ive known this guy for 6 months.
i asked and he wouldnt give me a direct answer. he said he'd call me that night..and he never did. that was 2 weeks ago.
2007-06-17 03:16:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
SHOULD I CALL HIM??
2007-06-17 03:17:13 · update #1
you should call him ONLY if you want to continue having a no-strings-attached physical relationship. if this works for you, and you don't want ANYTHING more, give him a call.
he's sending you lots of messages, and all of them say 'don't expect anything more from me'. it sounds to me like you may want more out of a relationship than just fooling around every few weeks. if that is the case, forget this guy (easier said than done, i know, but it's the best thing for you) and spend your time and energy on guys who want the same things from relationships as you. you deserve better than someone who doesn't communicate clearly and then blows you off.
2007-06-17 03:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by babycakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means: >"We have been enjoying a at the same time as in the past, do no longer ask stupid questions. i will call you next time i want your physique".... Or some thing like that... ...Oh, btw, it takes an aspiring FF/ BC/ FwB approximately 3-4 weeks to call a clean "member" (b00ty), to "make an apology", -enjoying you suitable- once you're nevertheless "bowled over" and arranged; understanding that, after that quantity of time, you will awaken, and initiate getting greater indignant known, from then on....and lowering his opportunities with the aid of the minute... purely you realize in case you proceed what you have started, and alter into his kcuF-chum, or merely depart it as a one-night stand, lady! stick on your strategies, -or your hormones-, and robust success (or, g'd F'ck ?) Regards
2016-12-13 05:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you really expect him to? You gave a guy an option when you told him "friends or what?". Thats like looking for a committment to a guy. Friends details committment and what is just plain whatever meaning a less committal answer. He probably figures if he ignores you that youll go away and get the picture. You probably have just learned a lifes lesson the hard way;the difference between men and real friends
2007-06-17 03:26:03 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't mean anything. He was avoiding your question.
No, don't call him.
I think you scared him enough with your question -- he didn't call you when he said he would, remember?
Just let it go for now, let him call you.
If you're tired of being "friends with benefits," break it off and tell him why.
If he really wants you as a girlfriend, he'll have to make it clear then.
This worked for me - sometimes you have to force the issue with an noncommittal guy. And the only way you can do that is to make a decision about what YOU want.
2007-06-17 03:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, see, he thought he had a good thing going because you would fool around with him and didn't expect anything.
The second you asked for a definition of the relationship, he thinks you want a commitment.
Because he's not called you in 2 weeks, that tells me he does not want a commitment with you.
Find a new guy.
2007-06-17 03:20:22 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're having sex with a man that you've only known for six months, that you have no commitment with, and who can't even answer a simple question on whether or not you two are friends? You must have absolutely ZERO self respect. I suggest you grow up, use some common sense, and save the sex for a guy that is willing to commit to you and bring some true happiness into your life.
2007-06-17 03:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
REALITY CHECK..........The guy got what he wanted. And you gave it to him, but that's all he wanted. Learn from it and move on. Think of it as a time that two people were lonely and those two people helped each other out. You will find another guy that will stay with you, fall in love and so the story goes. Let the past lay. It's a done deal. Look ahead to the future.
2007-06-17 03:28:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. do not call him. date other people. he was using u as a mattress pad. so suck it up and date more people with out sex so fast.. wait and value your sex. it is very intimate to have sex early on and devalues the relationship. If aman wants sex after or within 3 dates, that is what he wants, sex, not u. but if he waits and is patient, and lets u in vite him to ur body then there is hope, but do not ever get stuck on a guy cuz of the sex, but because he is more than that.
2007-06-17 03:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by spotlite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call him dont let him draw you in that way. He obivously doesnt wnat anything else but to fool around with you. If he really liked you he would be more attentive to you & answer your calls etc. Dont fall into a trap where you look like you "need" him find someone who is really into you. Goodluck
2007-06-17 03:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by fckalltheuglybtches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously thinks of you more than "just a friend." This might of embarrassed him, and you know guys, when they get embarrassed, talking about it might just make him feel more embarrassed. The big picture: He's afraid that if he talks about it he might blow his big chance with a beautiful young woman.
2007-06-17 03:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by laughlots101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋