2007-06-17 03:36:06 · 25 answers · asked by sarah@520 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, sounds reasonable to me, unless the woman has given birth and has a new baby.
2007-06-17 03:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi there,
Sex between husband and wife "can" often be an indicator as to how the two people are getting along, how the relationship is healthy or otherwise.
The other point that i feel needs to be said is nobody should have to give over sex, as that is a sacred intimate part of the relationship ( and also the thing most people hold sacred).
If you don"t feel like sex don"t it will make the relationship healthier because you will be forced to comfront what ever it is that is making you reluctant.
As for the hubby demanding sex tell him to wake up and smell the coffee your not a part of the furniture or something he can just "bully" around this isn"t the days whereby a husband could play the Card of His Marital Right..
He sounds like a real treat, stand your ground!!.
And all bullies are only powerfull when they have there Prey scared.
Your his Wife not the Dog, or an underling at his work..
Also in marriages nobody said it is easy, you have to work at it, and sexual intimacy goes through hills and valleys..
good luck
2007-06-17 03:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Adrian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you about yourself, You want your wife to be June Cleaver the porn star. Meaning you want her to work, cook, clean, take care of the kids etc. but act like a porn star the minute you want to have sex. You on the other hand think you can go anywhere and do anything you want but not your wife. You think you are never wrong, yours is the only opinion that counts, you are smarter that your boss, you could run the country better than anyone else ever had, you are funnier, sexier, more good looking than any other man there is. How am I doing? Hit the nail on the head didn't I? Get over yourself you are just an ordinary butt wipe like the rest of the pigs out there that think like you do. And I do not believe a majority of the men think like you do. You are the minority. Get counseling. (You probably won't because you think there is nothing wrong with you.) My EX-husband was just like that(you) Try giving instead of taking all the time!
2016-05-17 22:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women will demand the husband for more. But wih age, women tend to ask for lesser and lesser sex, this is often associted with virginal dryness which is common in aging women, as long as ample foreplay and good lubricant is used, even women up to 60 or 70 can enjoy good sex, for me, im 25, a horny age, 3 or 4 times is not good enough for me.
2007-06-17 03:44:34 · answer #4 · answered by jade s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say he demands sex, well that's not how things work in an equal relationship. You refer to it as sex not making love. If you dont want sex then just say no Sounds like there are other things that he demands that make you unhappy about the sex.
2007-06-17 03:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Magster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am a man and I'll give you a man's point of view. If we ask for sex give it to us or you will find out later that we have to go elsewhere to get it and then you wonder why he is cheating on you. HEy 3 or 4 times a week is too much. I have sex everyday and if my woman denys it to me I will look to find someone who will give it to me. SO just enjoy the sex and remember that if not at home he will look.
2007-06-17 10:23:53 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep score. Sex 3 or 4 times a week is great if you both want to. Don't let him do you when you're tired or not in the mood. That said, though, let yourself be convinced or persuaded at least a few times, just so he won't stop asking you and start asking someone else. Remember, you don't have the only vagina in the world, and if you deny him access to yours, he will find others. He obviously likes sex, a LOT, and you need to be his sole source. Good luck.
2007-06-17 03:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by David W 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It shouldn't be a case of 'demanding' and 'giving in' as you are suggesting in your question.
It should be a case of mutual desire for each other to engage in a sexual encounter.
But as others have said, 3 - 4 times a week is not a huge request.
2007-06-17 03:42:49 · answer #8 · answered by localzuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-17 03:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ask Me Anything! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. If he has been nice to me, I'd give him not only 3 to 4 times a week but 3 to 4 times a day!
2007-06-17 03:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by salsa 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
3-4 times a week is nothing, of course i'd say yes
2007-06-17 03:38:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋