My husband doesn't want to sleep with me anymore, is our marrige over?

Answer 1

You and your husband are having some serious issues. I am so sorry you are going through this. Have you tried to talk to him again? I am not sure what things you are doing in or out of the bedroom, but have you tried doing things different. Do you come on to him? Do you wear sexy lingerie or try and change up the scenery?

It really sounds like your marriage is in desperate need of change. It is sad since you two haven't even been married that long. Hope things change for you. I still think you should be faithful to him to the end. Do not step outside your marriage. If you have exhausted all avenues then divorce him and move on.

Answer 2

Maybe. It depends on a lot of things, but mostly do the two of you want it to be over? You will need to find a way to talk about it, though that can be awfully hard. It could be depression, or another physical reason like diabetes, or something.

It isn't always another woman, though people are happy to tell you that for some reason.

Mine hasn't slept with me for two years and now is in a different house, even, and he still doesn't want a divorce. He is mentally not so hot, very depressed and won't seek help, so I think I am going to call it quits finally. But I wouldn't have until he moved out.

Good luck to you, my sister. I sometimes hate the opposite sex for how they mess with our heads.

Answer 3

It's partly up to you . He may not want to sleep with you because you snore or he just can not actually get any sleep .If he does not want to have a sexual relationship with you then I would be worried . Has something traumatic just happen like him getting fired from a job or loss of a family member ? Is there a lot of arguing going on between the both of you ? Marriage is a lot of work . I would try to find out whats going on to make him feel this way . Listen to him , I mean really listen .

Answer 4

well how old are you? it sounds like he might be getting it elsewhere, because i don't know any guy that doesn't want sex. not to be rude but did you get really fat or anything? talk to him hon. ask him straight up is he sick of you, is there someone else? you will get a gut feeling if he is lying so just trust what your instincts tell you. try putting on a really nice perfume(Britney's Fantasy is AWESOME!!!) and nightie and initiate something. guys love oral i'd try if i were you, maybe he wants to do it differently. try different positions. a good one is have him lay on his side you lay on your back, (your bodies will make a T shape) entwine your legs around his top one, and it feels really good like that.

Answer 5

Ask your husband why he doesn't want to sleep with you anymore. Ask him if he is sleeping with someone else. Ask him what can be done to change this bad situation.

Answer 6

has he told you why he don't want to sleep with you anymore,
some ppl get along and live out their married life not sleeping with each other or he could have found something that interst him more,
Best bet is to talk to him and remember there is no point in having a fight over it.

Answer 7

it depends how old you and your husband is, hell alot of husbands and wives don't sleep with each other, but it doesn't mean your marriage is over. Get a grip!

Answer 8

That happens in marriage get used to it. He should sleep with you at least once a week, or try at least. Plus I'm sure he has sex with you occasionally, your just more sexual than him and exaggerating saying he doesn't want to sleep with you.

Answer 9

I really believe that sex is a good indicator of where you marriage is at. Get on top of the situation right now or you won't have any chance at all.

Answer 10

No, he's probably just tired or might have alot on his mind. I go through times when i'm like that but i still love my husband. Just talk to him about it. I'm sure it's nothing.