers · asked by kenny60617 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask her why she feels she needs someone else then try to fix the problem. She is probably bored with the sex in your marriage and wants something new. Just be patient and listen to her without getting too upset or she won't tell you everything.
2007-06-17 04:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her your tool. Honestly, you need to talk with her and find out why? Is she just bored? Are you tired and not interested in sex? Has she gained weight and you have been sure to bring that up in conversation? There are lots of reasons. Most people don't think flirting around on the internet using a fake ID is cheating. Cheating occurs when you actually meet a person face-to-face from online. You also have to realize that the guy she was chatting with likely thinks she is about 21 or so. The internet is a place for fantasy. 60 year old guys say they are 35, 50 year old women say they are 24, 45 year old men say they are 13 year old girls, etc. If she is faithful to you, a good wife and mother, I wouldn't worry about it. Just ask a few questions and find out why she wanted to do it.
2007-06-17 11:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well would you rather her be asking that on myspace or at the grocery store? Look, it is no big deal. Myspace gives your wife the chance to be someone she's not. Chatrooms give us the oppertunity to say things that we normally wouldn't in real life. Respect her privacy......It sounds like she has been a wife and a mother for 18yrs and will continue doing that....let her have a few moments every day to be someone she's not. Trust her.
2007-06-17 11:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Uhg....... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is total horse crap. You should probably confront her about it. Or say something like, this girl messaged me asking about my tool, she's silly, I wouldn't let myspace get between you and I. To be quite honest though, I think she's having some harmless fun. If she starts meeting guys that's when you have to lay the smack down on.
2007-06-17 11:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by pacman_sex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my opinion but it sounds like there is no flame left between you guys and there is always a way to get that back. The worst you can do in a relationship is get in an everyday routine. Make sure you guys keep it new and exciting. She's probably just curious and wouldn't do anything outside the internet.
2007-06-17 12:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take her out more to give her less time to be on the internet. Sit her down and let her know how you feel see if she could put up with the idea if the shoe was on the other foot. It is all about respect and this is very disrespectful. YOu two really need to domore things together and give her more attetntion. YOu and her need to serious talk.
2007-06-17 11:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at your marriage to get it in perspective. Are you guys generally happy? Do you talk? Share interests? Get along? If so maybe it's just a little innocent flirting. After 18 years and 2 kids maybe she just wants a little boost to her ego (and I do mean innocent boost!!). Try letting her know how sexy YOU think she is. Good luck!!
2007-06-17 11:24:22 · answer #7 · answered by fallen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she feels something is left out of your marriage. Maybe she feels left out. After 18 years and 2 kids she probably needs some excitement in her life. Show her how you feel about her. Make her feel special. Maybe she feels you are uninterested in her so she feels she needs to look some place else. Take time out to do things with her and only her. Don't make it about getting pleasure all the time. Make it about giving pleasure to her.
2007-06-17 11:19:44 · answer #8 · answered by onyx_2009 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nip it in the bud! My ex-husband started flirting online and eventually met up with a high school sweetheart through the internet and now they are married with two kids. Dont let it go any further. Its very serious!!
2007-06-17 11:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion all that means is that she is a bit bored and is looking to flirt out of curiosity. Do not discuss it with her. Keep the respect and don't break down the walls.
You really need to entertain her in life a bit more. Go on more vacations. Spend time with her. Go to Europe or South America and enjoy life with her a bit more.
She will get over it.
Good luck :)
2007-06-17 11:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by Tourang B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋