2007-06-17 02:31:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would stay. A relationship with a woman is about love, not having kids.
2007-06-17 02:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly do you love this women, I mean if you leave her for something she has no control over what does that say of you? Not only will she lost the dream of having children of her own but she will have also lost the man she loves... I f you love her and want to have a life with her consider other options like adoption . Don't let that be your excuse for ending a realtionship.
2007-06-17 09:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If having a family is important, it would be a serious consideration. There is always the option of adopting a child, too. These days, there are many more options if one or the other in a relationship is infertile. Don't discount the possibility of a relationship on this point alone.
Best wishes.
2007-06-17 09:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of ways to have children without natural conception. Perosnally, If I had the choice I would probably adopt anyway. It's a nice thing to do plus it adds a bit of diversity to the family.
2007-06-17 09:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay .I fell in love with HER ,not the ideal of having a baby with her .
If you are a guy and you LEAVE ,then you are doing her a favor .
2007-06-17 09:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stay. If I am in love, I am in love with her. If we marry, it is so we can spend our lives together, not just to populate the world and prove my masculinity. If people were rude enough to ask why we didn't have children I would say, "I'll let you know ten minutes after it's any of your business."
2007-06-17 09:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by jack of all trades 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the feelings. If he doesn't want to adopt at all there can be an easy future for them, unless they both decide to stay childless.
2007-06-17 09:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lady G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I have better than a hand full of friends including me that have no children of thier own. Just ones from her previous incounters. Having to have our own is not as important as you think. So time to let this fear go.
2007-06-17 09:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlfriend? if i defiantely wanted kids that bad, then i would talk to her about adoption or something. you could leave, however, if it were your wife that could not have kids, then the answer would be no. i would think you guys already talked about that if you are married
2007-06-17 09:36:03 · answer #9 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love him more that having your own children? If you really love him stay with him and adpot, if not the leave. You will both be better off.
2007-06-17 09:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋